I feel like a feek now. Started by: julieanne4

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    Im so unhappy. Had my BA 18th October 2011. From day one po my left boob has always been higher. Anyway to cut a long story short I am having to wear the breast belt for 3 months. Trouble is its not doing anything to my lwft boob but pushing my right further down. I have tried to not have the belt over my right boob by tieing it up with a hairband to make it thinner. I wasnt getting to see my surgeon until May but have managed to get an appointment for begining of March. I feel like I have not had the propper after care at the correct times. I get married in October and can see this is affecting me alot now Im going to look a freak on my wedding day. I wish I had never had this done. Its heart breaaking. I cant stand my fiancee touching me either so its rocking the boat at home. This was supposed to help give me confidence but instead its pushed me into myself even more. I just cant stop crying. Just wanna cut them out and be normal again.x 😥 😥 😥

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    I have put some pics up now. Have a look and tell me the truth please. I know I look awfull. How would they make you feel. If MYA dont do something about it I will take it further. I cant go round like this.x

    lulup20 3
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    hi hun sorry to hear your having such an upsetting time. Have you been to see your pc and explained your situation perhaps she can get you in to see your surgeon quicker than March. sending you big hugs x

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    Hey hun, I’m sorry to see you’re so upset especially with your wedding coming up. Congratulatons! I hope when you see your surgeon they manage to sort this for you ASAP so you can get more confident and enjoy the build up to your special day. I’m going to add you, hope that’s ok xx

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    I was given an appointment for May and have been so upset this is the earliest they could fit me in in March. They all know about it.I think they think I am just going on about nothing. I am usually quiet and mild mannored but htis is upsetting me so much and spoiling my relationship with my fiancee. I wouldnt wishh this on anyone else its an awful feeling. Wish I had my empty saggy boobs back as at least I was able to be close to my fiancee. Thanks hun.xx

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    Julieanne4,MASSIVE HUGS,from me,Im here for you xxx

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    Thanks Tina. I have put some pics I took lastnight on. They are getting worse not better. I just wanna scream. xx

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    Ive seen the pictures honey,and I agree with you,this needs sorting out honey,xxx

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    First of all this will get sorted so dont be down hun.xx

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    good luck huni with gettin this sorted u shouldnt feel like this babes x

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    I hope you get it sorted, big hugs xx

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    Hi Hun wear the band over ur left boob an under the right boob so it’s on a bit of an angle that will stop u pushin the good boob down further that’s how my surgeon told me to wear it cause my right was still high an the band had pushed my left down too much, suppose anythings worth trying, chin up babe keep on at them, this will get sorted for u xxxx big hugs xxxx

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    Thank you so much for all your support and kind words. It means alot right now.xx

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    Hi Julieanne4

    I am so sorry to see this post. I am looking into this for you.

    Many thanks

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    It sounds similar to the problem I had. Don’t panic, I had a re op on Wednesday. I can see an improvement although I can’t see properly as I’m all taped up. I’ve pm’d you as well. X

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    Julieanne I cant believe this i feel so sorry for you. Do you mind If i add you?xx

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    Hope u don’t mind,e adding u julieanne4. I’ve just hd 525s was my 3rd op due to probs x

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    hi hope you get it sorted out very soon hope you dont mind adding you .? x

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    Thanks to you all.xx No I don mind adding you. although I am sure we are friends anyway.x

    gem0307
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    added u hunni would u mind if i took a look so i can understand what u mean a bit better xx

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    Hi. Really sorry to hear your not happy. I’ve added you. Hope you don’t mind. I’ve got my op next week and would be helpful to see possible problems. Hope mya sort you out ASAP xxxxx

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    i c what u mean hun :-(, i really hope they sort this out for u and soon, ur not a freak hun xx good luck x

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    Hey babe u can see that the left boob is higher they should sort this for u babe hope it gets sorted soon x x

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    hi honey sorry to hear this :( do you mind if i add you? who was your surgeon??xx

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    No I dont mind I have accepted you. x

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    Thanks for all your truthful messages. X

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    So sorry to hear you’re so upset I hope it gets sorted soon for you. I have added you hope that’s ok x

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    I cant read your message the site is playing up :( hope ur ok, who was your surgeon?xxx

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    Rrrrrr :( I hope your ok! .. U do NOT deserve to feel like this and I really hope it gets sorted and you have the relationship and wedding u deserve. All the best keep us updated.. Iv added u hope that’s ok xx

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    Hi Girls. I will add you so you can see what I am talking about, but as you know the site is playing up and I can not see requests to accept. Once it is sorted I will add. Thank you all again.xx

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    julieanne4 massive hugs from me,xxx

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    Hope u get sorted soon. Hope u don’t mind me adding u. x

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    No Hun add away. x

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    Well I see my surgeon on Thursday. Lets see what she says. Im taking my fiancee with me for back up. I cant go on like this im covering up. Im dreading the summer and my wedding now. x :(

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    Good luck honey hope MYA come through for you.We will all be thinking of you.xxx

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    Good luck xx

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    I added you if u don’t mind ? I bet there’s nothing wrong … Remember healing can take up to 6 months… I’ve still got one smaller but high :s !! I no how u feel… But try n think of your wedding you will look beautiful xxx

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    True, but Im not far off 6mths and its not getting any better. Im so worried.x

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    Hey hope u dnt mind add?sorry to year this can’t believe the wait u hav to see surgeon!

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    No I dont mind. I see her tomorrow and hope something is going to be done about this. I will take both breast bands in and show her how I am wearing them and hope this is correct as no one has shown me how to wear it to push 1 boob down. Its not easy. x

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    Well off to see my surgeon tonight. Mya said at the beining of this post they would look into it for me…Havent heard a thing.. No supprise there though. My appointment card came the other day for tonights 17.30 appointment. It was for a first consultation ..like I was going to have my first ever consultation.lol and the time 15.30. They get it so wrong. So I rang up and they appologised and said I shouldnt have had that sent. The confirmed my time as 17.30. Then I got a text 2 days ago confirming my appointment for today at …wait for it…15.30. So I rang my PC and complained. Yet apparently I am in the appointments for 17.30. If they cant get this right what chance do I have. I am totally peed of big time now. I am taking no crap tonight. I am not happy and want something done or I will take this further. MYA get your act together, your upsetting an awfull lot of women.

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