How do I tell my dad!!! :-(

Ok so I’m having open rhino tomorrow with Mr G…got my head round it all and am certain

it’s what I want. Problem is I’ve not been able to tell my dad. He really wouldn’t understand &

wouldnt speak to me if I went ahead with it! Figured I’m better having it done then telling him

cos at least then he won’t be worrying about me.

Feel so so guilty now & wish I’d told him. Can’t help thinking that if something goes wrong it

will come as such a shock as he knew nothing about it!

Kinda hoping I’m just having last minute nerves thats making me more emotional!

God it’s so hard (((((

im sure he will still speak to you hun!! my whole family is against cosmetic surgery and iv just had a BA and iv been going on about having one since i was about 15 and i dont think they ever thought id go through with it but when i booked it they started to be more supportive although my mummy was very worried but now there fine with me . you dont want to go tomorrow all stressed and worried because of that , its best to get it over and done with it will be ok

good luck for tomorrow

x

Aw sweetie, just remember this is for you and will make you happy. Every dad wants his little girl to be happy, I’m sure he’d understand, even if it takes him a little time to come round. Could you perhaps send him a text or quick call in the morning and explain why you didn’t tell him sooner and how much it means to you?

Good luck for tomorrow, its your life and your body, he’ll still love you no matter what, thats what Dads do xx

Snap hunni. I also have took the same approach likewise my sister. He can see us after the BA lol !!. All the best too you, i am sure he will understand good luck with it xxx

Thanks everyone…means a lot xxxxxx

Just tell him. He might be shocked but if u say you’ve thought long and hard about it he will have to understand. Good luck!! xxx

most men dont notice things lol, just go for it without telling him and see if he notices, some people get nose jobs for medical reasons – you could also use that as an excuse xxx

I didn’t tell my dad till after the op because I was worried he’d make me cancel it. Not saying you should do the same, but I felt this was better for me because I got my op done and he jut had to deal with it instead of spending days/weeks tryin to guilt trip me and convince me to not go trough it by ignoring me etc. good luck hun, I found it hard keeping it a secret from him but I wanted the op so badly I couldn’t risk him blackmailing me to cancel x

allyxox – Agreed !! x

I only told my mom after the op, my dad still doesn’t know as he would not understand I think. But as gbbx said, most men don’t notice these kind of things. At the end of the day it is entirely your decision what you want to do x

Im in the same boat, told mum, she got a bit teary coz shes worried but she understands and is supportive because she just wants me to be happy. My dad will defo not be happy about it but im paying for it all myself and am old enough to make these decisions. You can understand why parents find it hard coz its kinda like youre criticising their work haha. Im sure once you explain how important it is to you and your reasons for it, he’ll just want you to be happy. Its just a shock to them when you first say it. Good luck chick xxxxx

Good luck huni u mite even be surprised wen I told my dad about my ba he rly surprised me ! I went to my consultation and he came to my house after and was asking how it went and asking me questions and my dad can be very stocked and quiet old fashion so fingers crossed it goes the same for u ! Xxx

I’m having a BA on 13th may and haven’t told any of my family either, I just really don’t know how to come out with it and don’t know if they’d approve. I’m 23 and married so have just told my hubby to tell them after my op so I don’t have to lol….he doesn’t care he’ll just say ‘oh by the way chelle’s had her tits done!’ and then i’ll get embarrassed and try to avoid the topic! xx

I told my family when I was considering BA and they thought I was stupid lol but when they realized I was serious they supported me all the way. Goodluck xxx

My parents are elderly and I only told my Mum that I was having it done but didn’t say when . .still not told Dad and I’ve been to visit twice now 2 stay over and he still hasn’t said/noticed anything . . I had his nose so for me, felt like I was saying it wasn’t good enough for me . . so glad had it done , got some swelling still but all going in the right direction . . may have a laugh about it with him 1 day !!! xxx

I think it’s hilarious that’ your dad hasn’t noticed Jhouli, just goes to show that they see passed these things.

My parents were pretty good, my mums had quite a lot of work done in the past so she was easy was a bit funny about telling me dad but he was fine, singing Jimmy Durante songs at me!

My mum keeps nagging me to put my up to date pictures on Facebook so other family members can see, but I figure if theyre so interested can see me in person ha ha!

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