how to control toddlers after opp an stop them causing damage to new boobies

Had a practice day yest, told my girl nearly 3 my boobs hurt an she needs to be careful, did not work, she’s a very cuddly girl an also very hypa, any change she gets she climbs on me or jumps on me, feel sad to think she can’t have proper cuddles off her mummy for so long an don’t think shel understand this, so wondering how others coped an avoided gettin injured xx

I know how you feel I have a 3 year old son and he is very cuddly. I think though when you have had the op she will probably realise that you mean it and hopefully you will be able to have gentle cuddles. I have my op 6th March, I think my son will be worried about me and wonder why I’m just lay in bed. But it won’t be for long and even if we can’t give as many cuddles they will know we still love them xx

I got very hypo twin boys Hun nearly 2 an half, I told them mummy got baddy boobies everytime they tried jumpin on me, loves hugs too so sat them next to me an put my arms round them, they were happy with that, hated me not carrying them down the stairs thou, but they do get used to it, I did have a few kicks in the boob thou, but even now there careful with me an say mummy’s bady boobies, an I’m nearly 7 weeks po, it’s hard but u will get through it, jus encourage her to do things herself an reward loads they love it xx

Hi Hun, don’t worry, I have 2 boys aged 8 and 3, my youngest is very cuddly and the 8 yr old….well let’s just say its not cool! Lol I’m lucky if I get a kiss at the school gate.

I never said anything to the boys til after I had my BA as not to sure they would understand! I said mummy had to go to the hospital for the doctor to make mummy better, when I got home I showed them my plasters which were under my new boobies, they where so interested in my plaster they didn’t even notice my new BIG boobies lol they understood better once they could see what had been done.

My youngest kept coming up to me every few hrs ‘saying…let me see ur plasters’ then going of to play.

Ur be surprise how much they take note and listen xx

You not had much to worry bout from older son then lol, yeah hopefully when she sees it real then she be careful, staying at my parents first two weeks only now thinkin bout what she be like when we go home, then realised how oftern she squeeses, elbows me an jumps at me, think il show her plasters aswell then she mite understand more xx

I’ve been worried about this too and hoping if I show them they’ll keep their distance a bit. I’ve got a 7yr old, 5 yr old, 3 yr old and 11 month old! I’m going to hide in my room and lock the door for a week I’m so scared! I’m gunna miss looking after them though. Think it may make me appreciate being with them more because I can’t iykwim xx

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