:( i feel so depressed :( Started by: Fairyxx

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  • Fairyxx 8
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    Please tell me this is normal

    sincea few days after my op i have been sooo down and emotional

    something good happens i cry, something bad happens i cry!

    Love my boobs wouldnt change a thing bout them…

    I just cant shake the constant down feeling :(

    Carla 2
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    Hey huni it may just be through getting through all this not beig able to do anything whilst they heal maybe?? and having to stay stuck in? im currently awaiting just to start a job and this staying in not doing anything is killing me!

    hope your feeling better soon, maybe plan a night out with th girls when your feeling upto it? xxx

    ros1705
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    Loads and loads of girls get this, think it’s the affact of the GA and all the meds leaving your body, it’s perfectly normal!

    In a couple of days you’ll feel much better, drink lots to help flush everything out of your system x

    vicki87
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    totaly normal, i fink its called post op blues, doesn’t last long tho i was fine after a week or 2, i got worse wen i wa desperate for a soak in bath, but its all worth it x

    kitty30
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    Hi. I’ve heard a few girls talk about post op blues. Apparently it’s totally normal and will pass. Just think about when u can go out and show off ur new figure and how good it will feel. Also try getting out and going for a walk maybe? Hope u feel better soon. Xx

    Fairyxx 8
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    Thanks girls was worrying there was something wrong with me.

    Finished the antibiotics yesterday so hoping once they get out my system ill be better.

    Just feel soo down and cant stop crying at the littlest things. I read fawn had bottomed out and cried!! I cried a clinic kn sat when nurse said i had to have steri strips for another week as scars were healing great but a bit raw!

    Plus im 8 days po today and alone from today for 2 wks :‘(

    None of my mates have been to see me or anything yet asa couple hav their own kids to sort etc and most work shifts.

    Think i might just try and sleep the week away lol xxxxxx

    Simone 3
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    Awww Hunn I think it’s a common feeling for a lot of girls. Have you tried going out for a walk, maybe getting some magazines and uplifting DVDs. Also ask some of your friends round for a takeaway or something I think having your friends/family around makes a big difference xxHugsxx

    Anonymous
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    I know exactly how you feel hun…i suffered really bad with post op blues, i cried at the slightest thing, i felt so down, so alone and i hated my boobs :( i was so tired, but i couldn’t sleep and my emotions were all over the place – every twinge of pain felt ten times worse and i just remember regretting even having my boobs done! I think its normal to feel down hun, you have just had a major op, i wasn’t prepared to feel so low although hush predicted i would have post op blues…it does pass though, i still get down sometimes as i am not healed properly yet but on a whole i feel a lot better each day…i hope you feel better soon hun xxx

    Fairyxx 8
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    Thanks khanni & jo.

    Hopefully ill be better soon.

    Gonna watch celeb juice tonight which will hopefully cheer me up!

    Xx

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    If anyone can cheer you up then its Keith Lemon….POTATOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO lolxx

    Fairyxx 8
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    I know lol!! Think id marry him just for the crack xx

    ticky88 2
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    Reading that your sad has genuinly upset me! Everyones the same chick…it gets better! I’d come and see you hun if i was closer xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx

    Anonymous
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    chin up fairy i had post opp blues at 11 days, i spent hours crying for no reason, then two days later i snapped out of it and felt better ever since :), the emotional side of ba was prob the worst part for me so know how you feel, sending you hugs xxxx

    Fairyxx 8
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    I know ticky its really bad. I cant actually think of any reason to cry i jus do! Plus i love my boobs!! Its horrible

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    thanks nikki hun like i said above im just spending hours crying for no reason. I feel like.im going backwards in te healing because of this!!

    Bit ice cream soaps and keith lemmon should cheer me up!! Was planing on watchiny crime watch but think my eyes wil be red raw!! Haha xxxx

    lisam 2
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    Fairy, let me know if you want to meet for a coffee or anything. Happy to help try and cheer you up while your boyfriend’s away. Just take it easy and get some good funny DVDs to watch or some good girly books to read. Here if you need me. x

    Fairyxx 8
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    Thanks lisa!! Might take u up on that next week when i get the all clear to drive! Nurse said not to do things that might pull me scars including driving. Thanks hun :) xx

    lisam 2
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    Well, even if you don’t want to drive I can always come and pick you up and we can go for a walk along the beach and a coffee. Only nights I’m not free are Monday and Wednesday. Just drop me a message on here if you fancy it. x

    Fairyxx 8
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    Will do lisa thank u hun. Means alot xx

    lisam 2
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    No worries at all. Just remember to do what I do when my boyfriend goes away. I treat it like a retreat. I do something nice for myself every day in the run up to him coming back. Do your nails; give yourself a facial; get a new hairstyle or dye your hair; apply fake tan; I’d usually say do loads of exercise but you’ll only be able to manage walking. It all helps your frame of mind and you’ll look and feel amazing for your boyfriend coming back. x

    Fairyxx 8
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    I know im getting my hair done on thurs next week :( its a mess lol!! Thanks lisa hun.. Im sure its just the pills…i hope anyway. Got me little puggies and me german shepherd for company lol xxx

    staceylash 1
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    Awww fairy hope you feel better soon Hun! I know even tho I’ll be so happy I have boobs I’ll be an emotional wreck cos I am anyway but I suppose it doesn’t last forever X

    lisam 2
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    And if you want a really good laugh just think of the mistake I made when I put pics of my strapped up boobs on Facebook without realising it. x

    kutri
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    Ahh hun, sorry to hear your feeling down. I had the same feeling around 2 weeks post op, once all my visitors died down. Thanks for sharing your pics hun, gave me a giggle that they are all upside down and stuff, hehe! They look fab and such a massive difference from your pre op pics :) Hope you start feeling better soon :)

    xxx

    Ps lisam thats hilarious… I would die if I did that x

    lisam 2
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    Yeah, I think all 150 of my friends had seen by the time I realised (including my ex husband). My boyfriend was not amused and that’s without him knowing about my ex husband seeing them. x

    kutri
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    Haha, bet you had a load of comments :P xxx

    Fairyxx 8
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    Loooooool lisa!!! How ebarrasing hahahaha wow i laughed hehe!!

    I know kutri im going to make the effort to turn them round on my laptop tonight!! Lol its my phone its turning them forbsome reason lol xx

    Fairyxx 8
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    Lolol lisa!! Id be sooo mortified haha!! Oh god my boy pug is currently humping my girl pugs face which is also quite.funny haha xxx

    staceylash 1
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    Oh god lol dogs giving bj’s now that is funny X

    kutri
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    Hehe, these comments are hopefully making you smile, they are me lol xxx

    Fairyxx 8
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    They are hun :) luckily its the pugs doing eachothers faces and not my gsd trying to do them.haha xx

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    Aww sweety! Don’t be down,u seem like such a cherpy chick.

    I agree that it’s prob just the whole stayin indoors,feeling a bit bored thing thats making u feel that way. I went back to work today…felt gd to get back to normal life. Without my sex in the city box set I woulda gone nuts on my week off…why dont u treat urself to sum dvds? Take a walk around the park? Pop to shops? Get sum popcorn or crack open a bottle of wine! Try enjoy ur time off.

    Hope u feel better sn girly.xxx

    Fairyxx 8
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    Thanks thunder!! I will do i think i might watch mama mia tomorrow! Lol… Crime watch rav is cheering me up at mo haha… Can i have wine yet? Only finished my antibitics yest xx

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    Im watching crime watch the now aswell,haha! Yeh,now that uve finished ur antibiotics u can drink. I had a cheeky glass of wine yesterday to celebrate.xxx

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    Im watching crime watch the now aswell,haha! Yeh,now that uve finished ur antibiotics u can drink. I had a cheeky glass of wine yesterday to celebrate.xxx

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    Aw Fairyxx,sorry ur feeling down hon,u were really lovely to me the other day.I’m sure it’s just the drugs and that lull while you’re waiting to recover after looking forward to this for so long.Dogs are great for making u feel better,I have 2 GSDs and there’s loads that has happened to me in the past that I couldn’t have got thru without them.Just look forward to the time when ur running on the beach at Druridge Bay with them Baywatch-style!! xx

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