Help!! Pregnant Started by: Jamie Leanne

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    I’m 9 weeks post op and just found out I’m pregnant. Not planned at all as I’m on the pill, how is this going to affect my new boobies? Xxx

    Jamie
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    They did say only advisory to wait a year but in sure it will be fine. Think im in the same position as you. I have had a negative pregnancy test but still haven’t come on my period yet 6 weeks late.and keep getting stomach pains like sharp pains in my tummy. I will prob by another test at the weekend as i did only buy a cheap one. Hope everything is okay for you though !!!!

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    Aww congrats Hun. It might be with the break uv had from it.. Takes a while for our body’s to get used to it again. I asked the nurse if i got pregnant sooner should i just wear my sports bra throughout & she said that’s a really good idea as it would stop them going saggy. So do that. Hope it goes well babe xx

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    Thankyou girls. It’s so much to take in at the min, my boyfriends just walked out on me and said he doesn’t know what to do as he doesn’t want it. Feel so crappy! I know it’s going to be hard but it’s happened, hope he does come round and speak to me again :/. Yeah I still have my 12 week check up so can ask then but yeah good idea about sports bra thanks. Xxx

    Rinx ♥ 4
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    Congrats!!!! Obviously they don’t recommend getting pregnant so soon but iv seen loads of girls that have and there boons have stayed perfect just wear really good supported bras and sports bras through out! As for your boyfriend walking out is. Bloody. Spiteful considering your the one that’s bloody pregnant lol but maybe he needs just to clear his head as it is a massive thing , and maybe think about yourself as well is it the right thing etc ! But hope your ok xxx

    Kate
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    I think the main time that can be a pain is just after you have your baby when your milk comes in after 1st day and your boobs get so swollen with milk but I wouldn’t worry too much 🙂 just good bras and probably sports bras as soon as it’s born congratulations! Xx

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    Congratulations hun xx

    Laura 12
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    Congrats honey xx

    El
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    Oh wow congrats! Hope Your ok and everything works out… And that your bf makes it up to you for walking out!! Xx

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    Thankyou girls. I really hope he does, can’t imagine doing this without him. Fingers crossed my boobies stay ok lol xxx

    Lucinda
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    I wouldn’t worry too much lovely, my friend Caroline had her boobs done and fell pregnant 8 weeks later and she is now just a year post op with a tiny baby. Her boob still look amazing xx

    Jamie
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    Congrats Hun xx

    Casey 1
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    Congratulations hun. I’ve read stories where they didn’t actually change too much so with proper support, hopefully you will be fine. Seems like your boobs worked wonders then if they got you preggers!! Hopefully the boyf will come round once he’s had a chance to think about it. If not, well im sure you’re a strong woman who can handle it like so many others before ya xx

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    Thanks for your support girls. It’s only early days so don’t want to be telling so many of my friends yet, it’s nice to have this place to just get things out. Wel fingers crossed he gets in touch today xxxx

    Nikki 1
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    Congratulations and don’t worry about the boyfriend completely normal to react badly when you wasn’t planing a baby he will come round, the main thing I would say with pregnancy is definitely 100% protect your boobies as much as possible even if you have natural boobs they need proper support as they change so much, you will be absolutely fine xxxxx

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    Thankyou, I really hope so! He has a daughter already that he has nothing to do with but that was 5 years ago. I just think he’s going to do the same and leave me! I understand it’s hard for him but he’s older than me in a steady job on a decent wage whereas I’m a student earning nothing and sorta stuck now. I just don’t get how he can act like this when it’s going to affect me a million times more. I just hope he’s just in shock and comes round. I really want him to be there xxx

    Nikki 1
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    Awww I completely understand how you feel I’ve been in the same position with my eldest daughter, just try and talk to him and tell him to open to you just make him feel comfortable so he can be honest with you.
    Men are generally not the best at dealing with some situations and the fact he has a daughter that he doesn’t see May bring bad memories for him depending on the situation he was in.
    It will all come right for you one way or another things always do xxxx

    Faye
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    congratulations babe!!! make sure you put yourself first xxx

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    Thankyou, feels better to speak to someone about it all. Being early on I don’t want all my friends at home to know yet. I tried messaging him but he’s not replying :/ hopefully he will speak later on. Xxx

    Nikki 1
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    yh just give him time hes not going to able to ignore you forever some men are so stubborn at times. hope it all works out for hun xxx

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    Thankyou 🙂 xx

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    He’s finally spoke to me! He still doesn’t want the baby but promises he won’t leave whatever happens. Feel a little less stressed now! Sorry to vent all this here! It’s just I’m so early on so can’t vent it to my friends xxx

    Laura
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    Congrats 🙂 xx

    Nicole 1
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    Congratulations …..give him time ….my other half had a child by someone else and the custody issues screwed him up so much he said he never wanted more children. …when I fell pregnant it took a while for him to come round but it was the fear of losing his child again ….so let him get his head round it….while it’s you that also needs support….and men are simple useless creatures….I hope u have some good friends to lean on! Xxxx

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