How did you tell your family and boss?? Started by: Annie

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  • Annie
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    Hi girls worried about telling family and my boss.. I don’t know how to word it?? Any tips?!! I shouldnt be bothered because Im doing it for me.. Just unsure what my boss will say.. I know they will try and change my mind!! Xxx

    nikki 2
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    i was always honest about the whole thing, i used to mess around nagging my dad for years to buy me a boob job for xmas lol so it came no suprise when i booked a consulation, as for my boss, i said i need a weeks holiday on 16th feb he said it was fine, i just everyone the truth, boss,friends, family even strangers lol. i love my fake boobs and im proud to have them and nothing anyone else said or done would have change that, if you’ve wanted them long enough other people dont matter, as long as it dont effect your work you boss cant say nothing xx

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    I told my immediate line manager, I have not told the managing director he has no concept of things he should not speak about to other people!! I have found out so much gossip from him, who’s pregnant, who’s having an affair etc

    He would combust if he had to keep a secret like that lol

    I have booked 2 weeks holiday and hopefully I will be fine to go back to work after that, if people notice and ask I will tell them the truth, but I’ll cross that bridge when I come to it!!

    As for family I told my sister who told my mum, my mum has been great, she said she was happy for me, I don’t think my dads side would be so understanding however I have always been my own person and always done what I wanted to do!!!

    Annie
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    Ok thanks, I was thinking to just book holiday. Your right its my choice!! Xx

    Stacy
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    I told one of my Auntties who loves to gossip – and she did all the hard work for me ;)

    Now everyone in my large family knows and it’s all out in the open I feel much better. Half of them didnt even say anything to me – just stared at my chest a lot, and the other half were either asking how I am and if it hurt or where i got it done how much it was and whether they should too! Lol

    Xx

    dominique88 -39
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    I only told like my mum dad and gran! Obv my bf that was it! I’m currently off from work the now and I told them it was a surgical procedure which is confidential to me so they don’t know exactly what I had done which is good! So I never had to take any holidays from work am on the sick. Xxx

    nannonx
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    i’m in the same position, just don’t know how to tell the family! they know i’ve wanted this for a long time but they’ve never really been that supportive so it’s going to be hard. just don’t know how to bring up the ‘mum i’m actually getting a boob job’ :S xxx

    Annie
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    It’s more my boss I’m worried about.. I know there will be some sly comments.. I think my mum will just be worried that it will go ok.. But when I seen my pc I said can I bring my mum in when I tell her so she has peace of mind, and she said that was fine :-) xx

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