I HATE MEN :(

Had enough ladies I’m sorry to winge aagain but I don’t know if my hormones every where but I feel like saying get lost to him . He doesn’t feel like he’s involved enough . I involve him ! He wants me to stay at the house . So I stayed ! Then he didn’t sleep now he had best night sleep alone he unsure wants to pick me up tonight . So I played it cool said its fine I enjoy being at my mums . Am I being hormonal ! I’m being upset everyday since op but only day 5 . Everyone bf looked after them except mine x

Good Lord Georgia I would not stand for that at any time ! Hormonal or not ! Im sure your mum is doing a brilliant job looking after you, I would tell him you dont want to stay there anyway because he’s crap at looking after you and if thats how he treats someone he loves and cares about, well thats not on ! He should understand your tired and emotional and you are adapting to your new body ! The cheek.

Sorry for the rant, I get so annoyed with men that want you there, but dont want to appreciate what your going through or your needs ! xxx

Me and my boyfriend live together and he hasn’t been half as supportive as I thought he would’ve been. I’m not going to go into the details but it’s men Hun, they don’t understand. I’m really angry with my boyfriend and were hardly speaking ATM! I’m also day 5 and prob feeling hormonal too. Chin up babe, you will be fine xx

Hun, my hubby took the kids to nursery & went to work the following day after my op, from day 2 I was on my own with the kids and hubby was at work from 8:30am – 8:30pm. Tracey is right it’s not that they don’t care, they just don’t “get it”. Life goes on in their eyes. I would have love to have been looked after but by day 7 I was taking the kids out food shopping as it had to be done. Try not to take it to heart hun sending you a ((big hug))

PS your mum is probably going to be far more sympathetic than any man lol xx

your not the only ones,my husband fell out with me 10 days ago and my op is tomorrow,hes not even coming with me.thank go my kids keep me sane xxx lots of big hugs to u all xxx

My bf isn’t taking any time off exept to collect me the next day! But my sons dad will be having my son for 3 days but he thinks I am going on a course with work xx

My boyf isn’t supportive at all, were not allowed to talk about it. He’s not even gna visit at my stay in hospital no doubt i wont see him for a few days after the op. He’s so not interested!! hopefully he will be once they’re done! ;o)

Men are crap… just an ongoing observation I have made… apart from my gay male friends, they are always very supportive and fabulous to boot!! xxx

lol well alotho my hubbys ok with me getting op ive been told im not getting a medal for it – dnt expect any sympathy haha! so im prepared for no help..lucky my mums got a few days off work to help with boys lol… jst dnt expect anythin from any1 and u wont be dissapointed lol xx

Hear hear!!…my mum has been a little superstar, love you mum! xxxx

I think alot of men dont like the thought of their partner having cosmetic surgery because of the attention they will get! In my case its just to give me back a bit of confidence after having my son. Men will never have to go through the body changes us women do after children yet they want to judge us on our choices!

I know for a fact if my partner had saggy boobs and a wrinkly tummy he would be the first person queuing up for surgery!!!x

True story… and I think as long as we are sensible about it there’s no harm in it at all. If I have anything else done in the future, I am not telling anyone cause too many people like to pass judgement, which isn’t cool at all… xx

i dnt think he thought gonnna go through with it. now bbeen a idiot about it gone really quite with me! x

Urghhh why, when he should be telling you how brave you were and how fabulous you look, see this is how a woman would behave. Men are such little boys!! x

I had exactly the same.Was ok at first then wen it got a bit to real he started being funny about it! x

jeoulse? mm26 what did you do?xx

Probably! I havent actually had my op yet, been to two consultations. I want uplift and implants and tummy tuck. I cant really give you any advice as i havent been there yet, but i can tell you i got all that rubbish about i wasnt involving him too! I think they feel left out! Poor them lol x

It’s probably cause all us girlies are addicted to this site and they don’t get a look in ha. Shocking though how men go on… Hopefully my bf will be ok with me once I’ve had surgery next week. He works away though so he’s only with me 2 nights x

wish mine worked away !you should think yourself lucky lol!

Nope- men are pathetic. My husband ‘worked from home’ for the week the first week post op. He took the kids to school but could not cope at the slightest hurdle. He did no housework and made no meals. I even had to organise tesco delivery. He had meltdown one day when one of the kids had after school club which meant two runs to school. The house was soon rattling down and I was still folding washing and organising the kids. He did wash my Hair one night but sprayed the shower head right down my blouse soaking my stitches – helpful! Omg he was useless and every time I mentioned being tired or in pain he just said ‘do you regret it yet? He was rubbish. My last husband slept thru the birth of each of my girls so he was no better. I’m guessing they’re all the same. Right now I’m not a promoter of men sorry

lol they really r all the same!!! SOOOO glad its not just me tht puts up with it, every1 in real life seems to have normal hubbys tht help with kids etc xxx

I dont have a man atm and think this is how I shall stay for a while! HAHA they are shallow human beings and only care about themselves! i mean they should respect what you ladies are going through. If you cant appreciate you for who you are, then they arent worth it!

sorry rant over

happy healing ladies.

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my bf cheated on me the day i had my surgery and came into the hospital and dumped me the moment i had my surgery…. so im with romain01 on that men are just selfish lol.

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That’s terrible, I havrnt had mine yet so I cant comment, but my hubby is well excited, so lets hope it stays like that when he is looking after me. He says he will take the 2 weeks off his work to look after me, and have a little holiday later in the year when I am healed. Lets hope it is all a good as it seems after the op for me. My heart goes out to you ladies that are having a hard time with your men, dont let them get you down though and chin up and he will soon stop acting like a spoilt child.

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All i have to say to weejenii is one word insecure!!! He must have felt so insecure and threatened that he had to go out and cheat! x

Thatsbterrible Weejenii. . Hope your ok.

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