Help me am I abnormal? Off topic

The other day I heard the doorbell. It was morning and my husband had just left to take my children to school. I was in my night gown jus bra and knickers underneath. I thought it wd be the postlady so I just answered the door. There stood at the door was a man who has been flirting with me a few times. He is married and so am I. I was so shocked to see him at my door as I hardly know him. He had seen my husband drive off and down he came. He asked if I wanted to walk my dogs w him? He kept looking me up and down and saying wow etc you are beautiful. Then he asked for a hug. Alarmed I gave him a hug then he asked for a PROPER hug – tugged my belt open and put his hands inside my gown and around my back on my bare flesh without touching essential areas;) but he rubbed my back as part of the proper hug then said did I make his day? He had aftershave on at 830 am and he works on a farm. My husband returned only minutes after he left! I was stunned and shocked but what should I have done? I can barely believe he came to the house let alone the next few minutes. My husband thinks I have a self worth issue but he was good about what happened and promised not to go see the guy! Anyone tell me what I should have done? Is there something wrong with me?

Haha i thought yuou were having a laugh when i read this. Are you serious? What should you have done? Slammed the door in his face and ignored his repeated knocking, then told your hubby a weirdo is stalking you. That’s not appropriate behaviour in any way shape or form. Even if you fancy him and were flattered by it, it’s still not normal behaviour for someone who truly cares for you. Ugh *shudders*

No there’s nothing wrong with you. In the heat of the moment sometimes it’s hard to know how to react x

Bless you. It really happened. It was a few days ago and it’s left me feeling crappy about myself. I thought he was a really lovely person and just on charm offensive and a flirt. I didn’t expect or encourage him to my door!!!!! I haven’t seen him since but be lives locally

That is way beyond flirting. To purposely wait till your hubby is out then touch you like that. No, just… NO!

If he saw you on the street, and struck up a conversation then cheekily asked if you fancy going for a drink, then i can understand that. But what he did is not normal behaviour. Just forget it now. If he approaches you again tell him in no uncertain terms to leave you alone x

And the moral of this story: 1) always look through the peep hole before answering. Haha. xx

ahhh that dont sound good if it was me i would be telling my hubby to go have a nice word not a punch in the face just a nice word honest hun thats just not right xx

haha laurakate and anchovie theres nothing wrong with u hun but that guy defo got issues x

hahaha laurakate! i wouldnt worry about it. that happened and theres nothing you can do about it now! its not normal for him to be doing that, but theres nothing wrong with you ha, it was shock probably plus being first thing in the morning! x

Omg I agree with newb@@bies but don’t feel bad, it mustve all happened so quickly, bet you were in a right tizzz! He sounds like a right creep tho. If he comes near you again tell ur hubby asap. Stalker or what!!

Hope you’re ok xxxx

Thanks girls. My husband really knows me. I’m too soft and dont like to reject anyone. He thinks I’d allow a rapist I have to be stronger tho and grow a pair. Maybe the guy isn’t very bright!!! However I can’t allow this type of thing again

You’ll be more wary next time. You need to toughen up in situations like this. Don’t let it worry you further tho, it’s done now. You’re obviously a sensitive soul and your beating yourself up over this.

Please don’t open the door to him again tho. It’s not appropriate him dropping round and his intentions aren’t good xx

Your no way abnormal Hun!! It’s a very odd situation to be in and at the time if I was in your shoes I probably would gave completely frozen…..followed by a swift smack in the chops!! Lol! Honestly Hun don’t feel bad you aren’t in the wrong he is!! Xx

Thank you so much. I love you girls xxx

Must be cause you’re so hot, men can’t help themselves xx

Haha that’s what my husband said. Funny )))Lol

Lol, not abnormal hun but clearly so stunning men can’t keep their hands of you! Definitely be prepared to warn him off the next time you bump in to him though, some men are just to stupid and misread the signals or know you are too nice to offend them and take advantage!

Anchovie you nutter, that sounds like something right out of a Mills & Boon story hahaha!! But seriously matey, be careful..to many freaks around. xxx

Hee hee it is quite funny really eh

What a dirty perve. Maybe he should be on a register forthat sort of bad crack!

thats a forward guy that is! He obviously thinks a lot of himself!

U havent been wearing ur hubbys lynx have u? I have herd it has an adverse effect on women angels dont fall, rotten sleeze bags do!

Lol to the lynx xxxx

No way wat a twat! That’s wrong, your hubbys good too mine would be up for murder now!!!

Bet that well freaked u out?xxx

Part two to this story – this morning

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