Help ladies I'm so stressed

Hi everyone..

I’m exactly one week post op and I noticed by the third day that I had one boob bigger than the other.. This was my second ba as I had one 5 years ago and had 250/270cc I had gained weight and had a child and one boob was bigger than the other.. The reason I went for a second ba was because one was bigger than the other.. Bur you can still see that I’m just exactly in the same position as before.. Except I am bigger.. I had 560/525cc natrelle. Does anyone know where I stand in getting a bigger implant in one… I know it’s early days etc but I do not have any swelling now they are softening up nicely and my scars and fab! I just am dissapointed with the outcome.. I’m so stressed about it I cry all the time.. I hate getting dressed because I can see the difference through my top.. I just don’t know where to turn or anything.. The staff at the hospital were great but the staff at the clinic are crap they don’t give a shit putting it bluntly they are as too faced as they come… I am married with 2 children and have been misrable since the day I noticed.. I just don’t want this situation affecting my relationship with my family.. All I want is it correcting there is at least an inch diameter in difference.. Does anyone know my rights on where I stand with this.. I can’t stand this much longer I can feel myself going down hill fast., all I want is to be happy .. I paid £4595 out got this and it ain’t fair.. I feel that I can’t speak to my care coordinator as she is just too faced and would never try ANC sort it for me cos everytime I ring she is busy all the time and it’s days after when she finally picks up the phone to ring me back..Does anyone know if you get a follow up with your surgeon? Or how I can go on sorting this out..I don’t even want to go out anymore..

Many thanks ..

Jem..

Hi Jem

Who did you have yours with?

They will tell you to wait abit longer, they will say its early days so they wont do anything at the mo.Its horrible i know, but i am just trying to be patient with mine

Email them and keep a copy of the email.

Sharon x

hello i have just read your story and think you must be suffering terrible , i do think it is early days though. when i went to see the nurse on Tuesday she told me that when they put the second inplant in they fiddle to line it up with the other so sometimes take a little longer to settle down . I think that once you return to see your surgeon if there is a massive difference he will correct this , please try not to get to down , phone there head office and tell them your care cordinator is not helping you thinking of you take care x

Hello Jem,

I think that if you werent warned of this implication to such an extent that you should in your rights be eligable for corrective surgery. think my friends mum had hers corrected because of something or other and she just paid like £500 for the anaethetist etc. Fingers crossed for yuu xx

Hi Jem

I spoke to the clinic today where i had mine done and they said that my surgeon will not discharge me until i am happy. They have also said more than likely he will suggest wait at least 6-12 weeks before he goes back in due to the risk of infection and scar tissue, so im just gonna go see him at the end of the month and play the waiting game.

The only thing i need to do now is ensure that i wont have to pay for any of the corrective surgery

By the way….. i nipped in asda today to pick some bits up and out of interest id ecided to try a bra on to see what size. anyway my right boob wont sit properly in the cup and the top of the bra gapes whereas my lef tis fine. So its obvious soemthing isn’t right

Hi Sharon

that’s nice to know then.. Like you said I will have to wait a while to see what happens. I go to see the nurse Tuesday so I will mention it to her.. Where snouts are you from and where did you have yours done?.x

jem

That’s to all of you for support and advise it’s really much appreciated..

I hope I do get it sorted.. All I want to do is feel really happy and feel like I’m a woman..

Jemx

Hi Jem

I’m from warrington, cheshire.

I had it done at a place called rightchoice healthcare uk, i honestly dont blame the surgeon or the company coz these things do happen and i do feel that they will correct it,they have been really quick filling me in to see my surgeon and have replied to my emails really quickly.

I am glad i have took pics each week coz i am sure they are getting worse, the fullness is going. Its weird looking down on them they look perfect,couldnt ask for better, and the touch of them feels great but stand back abit and its well obvious, also i can feel the size difference

Where are you from and who did you have yours with?

Hi Sharon

I’m live on the boarder between Nottinghamshire and derbyshire.. I had mine done with the hospital group. I also don’t blame my surgeon he was really nice.. But he knew when I went to him why I wanted it doing again and the reason was that I had one boob bigger than the other.. I know they can’t get them perfect but I didn’t expect this…if I knew this was going to happen I should of just stayed the way I was because I was still a c cup with the implants I had in before.. All he had done is taken me to a e/f cup but with still size difference in my boobs.. I just hope when I see him he realises that he has not achieved the look I wanted and that he is not happy what he has done.. A good durggon will want his work to be right so Im sure I will find out when I see him..xxx

Jemxxx

Hi Jem

When are you going back to see your surgeon?

I agree with what you said about a good surgeon wanting his work right, i was told that i will not be discharged until i am happy, so that has reassured me alot. The thing is i go on holiday soon and i just hope you wont bea ble to see the difference when i have a bikini on.

I don’t know when I go back to see my surgeon yet, I will find out Tuesday when I see the nurse… Have you measured each boob yo see what difference there is? Might be worth doing.. Mine is about an inch different which I think is alot..xx

jem

Let me know how you get on with the nurse. An inch is quite a difference isn’t it.

How do i measure each boob? xx

Just get a tape measure and measure it from where you implant is under your arms into the middle cleavage area where it ends

let me know how you get on..x

I’ve tried doing it but cant get a good measurement coz my right is alot lower than the left. But the measurement i have managed to get has given me a 1.5 inch difference if i have done it right. I have also measured the drop, my right is dropping an inch more than the left.

yes it sounds like you have done it right… mines about the same its crazy..

its red hot today and i wont even wear a vest top thats how horrid i feel about it..

i hav no confidence now..

i will tell the nurse tomorrow..

i feel really fed up…

jemxxxx

The thing is im nearly 3 weeks post op and i have been told that there is still time for the left one to catch up, too be honest i dont want it as low as the right one and its not just that, the reason for me having the ba was to get rid of the loose skin and wrinkled look, now they have dropped it has all come back, so i reckon the implants weren’t put in high enough.

I just know it’s wrong and its getting me down knowing that i have to wait and im going on holiday soon, dread to think what they look like in a bikini.

I am seeing my surgeon on the 30th july, so the day before, i am going to get measured properly and take them with me. Also i have been taking pics weekly and the difference is so obvious am also going to show him the pics.

Pity cant swap phone numbers can have a proper chat then.

I really feel for you, i completely understand what you are going through.

Yes we can exchange numbers I was thinking that myself actually as we going through the same thing I will email it to you..xx

Sent my number to your email..xx let me know when you have got it…

Thanks

jemma..xx

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