husband giving me the cold shoulder

omfg so angry, husband is totaly awear how I feel about my saggy emty tits and was well pleased for me about making the decition to have them fixed. Then the night before my appointment with my surgen totaly throws a spanner in the works and gos off on one saying ‘ I hate fake tits they will look nasty everyone will see you have had them done and how embarrest he will feel cos everyone will be able to tell that I have morfed into a barbie’ all I could say back was ‘ well I had perfect tits before you pushed and pushed to have children and made me feel like a bad mum If I did not give em my tit to feed off’ so upset right now

chick, they will NOT look fake unless you want them too look fake. There are plenty of ladies on here that have had a BA and a BA with an uplift, including myself and they look far from fake. You never lose that natural sag, even if it slight if you already have saggy boobs. I can get my little finger under mine and they do not look stuck on and in fact if I hadn’t of said anything to anyone they wouldn’t even know I had had them done. xxx

babes, remember why you are getting them done. my boyfriend TRY’S to make me feel bad but after 3 kids and breastfeeding, i know how you feel. i told him if i didn’t get them done then i was going to smash him playstation 3 and apple mac (which i bought)and throw every computer game in the bin as well as cutting of sky sport and chelsea tv. brought him round to my way lol

it’s your body up too you what you want to do … Don’t let anyone tell you anything go with your heart .. xxx all the best you don’t want to look back and say I should of got them done /

that’s what I keep telling him he has stormed off to work (is working nights) I just feel so upset with him being so unsupportive its not like I have asked for him to help pay for them that was the 2nd prob I can not go out and work as I have to stay at home day in day out looking after our children that he pushed me into having don’t get me wrong I love my children but didn’t expect to be saddled with the responsibility on my own, I gave up my very well paid job and now had to save my arse off to fix my chest then he lays on the quilt trip of how we could do with some new kitchen cupboads I mean come on I would cook dinner on cardbored boxs as long as I don’t look like this nomore sorry bout the rant xx

oh babes that is sad .. i think half the reason men arent surportive is they are worried u will turn into a even more beatiful woman and leave them …. its all down to there own insecurities … i was lucky my boyfriend loves fake boobies and when i said we go on holiday or i have my boobs done he picked boobs i was one of the lucky ones …. try not to argue show him this site if u have to and explain how happy it would make u and that they dont have to be fake looking. hope u sort it out hun x

wow you are lucky, I just think he wants me in a big baggy jumper kids round my ankles as well as my tits lol I am 25 and starting to fill like im 50 just want to get my life back on track and thought good place to start was my very unhappy tits im booked in for jan new year new me kinda thing……

hope u sort it hun x

I will do im still going aheasd sod him xx

Go with your heart !! Maybe he is jealous that you might get lots of attention

Good way to think Hun. It’s now becoming a reality to him. Think of how miserable you’d be if you carried on through the years with rubbish boobies. My reply would be who cares if people see I’ve had a boob job – I’d rather people be looking at my boobs and wondering if I’ve had em worked on rather than gawking at them cos they’re saggy. I was bullied for being flat chested years ago..now I’ve gotta rack and I’m proud they’re fake, I deserve it after all the years of hating my body. You will love yours too, it’ll be the best thing you ever did besides your children!!xx

Heather you got to go ahead with it – do it for you gal x

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