Hiding your breast?

hiya,

i’m just having a bit of problems cus i study here in uk but my mum lives in asia, she HATES any kind of cosmetic surgery, i’m thinking of having a ba in sept and will go back mid dec. When i go back home i really want her to notice the least i could, or not at all, i’m thinking of going from a B to D. Do you think i can hide then and are there any other ways i could make her notice my boobs less? its a very hot country so i cant wear hoodies lol

i dont wanna tell her either cus she will just get soooo upset and cries a lot and never gna understand me, she doesnt even want me to have a boyfriend and i’m 20 and she cried when she knows i have a boyfriend! (that’s how freaked out she is with eveerything in my life, so i guess i cant let her know i’m having a BA)

during easter break i convinced her that my boobs have grown a little bit (by wearing push up and stuffs) she said they have gone a bit bigger though, (when in fact they hadnt lol)

urgh, i really dunno what to do since i’ve always wanted a larger boobs, but its not for a showing off reason, i just want to have more confidence and i never told anyone about my BA (apart from my friend who might be looking after me after my opt and my boyfriend who lives far away…)

please please girls, i need your very honest advice since i cant talk about this to anyone, my friend said it’ll be fine and my boyfriend wouldnt really understand girly feeling..

hi hun, whilst it can sometimes be a bad thing to keep things from your mum, i really dnt think a little white lie would do any harm here, if it keeps your mum happy

if i was you i would wear a padded bra with stuffing, as you said you have done, whenever you send her pics or see her, and she’ll just get used to it and not think anything of it when you DO have the op….she probably wouldnt even notice!!

i’m sorry you have this to worry about on top of everything else….but i’m a mum of a 20yr oold and i know how protective we can be at times lol!!

good luck hun x x x

Your 20 your body still ain’t stopped growin she may just think they are bigger naturally my breast look smaller in baggy tops like my summer vests and smocks when your their put a few very padded bras in the wash or leave them layin round your room lol so she notices them lol
an thinks your stuffing your bra

When you do go across, wear either sports bras or non-underwired and non padded bras which should make them look smaller. And try to just wear loose fitting blouses if you can. Also buy some nice big statement necklaces that sit on your collar bone which is going to pull away the attention from your chest and onto the necklace.
At the end of the day if this is going to make you happy and more confident id go for it sweetie. x x x x x x

oh wow thank you very much girls, now i do have to change my style of dressing a little bit too lol
do you think loose dress with belts under my boobs would hide it too? cause loose top tends to make you look rather fatter too and eek, i dont like that
people are my country are super tiny and i’m taller than them and has a slightly larger build, so if i do a boob job i’m pretty much scared about looking huge too you know,

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