How long after surgery can you have sex? Started by: alli

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  • alli 1
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    The million dollar question …. And I’m

    Sure all the boyfriends want to know lol lol

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    lol well its a form of exercise so im guessing 6 weeks ! dunno though for def

    Anonymous
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    Well your not meant to do any exercise (including sex) for 6 weeks………I last 6 days haha you just have to be really careful!

    I’m sure I don’t need to go into details lol but just listen to your body and when you feel comfortable and ready just be gental!! Xx

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    Lovin this thread.. I would also like to know the answer to this one please :-) xxxxxx

    nikki 2
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    most poeple dont wait 6 weeks to have sex, some dont even manage to go without it a week on here lol, me personally i waited 7 days, just make sure he takes his time with you :) xx

    dolly92 3
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    I asked my nurse and she said six weeks, don’t even have a man but that’s never stopped me ;)

    So sad though wahh :( x

    alli 1
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    6 weeeeeeks ( omg) a week is already too long:/ hahaha I’m

    Sure the bfs will half die when they old

    That!hahaha

    Ps I love that there are like minded girls here lol

    alli 1
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    Oops I meant when they told*

    Xxx

    Anonymous
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    i wont be waiting a week! haha, or atleast i hope not xx

    dolly92 3
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    I feel like such a slut lol I swear I’m the only person on here who doesn’t have a bf lool

    Oh well…I like it :) x

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    I don’t get it why can’t you have sex for 6 weeks?! 🙄

    As long as he doesn’t touch your boobs you should be ok.. isn’t? x

    alli 1
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    Dolly who is to judge babe….it’s a womans world we can talk about men just as much as them lol lol ;)

    Babylou I doubt I’ll last a week:/ haha

    I shall let you girls know……plus the bf keeps asking me

    Every second of the day eeeek lol

    alli 1
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    Dolly who is to judge babe….it’s a womans world we can talk about sex just as much as men lol lol ;)

    Babylou I doubt I’ll last a week:/ haha

    I shall let you girls know……plus the bf keeps asking me

    Every second of the day eeeek lol

    dolly92 3
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    Aha true! All my mates say that I behave like a guy when it comes to sex lool I still whistle at fit people when they walk past me haha ;) xx

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    6 WEEKS!!!!!! OMFG are u kidding……………….Unfortunately that won’t be one piece of advice I will follow lol xx

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    Wish my relationship was still that fresh that we couldn’t go weeks with out having sex :( !! Jelouse of you girls!!xx

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    I was thinking thank god I have an excuse as to why I don’t have to have sex with my husband for 6 weeks, I’m thinking of telling him it’s 6 months PMSL x x

    dolly92 3
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    I think we can forget about this rule ladies ;) xx

    leah91 -1
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    Snap Amanda !!!

    liz31
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    Isn’t it to do with the fact your pulse races which can lead to blood clots? Don’t think it’s to do with the boobs themselves! Saying that my partner wont wait 6 weeks lol! Even after childbirth I only got 2 weeks lol! x

    liz31
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    Isn’t it to do with the fact your pulse races which can lead to blood clots? Don’t think it’s to do with the boobs themselves! Saying that my partner wont wait 6 weeks lol! Even after childbirth I only got 2 weeks lol! x

    shelley -1
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    haha this thread makes me laugh :-) funny reading all the comments girlies! I waited about 6 days just be careful hehe and hold on to your new assets!xx

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    I waited about 5 days & let him do all the work….you often see ‘quotes’ from the Internet posted regarding this question telling you 6 weeks but I think everyone knows their own body, so long as you don’t let him throw you round the bedroom I think a quickie is fine if you are careful! A friend of mine did it the day she got home lol…I reckon the 6 week rule is one rule thats made to be broken haha ;) xx

    gem0307
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    Defo not sticking to this one i will only have been married a month when i get mine done lol! xx

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    I took xxxxJo’s advice and went for it at day six – holding onto my babylons for dear life x

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    6 weeks, i’ll never last 6 days! he would make me wait…. but we all have a toy or 2 4 the times when a quickie is needed (or 4 the 1’s without a fella or a sex drive) xxx

    dolly92 3
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    You don’t need a bf for a good smush session ;) xx

    Anonymous
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    Lol cuks….i must admit the Macom bra was a bit of a passion killer but we all have needs just like men & I’d have chewed off my own arm before waiting 6 weeks lmao xx

    Anonymous
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    That’s true dolly…..but you can’t beat the real thing ;)

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    I couldn’t wait to start having sex again but thankfully for my boobs 9Im day 6 today) my BF is being a complete w@nker so he can wait, indefinitely at this rate lol x

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    I couldn’t wait to start having sex again but thankfully for my boobs 9Im day 6 today) my BF is being a complete w@nker so he can wait, indefinitely at this rate lol x

    ayshababy 5
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    we did it (wel a fumble) the next day i dont know how he even wanted to i was so taped up, hair a mess no makeup! but did it properly like 4 days po.. just be lazy dont get ur heart rate up tooo much! no reverse cowgirl an u shud be fine!! lol x

    dolly92 3
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    Noo I meant just find someone cas ;) xx

    dolly92 3
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    Nooo xxxxjoxxxx I meant find someone cas ;)

    It’s soo bad but I was actually deciding which one of my ‘buddies’ should get first play lool I’m terrible, but hey, a girl’s got needs xx

    ruby24
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    I waited as long as day 3 then had to give it.. no sex is more painful than recovery!!! Just took it easy and tried not to move my arms much or strain on my boobs and it was fine. Defo one rule I just couldn’t stick too!! X

    ruby24
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    I waited as long as day 3 then had to give it.. no sex is more painful than recovery!!! Just took it easy and tried not to move my arms much or strain on my boobs and it was fine. Defo one rule I just couldn’t stick too!! X

    roch 1
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    Oh how I wish I shared this concern! My hubby isn’t that interested in sex anymore, it does my bloody head in, feels like he doesn’t find me attractive anymore. We have cuddles and kisses but nothing naughty and we’ve had sex twice in nearly 6 months, we’ve only been married 6 months not 15 years I don’t get it. :(

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    OMG ROCH!!!!!!!!!! U been married six months and not banging everyday??? I have been married 14 years this year and we still go bang sat it whenever we can… trust me it dont stop cause u been married a long time….

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    This post has made me feel like such a nympho. I did it that same night! I just made him do all the work and he didn’t touch or lean on my boobs. I’m almost 3 weeks po now and I’m feeling way better so can no longer get away with leaving all the work to him (sigh lol) but I just keep my bra on and hold on to my boobs so they don’t jiggle lol.

    Please don’t tell me off MYA Moderator :(

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    *blushes*

    Anonymous
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    2 night after was starving lol x

    alli 1
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    So glad I started this message thread:D

    Reecara that has to be the best comment I have ever heard hahahaha

    All the ladies who are having “starvation as reecara said” lol I hope you get it sorted soon!! You so deserve to have fun:)

    Xxx

    roch 1
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    I gotta say 2cuks i’m jealous! I’m bloody frustrated but he just isn’t that interested anymore. I’ve tried everything dropping hints, sexy underwear, dirty pictures, just coming out and asking him for it, not mentioning it at all. We even went on a swingers website just to chat to people haha (blush) and that got him in the mood but then I got all jealous about it.

    He just says he’s tired from work or not in the mood. Not gona lie it does my head in. Any suggestions on how to sort him out would be much appreciated haha. Maybe showing him pics of all your big babylons will get him in the mood haha! xx

    alli 1
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    Roch that’s quite a dilemma:/

    All you girls on this thread can I add you? You all seem to have a great sense or humour and would love to swop boobie stories :)

    Ps my op is 1st feb…I shall be reporting back to you girls re sex as soon as my op is done…:D

    Actually I’m a bit sad that I must taking my pill:/ I’ve only just started taking it again for a week after my girly stuff damnnnnn…..

    alli 1
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    Oops I meant sucks I must stop taking my pill:/

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    I couldnt wait 6wks so we actually did the deeds on day 4! Which to be honest as everyone has said be careful and why not let them do all the work for once! Lol just be careful and ur know when to stop….unless u don’t want too lol

    In fact I think I was probably turned on more looking at me beauties! X

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    Oh my god..I think this is even worse than the whole recovery…Me and hubby do it at least twice a day…FML…6 weeks?! No BDSM needed, that is torture from the highest degree! >_< lol.

    Stacy
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    Well I don’t have a bf thank god but I did let my bit on the side *ahem* go down on me ten days p.o. Does that count? I didnt realise it was about heart rate I thought it was more like DONT TOUCH THE BOOBIES! lol.

    ruby24
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    Hahahaha all these posts make me laugh!! I’m glad you’re not all starving!

    I was naughty and didnt even stop taking my pill.. I figured my risk of pregnancy would be pretttty high and I’d be pissed if they wouldnt give me my boobs if my test was positive haha!

    I waited a whole of 3 days I think and even that was torture.. nice excuse to let him put the work in for a while tho ;)

    xx

    alli 1
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    I like putting the work in though hahaha

    I am also debating to Carry on with my pill but don’t want it to cause a problem:/ dilemma…what pill you on babe??I’m on Yasmin which increases thrombosis:/

    I will be so damn starving hahaha so will my bf eeek

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