How has your boyfriend reacted to the whole boob job situation?

I’m booked in for 20th Jan. My boyfriend has booked time off etc and said he’ll be there but keeps passing comments like, what happens if i don’t like them…when i show him pic’s he’s like don’t like those etc. I’m doing it for me but i can’t help but get worried about it and its starting to make me worry whether i’m making the right decision or not Has anyone had this or how have boyfriends/partners reacted once you’ve had them done? x

My fiancé has been amazing and supported me the whole way through, thd only thing he said was “please don’t go too big” which he knew I wouldn’t!

Ur man needs to back off as his own insecurities are now rubbing off on u! This op is nothing about him! It’s about and for you! And if he doesn’t like them then well, plenty will hunny!

I wouldn’t be surprised if ur bloke as actually worried for other reasons as other girls have had their fellas being very jealous after they’ve had them done!

Please don’t be swayed to change ur mind on somebody else’s opinion, if u change ur mind it should be ur own thoughts not those of others! X

my boy friend was great, he knew it was my decision, and tbh his opinion didnt count anyway, (yes im selfish) as you said i did it for me no one else.. just keep that in mind and youll be fine..x

my boyfriends been great, think hes just loving the fact that he can look at boobs fir his opinion without getting wrong for it haha, he came with me for my consultation while my surgeon measured me etc, i couldnt help but laugh while some other man was touching ne in front of him! xx

That was the weirdest part of the whole thing for me ltdedition1987, dont think either me or or my boyfriend knew where to look! haha. That said my man has been really supportive, even paid for half of it and buys me everything i need now so i can pay the rest of it off now bless him. That said i went on my first big night out last night since my ba and i got told i wasnt allowed to wear anything slutty. I showed him what i was wearing to reassure him but told him i would be wearing what i wanted that night and every night in the future. Blokes are blokes, they are bound to get a bit insecure, just make sure you give him lots of reassurance and do what you want for you! Good luck x x

My boyfriend has been wonderful and very supportive.. He is also paying for this op and even though I know he’d love me to look like Jordan he also knows how imortant it is for me to feel good in my own skin again.. But I do love big boobies so he’ll get his wish! lol He cam with me to my first consultation and will come with me again when I go to see Mr C in London next month.. xxxx

Thank you girlies this has helped loads It just worried me him saying what happens if he doesn’t like them but this is for me, i’ve wanted them doing long before i ever met him. I just need him to be behind me 100%, i think as you say, men are very insecure, worse than girls for sure! I know i’ll love them and thats the main thing! xx

my boyfriend was fab and supportive, but hated my boobs when i first had them done because to be honest they are pretty ugly and take some getting used to untill they settle, i remember asking him to massage them 2 weeks po and look of disgust he gave me said it all lol. i was worried he wouldnt like them, but once they settled he didnt leave them alone and now he tends to feel them at least once a day lol, they like a new toy to him haha. he does get a bit funny about me parading them around though, im doing a lingerie catwalk in march and hes not 100% happy with it, but its my choice and he knows id do it whether he likes it or not lol xx

Thank you nikki! Yeah ive read they take ages to settle so i know with him having doubts now and then when he first sees them ‘stuck on’ he’ll be like i don’t like them which will then upset me but ive tried explaining it will take time. Thank you hun how long did it take for him to like them? xx

i think around the 4/5week mark maybe a little longer, he never really said he didnt like them as such, but made comments like, they need to soften and they will be nice once they settled lol. i think once they softened enough for him to play with them he was happy haha xx

my boyfriend has been very supportive all along and he loves my boobs more than i do but i bought a new outfit to go out with the girls a to the knee pencil skirt and a body suit with mesh so it was a little see through at the bust and sides i made the mistake of asking him what he thought and he said ”its a bit slutty aint it” kinda took me back as hes never commented on my clothes before so i asked him if it would be ok to wear it when i was with him to which he said yes.

men huh lol x

My boyfriend ain happy at all

That I’m having mine done hopefully he will come round x

not gd, told me HE should be able to pick the size!! n i cant wear tight tops aparently.. and said “i dont mind u do it aslong as its for me and noone else” :S

he had to go college day of my op so dropped me off n came to pick me up (mum was with me) but i felt sooo ill when i woke up couldnt stand up dizzy n sick, i was on a drip for hours and spent ages tryna feel normal so he had to sit there for a couple hours, moaned constantly gettin all stressed at me saying hurry up, erm im on a ffing drip after a serious operation!?!

i asked him if he cared about me havin fake boobs.. he sed “no!! before u had the op u was perfect apart from ur boobs i thought something could be done about those! n now theyre big so its all good” y did he have to tell me that! men need 2 think before they talk!!

Aysha- he sounds like a prick, dump him! xx

Aww Hun that’s not very nice! He sounds very controlling! I’ve been there and it’s not nice I think he’ll come round, I just keep telling him it will take ages to settle to don’t go by first impressions haha. I want my op now, this waiting is starting to make me anxious now lol x

Sophie when you having you ba? Have to keep me updated on how the mr is as we’re in the same boat haha. Which part isn’t he hapy about? The fake look, thinks your fine now etc ? X

Well my man turned into my fionce lol got 3 big rocks and paying for my boobs very supportive lol catch is he gets to name them lol

Debbie – sounds like a good deal to me!! x

Aysha – omg, get rid. You’re a pretty girl and could find much nicer! x

Lol he did Fantastic Fensomes FF I wanna be but look full DD. Lol waiting for confirmation on 9th feb

My hubby is being very supportive about the whole thing so far, think he’s fed up about talking bout boobs now lol!

He even took me to M&S to look at bras for ideas of sizes etc!

He’s looking forward to buying me a dress after the op too! Fair Dos he’s pretty good when I think about it!

It’s your decision no one else’s and if he loves u then he will realise its what makes u happy that’s counts

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Thank you webby I think he’s come round, he’s been supportive as in come meetings with me, coming pre op and has booked time off, i just think he’s nervous as well as obv risks with everything. It will take time but i’m so excited When you in webby? xxx

He’s prob worried about the new boob attention u will no doubt get & yes at the end of he day it’s an operation etc, he’s concern is prob just filtering out coming out slightly negative but I’m sure he means well!

I’m not in till may but it’s the best time re leave & work! I’m seeing mr c next fri

I will add u Charlotte for future pics

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Yeah your more than welcome webby i can’t wait! lol Yeah i think its that too to be honest xxx

not gd AT ALL! hun but im not takin any notice cos its somethin im doin for my self we get married in march n my ops in april so tuff titties lol we wil b married my then its not like hes gunna file for divorce! (i hope lol)just do what makes u happy babe its ur body xx plus i managed to get finance in my name which is a bonus! x

@charlottem88. Have u tried talking it through with your boyf hun? he may just feel like its all abit daunting for him. But im defo sure he will love them after ;)But at the end of the day hun its your decision as its your body.

Hope it works out

xx

Yeah i 100% want them, i have done for years & years. Plus its all booked & paid He’s coming with me & booked a week off to help me so i know hes supportive in that way. Men will be men hey! What did your fiance say like gem? what were his objections? I have romani, think he’s just nervous xxx

My new boyfriend of 8 weeks loves them and cannot get enough of them, he is a bit over protective if other men look at them though!! keeps saying cover up!

Hi Charlotte sorry for late reply!! He keeps saying I’m

Perfect the way I am why do u want fake boobs for?? He said he’s worried coz I got to go under and have a op, and that they got to cut me open, a little exagaration on the cutting me open lol it’s 21st January getting really close now lol

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my boyfriend cant wait xxx

Me and my fiance have never argued about something more than my boob job! Hes against it, loves me the way I am yadda yadda yadda. Hes blates just worried about the attention I might get afterwards and I think he worries i’ll change. Anyway after a lot of discussions he finally said he would support me as he could see.how much I wanted it. I think once he sees how happy it makes me he will b fine. Hes even noticed me being happier now its all booked! xx

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