You have’nt offended anyone,I can see why you are worried honey,so many negative posts on the forum lately,you are bound to worry,especially since you are not having surgery until next year.You will have the support you need,if you calculate how many members log in to the forum,and measure the positive posts with the negative,you will see that the positive wins hands down.
Having BA is a huge decision to make,you need to feel happy and confident with the company you choose,spend some more time on the forum,see how much support is given,and how issues are resolved, then make your mind up from that,feel free to message me anytime honey.xxx