Husband works away

Does anyone get lonely and feel husband just doesn’t try to make you feel missed or loved? Not like I can’t cheat while he s gone. I wouldn’t but feel so neglected

My boyfriend works away away all week in london, and i live up north ( 4 hours away ) comes home friday nights and goes back to work 2 am monday morning! i hate it!!

Aww hun, wot does yr husband do work wise? My ex of 12 years worked away mon-fri (in construction) n never seemed to miss me or show me any affection when he came home. Made me feel lonely n like a weekend hooker! Anyway my partner now of 8 months cant get enough of me, buys me fllowers, jewellery, always needs to touch me in some way, cuddles, handholding etc. Its really wierd to me, as ive never had it, n find myself pushing him away, as I feel smothered. Poor guy cant understand it. Have u tried speakin to yr husband? Xxx

Yeah my fiancé works offshore so he’s only gone for 2 weeks at a time then home for 2 weeks. But it’s really shit when he goes, jst try an fill my time with work/ going out/ having friends round to take my mind off it. I no they say absence makes the heart grow fonder but it’s still shit x

how long u been with him anchovie? ..maybe u shud try holding back from him, stop telling him u miss/love/want him for a bit n he’ll prob start making up for it? usualy if i go cold with hubby he starts being warmer to me..and when he’s cold with me for whatever reason i try harder lol! he doesnt work away mind u. i wuda thot him workin away wud make the relationship stronger coz yous arnt in each others faces all the time n the time, absence makes the heart grow fonder n all tht but i can see how it could do the opposite too xxx

Thanks everyone. He was really charming and showered me w gifts when we first got together. We v been married for 4 years and he seems tired and disinterested now. He’s a lot older than me which made me feel protected but he seems to have lost his sparkle for me. I get other offers and some men try it on but I’m faithful I do like the attention and want to feel special. Thanks girls

I am on my own till dec 16th my hubby in the army he is always away, I hate it. X

lovehoney.com …spice it up lol! xx

Aw jojo I’m sorry:-( and wee Claire bear! You are funny do you mean what I think u mean?

lol go on the website theres sum gd stuff on there lol!! ..didnt realise u cud get toys for guys b4 lol!! And thers sum sexy undies for ur baps while ur there lol xxxx

Hahaha ok thank you xxxxxxx

Scrap him for a younger model!

Lol Feel like it sometimes

NEVER put up with somebody who makes u feel unappreciated! When theres So many men who wouid like the chance to Make u feel like a million dollars!x

jojo

The 13 year old boy that lives two doors away told me the other day his dad is in the army and he misses him badly and my heart went out to him. I can imagine how hard it is for you.

I have massive respect for our service men/women and thier families. Dec the 16th is closer than it seems.

xxx

Mine works away too!!

Its awful coming home after night shift and having to sort things out!

I always worry lol xxxx

me too…mines away a month at a time (offshore oil rig)..it gets quite lonely and days seem to drag much more at this time of the year cos nights get dark early…bless us

Maybe confront him about it Anc. He may not even realise that his being a bit off with you. Xxx

You’re right. I’m being silly xxxx

im married to a soldier! somethings we just have to accept for love. (((hugs to you)))

Aww bless u hun!

In all honesty life is too short to be unhappy with someone! Have a chat with him and see what his problem is and tell him he needs to put more effort into the relationship!

I binned off my ex (altho still have a house with the loser) simply because i felt more like his mother than a girlfriend and i just didnt love him anymore. I spent 18 months plucking up the courage, staying for the sake of the mortgage etc but in the end I just couldnt bear the sight of him any longer, mean maybe, but true!!!

A ring on the finger/mortgage/kids etc doesnt mean u have to put up with being miserable hun. I’m now with the bloke I’ve loved for like ever (finally) and he treats me how all girls should be treated! And we had long distance for a year so before we moved in together, a lot of work went into it and still does, by both of us.

We all deserve to be happy, excuses mean nothing and bring nothing but heartache, actions mean everything!!!

Big hugs xxx

Thanks for the time you put into these lovely messages. I do feel a bit neglected and unappreciated- he works away two days and nights a week and leaves early mornings too he’s in IT! I m sure he loves me but I get fed up doing the housework and the girls all on my own most of the time and I’m not seeing the point of being with him as I never see him except at weekends when he then brings his kids over or spends time on his motorbike. Sorry for whining Thinkin too much maybe

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