How do I tell the man!? Started by: Anonymous

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    Basically I’ve been “seeing” this guy very casually for about three months now. We like each other but it’s nothing exclusive. I’m thinking I’m going to probably need to tell him I’m having my breasts done. I can’t exactly hide it, lol.

    How do I tell him!? It would be so much easier if we were in a relationship but cos it’s casual I’m freaking out. Also worried it might scare him away, lol.

    Only ten days to go!

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    Hey hey, I would just come out with it really, maybe a week before. Or if he says something like ‘I love your tits’ in the throws of passion lol then that’s the perfect time to bring it up! At the end of the day if it’s casual you shouldn’t be thinking about him as this is all about you. And if he is scared away by you just having some new puppies (which ultimately if you’re going to carry on seeing each other HE’s going to also benefit from!) then you should tell him to get lost. Don’t you worry about him, just concentrate on you. And when he decides to commit to you, that’s when and only when he has permission to say anything about it! xo

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    Just blurt it out hun! Lol… I’m afraid that this is you, and this is what you want… and if he doesn’t stick around to see those bad boys (!) then he’s not worth the fuss, in my opinion anyways! Lol

    P.s. I haven’t known a guy yet who would turn away someone they like over fake breasts. Maybe bring it up that way? Ask his opinion on cosmetic surgery?

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    Aw thankyou girls! :)

    Next time I see him I’m just gonna come out with it. And ask his opinion on cosmetic surgery.

    You’re defs right, this is all about me and what I want. Just need to pluck up the courage and spit it out!

    xxx

    Fairyxx 8
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    If he reads lad mags and that just point to a pair of titties and say eeeeh mine will be like that soon haha xx

    Anonymous
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    Haha, good idea that! xx

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    Lol Fairy… EXACTLY

    I’m sure he’ll be fine hun, like I said, I haven’t known a man yet to turn down a girl because of fake boobs. My boyfriend didn’t entirely agree with me when I told him at the start of our relationship, but he’s come around to the idea, anything to make me happy (plus I think secretly he likes the fake look hehe)

    Good luck honey!!

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    Fairyxx 8
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    Fact is hunni men love fake boobs.xx

    Anonymous
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    I’m sure he’ll be okay about it. Just maybe a little shocked. I think that’s how most people would react when they hear someone they love is getting surgery!

    I’m glad your boyfriend came round to it hun :)

    Gunna somehow talk about cosmetic surgery and then just slip it in the conversation!

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    Too true Fairy xx

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    i would just come out with it its your body your decision and if he didnt like it his loss id tell him where to go x

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    Whoop whoop! Lol

    Fairyxx 8
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    I think some men are worried that when we get our boobs we are gonna walk about naked¡¡ haha x

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    Haha.. I don’t know about you.. but I will be walking around naked once I’ve got my new puppies =)

    .. Well.. maybe not at my house, ‘cos I live with my parents, and I don’t think they’d appreciate it very much at all haha!!

    xx

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