Help!!

😯 I’m getting sooo scared….what if this is the worse thing i do and i totally ruin my body…getting major second thoughts and my op is on wednesday…reasurance needed please!! Are you all really happy that you went through with it? xx

Absolutley, and i went through exactly the same emotions as you, i got really scared.

but the strongest feeling underneath was that i wanted to do this for myself and make myself feel better about myself.

I even had a dark night of blues about 2 or 3 days after ,

But im so glad i did it , and there is nothing in the process that you cannot cope with and get through.

think positive , positive, positive > XXX

hi Fiona84

I really do understand how you feel because when mine comes on the 10th July i will be exactly the same..

I shouldnt be though because i have a ba 5 years ago… now i am going even bigger…

5 years ago i have 270cc overs with transform and the surgeon was mr kazzazi,and i had it done at highgate, the staff were amazing, i was so nervous i nearly got up off the bed before they put me to sleep, but i knew deep inside i had to do it for myself to give me confidence and feel a real woman.. i used to hate going out with all my friends and they wore low cut tops etc and i couldnt, just think of all the fun and confidence you will have for the sake of a hour in surgery…. it will be worth it believe me…

anyway 5 years on and im having my second ba at birmingham and having 525cc overs.. i am sooo scared again but i ask myself why because i have already been through this…. i aint looking forward to having it done.. but i got to have it done again as i have had a child since i had my last one and put on a bit of weight so i feel out of porportion again.. plus i have 1 boob bigger than the other and this has left me with hardly any confidence once again….

so please dont be too scared because its all worth it in the end

Honestly….x

hope this helps

jemm28

Thanks girls…i could honestly cry i’m so scared! Its not so much the op as i have had a couple before, but all i can think is what if something goes wrong and i have to have them taken out and i’m left with two stretched boobies. Or just if i had to have a re-op a few weeks down the line, don’t know what i would do with work as i’m self employed…there are so many what ifs but i’m trying to think of how amazing it will be if everything goes ok. Its just hard cos all the negative thoughts keep taking over xxx

positive positive positive !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! xx

hehe thanks Tink! xx

Hey fiona, i can honestly say. U sound exactly like me 4 weeks ago. Its mad i’ve wanted it done ever since i can remember. Then the week before i was considering cancelin the whole thing. I kept thinkin why would i want 2 put my body at risk when im perfectly healthy. And all i wanted was a small implant so whats the point in all that money and lifelong checks. BUT i can say its the BEST thing i’ve ever done. I cnt explain the feeling its just amazing 2 look dwn and have natural looking breasts. They look so good. And i had no pain and they feel soft already. U will not regret i promise! I had a panick attack the nite before the op i was so scared so your feelings r normal. Good luck let me kno how u get on! xx

fiona iv been sick twice tonight babe im just so nervous eveeryones been on the wrong side of me today its sooo awful.

i just know WE cant back out as we been counting down for too long now and itl be soo worth it in the end. xx

Oh my god Shelley, you poor thing. Hope you ok. I think if i did back out i’ll only want to do it in the future. Then i’ll have to go through all this again. Its just so scary, i hope in a couple of days or evens months i’ll be saying i’m so glad i did it.

Everyone does seem to feel like this don’t they, thats what i’ve been thinking as well Manda why put myself through it when apart from the size they are actually ok and i’m healthy. But then i so want that feeling to feel good in any clothes and especially bikini’s…already thinking of where i can go on holiday in September, somewhere nice and hot to show them off!

I just can’t believe i’m doing it. Did you have unders or overs Manda?

Thank you everyone and good luck Jem for your re-op, it won’t be as bad the second time round i’m sure xx

I’m self employed too & run a business, + 2 kids. had exactly the same feelings as you & nearly cancelled it more than once!

Had op last Fri (best thing i ever did btw!!!)

Was worried about workload & letting people down, so I told customers i was in hospital (no need to explain why) & they were very understanding & said they’d wait for their job.

In fact the ones who asked me why, are most pleased for me & are wishing me well!

I had the most ridiculous thoughts ‘somethings bound to go wrong with mine’ etc.

Happy to talk to you on phone if you like – let me know & will post email or my website on here so you can get in touch.

Good luck, you’ll be just fine & like the other ladies say ‘think positive’ xx

Good luck to everyone who is having theres done and congrats to you all who have already had your BA! Ive got that nervous excitement!! Mine’s next Thursday Xxx

Aww Nancy that would be great to have a chat…i’m just so nervous. I know the excitement is in there somewhere though hehe! my e-mail is fiona-84@hotmail.co.uk.

Thats what i’m worried about too, i hate letting people down, i’ve just told them all i’m on a long holiday, but some can be funny about it.

Glad to hear you are feeling so good about yours, hope everything is ok for you.

Good Luck Lucylu…it will be here before you know it! :-)xxx

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