Help!I have no idea what to expect. Any info fab! Started by: reallyscared

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    Hi girls,
    Thanks for taking the time out to read this. I have only just admitted I really want to have my breasts enlarged from a small 32C (on a good day…prob more a 32B as have lost some weight) to a larger 32D, but have SO many concerns and questions. It’s not something i can feel i can talkt to my friends and family about and i normally tell them everything. I have had a bad few years with depression etc and just feel so much better, got a great partner and finally settled in life (i’m 26) and think this may be the final step on the journey to contentment but i am PETRIFIED! My boyfriend is great but, well, he’s a man! So any advice to any of y questions would be so lovely.:
    Am I silly to only want one cup size increase? I am a size 8, 5’1 with hips and a waist and would like bigger boobs to have a real hour glass figure. HOwever, i am a teacher and REALLY don’t want my breasts to be too noticeable. No offence to all you gorgeous curvy girlies, it just wouldn’t suit me to be too big.
    How much is the risk of having to have another op few years after?
    I am planning to have kids in a few years… should i wait til after or have it done now and enjoy next few years?
    What are the scars like?
    Anyone else with depression tried it? Any emotional problems?
    Do they look natural?
    How long would it take to recover?
    Anyone managed to have it done and balanced having a bigger bust without anyone noticing they’ve had surgery?
    Sorry, so many questions. Thanks again and best of luck with your surgery
    xxxx

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    Hey,
    im booked in for feb and im really scared. don’t worry about it. its taken me 2years to go ahead and have the consultations. even now i have days where i think, do i really want it? but i do and i know if i don’t i won’t be happy. im a 32b at the mo and im 5ft 3 and im a size 6. im having 410cc overs and i should hopefully be a DD or a E! it takes time for them to settle and obviously if you wear the right bras then they should stay nice and firm. if you have unders then it takes a while longer for the implants to settle right because ther placed behind the muscle but over time, unders are meant to be better because the muscle acts like a sort of bra and so they don’t really sag that much. i would have prefereed unders but my surgeon said overs so im going to go with that.

    xxx

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    ooooooh and scars, my surgeon said that it should be about 2inches but apparently it don’t even look like a scar, it juts looks like a natural indent.
    and full recovery varies i think. normally 6-8 weeks

    xxx

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    thanks honey, with the scars do you mean about two inches accross? like under the boob? i suddenly had an image that it meant 2 iches into it and a massive gap! Haha! My anxious mind! best of luck with yours, got an appointment in a few weeks- was nervous even ringing up for that, worried i’m gonna cry all the way through it when really i’m kinda excited xxx

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    Hi there, i had ba 10 weeks ago- id wanted it for about 4-5 years (im 41!!!) its the best decision ive made in a long time, ive been married 20 years and with age my boobs started to lose gravity!! tell people you can trust – i did and people do listen and begin to understand why you want it done. dont be scared- id do it all again tomorrow. any size whether it one or three bigger makes a diference, im a size 8-10 (5′ 6) was a 34c but no volume at all, i had 460cc implants and its taken me to a 34dd- that doesnt sound a great deal bigger but to me they look 100 times better and suit my frame size. i dont know about a second op but ive heard a few girls on here discuss it.. you dont need to wait till youve had children- you want to enjoy them now!! mine look very natural – not round/ stuck on looking!! i was back in work after a week, by 4 weeks i felt much better- itching stopped but even now i still get a little numbness, my scars are going pinky i rub bio oil on each day. ive never suffered any emotional difficulties although im sure when you go for your consultation you can discuss this as its one of the questions on the medical sheet. please consider it- i would recommend to anyone. where is your nearest clinic? i am so very happy with the outcome. hope this helps, joanne xxx

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    No, its accross the boob. when i went for my consulation with the surgeon, he got a tape measurer and showed me how big it would be. the most awful part for me was showing my boobs to him, at first i was going to be sick cuz i hate them and only me and my boyf have seen them, but mr Adamo made me feel totally at ease. he had to tell me to put my top back on haha!
    i wanted to cry when i went ahead and booked it cuz its a major decsion but i really want them and ive waited long enough. whens your appointment??? let me know how it goes.
    My email is carly_tam1988@live.co.uk so email me if you want and let me know how your getting on and il keep you informed on mine.
    i found it hard telling my friends and i find that they don’t totally understand why im doing it. they all think im stupid so this is brill!
    Ive not told my family yet cuz they wouldn’t agree so il tell them after ive done it. haha

    xxx

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    Joanne – your stats sound pretty much the same as mine and I am panicing that 460s are going to take me to something ridicolous. I’m currently a 32A, would I be able to see some of your pics please? My e-mail is catangar@hotmail.com. Thank you x

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    reallyscared – whats your email address? :) I want to drop you a note about the depression thing if thats OK ?? :)

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    hi huni, my names paula i’ve wanted my boobs done since i was 17 i’m now 26 and getting them done with mya. I was meant to get them done in october but had to delay due to having a bad accident, i’m not waiting for a invasive shoulder operation so hopefully by july i’ll be able to have them done. I’ve had major depression problems over the years and anxiety problems and i am on antidepressents for this. I had a eating problem for a number of years aswell. I’m really down still due to current problems with work and the accident. They will look great hun it doesn’t matter if its only one size what ever you want thats all that matters and if you’ve had depression you know what its like to feel down and you’ll know if you need this. Not everyone understands depression and alot think its just stupid and that you should just give yourself a shake. Well i just hope they don’t have to go through it. My boyfriend doesn’t understand it he says i’m so lucky and pretty and i’ve got everything so why am i depressed but its not something i can help but i am trying really hard. If you’d like to talk more and i can give you some more details of my depression and stuff send me a email paula.hodgins@yahoo.co.uk. I hope this helps. Oh and yeah you can have another boob job if you want them bigger in the future but i’d advise going for your consultation try the sizes you might find you want to go up two sizes it will save you alot of money because if you did want them redone it is more expensive as they have to take the old ones out. xx

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    hi,

    you can have another boob job in the future if they change. If you have kids you should wear supportive bras all the time and get measured as much as possible, looking after them lots while you are pregnant reduces the risk of them changing too much…. i asked i was in the same boat!
    After my BA is did start to feel a little low about 1 week after. I just wanted to cry over nothing, think its just your hormones playing around! There was a few posts on here when i had my BA with a few of the girls that where post op feeling the same. I wouldnt let this put you off though it does go after about 1 week (thats if you get it) speak to your pc about it, make sure that peole know about it. My fiance didnt understand it at first but after a few days just got used to giving my hugs!

    i’d do it again and dont regret it for a min!

    hope this helps keep us all posted!

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    Hi all,
    Thank you SO much for all of your comments, you are all amazing and are really helping me through this. Had a really up and down week. Even got really down about the whole surgery thing, cried my eyes out, decided i don’t want it done and nearly cancelled my appointment! When really i know this is something really liberating that will boost my confidence and help me to feel a bit better about myself! Silly silly silly!
    Anyway, my email address is:
    flowerpotlaura@hotmail.co.uk
    as a few of you have asked and it’d be lovely to hear from you.
    Only a few weeks for my first, initial appointment! Woo! With transform though, does that mean you’ll throw me off a MYA board? Please not!

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