I can't stop questioning myself! :-(

Is any one else feeling this way?

I have wanted a BA for a while now but always said I’d wait till after kids

Now I’ve got my little boy I thought the time was right. . . . But . . . . . For the last week I keep asking my self if this is what I really want!

Why am I feeling like this?

My op is all booked & paid for so it’s not a financial worry.

Really don’t no what’s wrong with me. Don’t even feel excited today

Any advise plz?

When I say this to my other half he just says well don’t have one then!

Don’t think he really understands why I booked it in first place!

X x X

Thats absolutely normal hun. I had wanted mine doing for ages and I was really excited then when it came closer and was suddenly more real, I kept asking myself if this is really what I wanted to do. I am 2 weeks po now and its one of the best things I have ever done! I also have a son, hes just ovver 2 – I think once you have children you worry a lot more.

Honestly try not to think about, you will be so happy once you have them, and you will be kicking yourself if you dont go through with it. Its a big decision and a life change, so you are bound to be a little nervous! Chin up xx

Thanks stef64 I hope this feeling go’s away.

I no deep down it is what I want or I would never have booked it in the first place.

We have booked our hol for next year & when I think about that I get really excited cos I’ll have my new boobs.

I think I’ll feel a million times better in my self after the op but for some strange reason just feel a bit un sure today x

OMG it’s like i wrote that!!!! i have wanted this for a very long time 10 yrs and more…. now i’m booked and paid im feeling everything you just said and wondering why the hell i’m not getting excited when ive been dreaming of this for so long. i think it’s because i’m scared they won’t be how i want them and the fact i’m nervous now its no longer a dream and it’s really going to happen. i know i really want this just worrying about loads of thing that could go wrong. glad i’m not the only one when you hear everyone so excited you wonder why after wanting it your not feeling it. sure you will be fine xx

Oh it’s not nice is it Hun. But kind of nice to no other ppl are feeling same as me!

It’s same feeling as when I found out I was pregnant. Very excited at first then when it sinks in I started asking my self is this really for me?

Now I love being a mum & new it’s exactally what I wanted I just dernt admit it at first.

Think my worries took over.

Am sure after our ops ( if we get that far ) we’ll think it’s best thing ever! X

ha ha you sound just like me when i was pregnant kept thinking it would change my life but never thought for the better lol and i wouldn’t change a thing now:)sure we will love them just can’t wait for it to be done so i know what they will lokk like. when is your op? x

megan1988 my op is in january booked a long time ago and all paid for!I talked myself out of having a previous op 4 years ago but its something thats still bothering me! I defo have up days and down days lol sometimes im soooo excited and sometime the worry of something going wrong scares me..i keep looking at my boobies wondering if their even that bad lol!!! I think we just have to rememeber why we booked the op in the first place xx

My op is on 18th nov so a week on Friday!

When I say it I get excited!

Think am just looking into it too much. (if that’s at all possible)

I even went for late space booking cos if I would have had to wait months I would have ended up canceling!

Im one of those ppl that have to do it there & then & fact that I’ve had to wait 4 weeks is prob why I’m questioning my self.

I bought my sports bra from tesco on thursday.

Bought a 34 DD! Just wanna see what I’ll look like! Hope I love em x

This will be the best thing you ever do for you honey,you are going to wake up from the GA,take one look at your boobs and be so happy,cant explain the feeling but you will know what I mean on the day,you enjoy the journey honey,xxx

I’m the same. I’ve been wanting it for year. Now I have the money ready I’m now like, do I really need them etc and does or really matter. I don’t know why I’m feeling like this all of a sudden argh I know I want them deepdpwn tho else I wouldn’t keep thinking about them for years! I wish I didn’t have to wait till jan! Xx

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