Head/heart battle!!! Started by: Anonymous

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  • Anonymous
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    I was meant to go for my first consultation on Saturday but totally chickened out!! I just don’t know what to do …… I have my little boy already who is nearly 4 and I’ve wanted my boobs doing ever since I had him!! I was completely up for having them done by December this year! But totally Gone backward on that now!! :( I just keep thinking would it be more sensible to have a second child and have my surgery after that- I know i only Want 2 kids! Just seems such a waste if 4 grand if I have it done and ruin my new boobs with another pregnancy!! Anyone out there who’s had a ba and then a child!! Oh god I don’t know what to do!!!! HELP xxx

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    Aww hunni i feel for you. I think you need to do what you think is best. Why don’t you go for your consultation and discuss all this with the surgeon. You’ll be in a better position to judge then xx

    Anonymous
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    I think if I ended up going for the consultation is definitely want it done!! Think I need to talk with the boyfriend- but he doesn’t do serious :( x

    mm26
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    Hi, I have a young son and personally i dont want anymore children, but if i did i would definatly wait until i had finished having a family.

    The surgeons will ask you if you are having more children, they can only advise u its your choice.

    I suppose you need to think about when u want a second child? If its not for a while then you might not want to wait, but if its it in the next couple of years maybe waiting wouldnt be such a bad thing. Only a suggestion.

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    pmc123 2
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    I was exactly the same as you. I decided to wait and my surgery is on Thursday. Time flies! Best things come to those that wait (apparently) so I’m hoping for great new boobies!!!!! Xxx

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    I was the same..after my 1st son i went for consultation and surgeon said DEFO wait till after ur finished with babies coz it will affect the result, i was mega gutted coz i wanted them there and then but i decided to wait…now after 2nd child and ready to book up, BUT saying that, my friend got her boobs done last year and fell preggers in same month, and her boobs look perfect to me! She says they still sag a bit but i dont see it lol they r perfect!but i think the sensible thing would be to wait, its alot of money to end up not happy in the long run with them x

    Anonymous
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    I think you ladies are right!! I’d got myself so excited for having surgery etc- then just thought about it laterally! I just don’t know when I want another child though! Me and boyfriend been together a year and a half and I’m not sure I’m ready yet! Who knows it may be next year it may be 5 years! I just feel like my body and my confidence is being put on hold in the mean time!! It’s a difficult one xx

    tracy2010 1
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    Hi I am in a similar situation to you. I don’t have children yet but will probably start trying in the next couple of years. (I am 32!!!) I’ve wanted my boobs done for as long as I can remember. I had my first consultation 2 years ago, then decided I should wait until after Id had my family. Couldn’t stop thinking about it after that…. And now 2 years later im getting them done on 22nd September. I just think life is too short and I wanna enjoy my boobs now. Who knows how long it will take to get pregnant etc etc. Discussed my concerns with my surgeon who said in an ideal world it would be better to wait until after you’ve had your family but with a good support bra and plenty of bio boobs should not be affected that much. Im not planning on breastfeeding tho so maybe that helps? Also, Ive been told that if you’re not planning on breastfeeding you can get a tablet that stops the milk coming in although I haven’t looked into this properly.

    Good look with your decision xx

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    Oohh I’ve never heard of that tablet hun! Would b interested to find out more, although I’m 21 (22 in oct) my son is 4 in nov and k don’t really fancy a 10 year gap between my kids- I think I’m gonna have to have the big sit down chat with the bf about what we both want- k can’t put up with these boobs much longer!!xxxx

    tracy2010 1
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    I don’t know much about the tablet, I’ve only been told about it.

    Yeah Im sure you’ll feel better once you’ve had a chat with bf, at least then you’ll know what he wants too. xx

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    babe look at katie price.. she had her boob job then 3 kids and her boobs still look fab…. also boob job shudnt effect breast feeding etc. i say if uve wanted the boobs done for so long then get them done babe. u can still have another kid and chances are ur boobs will still look fab. theres loads of celebs who have had boobs done then have kids.. look at melinda messenger. i wudnt worry xxxx

    Anonymous
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    Hasnt katie price had hers re-done a few times though?? oh i dont know im sooo blooming confused! I think ill have to book another consultation. May help me to make my mind up xxxxxxxxxxx

    Anonymous
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    i think there is no pleasing katie price to be honest…her boobs look awful now, she should have left them alone xx

    hush 1
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    Jordans had 3 or 4 ba’s

    Anonymous
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    she looks like a plastic barbie now…and she has a mouth like a horse…she was actually quite pretty before she had all that surgery x

    tracy2010 1
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    Alex curran (gerrard) and Danielle Lloyd are gud examples of BAs before babies xx

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