Hey ladies. Just uploaded some pre op pictures, I look fat and my boobs are the ugliest things ever.
Im 37 years old, with 2 kids. im 5ft 5, 9st 6. size 10/12. 34a/b bra.
I look more like 12 stone in these pictures, im now wondering if a boob job is what i need or a whole bloody tummy tuck and face lift lol.
Im so hopeing my boobs will look good after op on 30th march. i have such a big gap.!!! I cant see how those things will ever look good.!!!!
Im having 410cc high profiles overs.
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Im sure you dont huni…after a ba everyone becomes a little bit critical of themselves for a bit.xxx
I have not had my BA yet. lol
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oh lols, just read it again and its obvious you havnt lol 😳 …..well then girl….not long until you get your dream boobiest then :wink:. Im sure your tummy ect if fine chicken…size 10-12 is a great figure after kids xxx
Cheer up Shazzy, I’m sure all will be good. I have been having panics incase the surgeon tells me I’m fat or could do to lose weight (I’m 5’10”, Size 12, 10st, 32D).
My boyfriend goes mad cos he says I have a fabulous figure. I Think I’ve just got to accept I’m an hourglass and not a straight up and down shape and no amount of dieting will ever change that.
I’m sure we’ll both feel fab with our new boobs!!
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Shazzy I feel like u. I am fat everywhere well not v fat but size 10/12, with masive hips and thighs but I have the flatest chest like a boy without my implants. Even with implants I look small on top but I guess at least I look less like a freak lol. I had two kids with c sections and my tummies a mess too, loads of steckmarks, before kids I was a size 8/10 but toned everywhere. Xxx,
I’m sure you look fine though was just saying we all have days of feeling ugly. Xx
Ally, I totally agree. Let’s face it, if we didn’t have body hang ups we wouldn’t be having surgery. xx
Thanks ladies.
I wish i appreciated my body b4 i had kids, was a lovely toned size 8 then. I just hope with the implants i look curvy haha
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hi shazzy, don’t put yourself down hunni. My pre op pic is quite similar to yours! Had my ba for my 40th birthday, was empty 34b after 3 lots of breast feeding, i’m size 10/12 and weigh 10 stone 5ft 7″ so quite similar build to you. Had 380 overs and now a nice full 34e
Feel much more in proportion now.
Don’t think any of us appreciated our bodies before kids, but hey thats life, and we wouldn’t be without them (hmmm well sometimes lol). Good luck hunni x
Hi Shazzy, sounds like you have a great figure, especially as you are lovely and tall!
I do want to say though if you have a big gap between youre boobs now that will most likely be axentuated by your op, has the surgeon talked to you about this?
I had hardly any gap between my boobs but now after my BA the gap when i’m naked is quite big and my boobs are out to the side. This is where they need to be otherwise my nipples wouldn’t be central.
I’m 30 and have the body of an 80 year old from the neck down after having my two kids!!!love them dearly but they don’t half mess with your body.got stretchmarks everywhere (both were big babies and I’m 5th 2 n looked like I swallowed a whale!!!) my stomach is totally gross and can’t even see my belly button due to all the stretchmarks!!Don’t worry hun I have serious hangups about my bod,but I’m on my way to getting it back to some normality after my ba!!!Tummy tuck will have to wait a few years,I’ve skinnied down to 8st 10 n size 8/10 but has made my tummy worse!!!Ho hum at least my hubby n kids love me the way I am!!!
Ros, mr singh did not really mention it, all he said was with overs i will get a better clevage. 
Im really worried now that i will have 2 boobies 1 facing east and other west haha.
Nancy, your post tickled me, but well done u for getting back down to a nice weight.
Tammy your picture are wicked. Hope my boobies turn out like yours.
Thanks girls, your all a great help. xx
My boobs were horrible pre-op! I need to get my mummy tummy toned as soon as i can start exercising again, gonna give that ab circle pro thing a go. I too was a lovely toned size 8 pre kids but now covered in stretch marks lol. x
hey i just saw your photos im really similar to you iv’e had 4 kids and my boobs look very similar to yours im also 9 and a half stone.
You do not look ugly at all when you have ba i think you will feel so much more confident im hoping i will to! there no way you need anything else doing to you just a healthy diet easier said than done tho! also did you breastfeed i want overs too have breastfed all my kids so hoping there enough brest tissue there to do it i bet you cant wait! ive gotta wait about 6 months yet for mine! x
oi! Im 12 stone!!! lolz you have me added as a friend, your a yummy mummy believe me
im 5ft 10 lol
hi shazzy i had my pre-op nurse app today she was lovely and reasured me so much my biggest fear is my ba making me look fat ive lost a lot of weight (still a stone to go)but i breastfeed my son 17 years ago!!! im in my 40s and have wanted my ba for the past 3 years the nurse i saw had her own ba only 3 weeks she was around my age with grown up kids and took away any feeling of doubt she was just what the doctor ordered because like u i was feeling so unsure didnt know if i should put it off and lose more weight first but after seeing her i found myself walking around london with a big smile on my face i now feel excited and confidant that im making the right decision, like i said i still want to lose a stone so after my recovery i will be back on track with healthy eating and exercise. as for your pics u look good your a young women you’ve had children and im sure they are worth it your boobs look just like mine i also feel theres a gap mr adamo explained what he can do i will still wear bras but will have so much more to put in them i want a natural look and in your 40s natural is’nt the same as a natural look for a girl in her 20s im having 410cc overs on the 23rd march with mr adamo i’ll be no page 3 babe thats for sure but i’ll feel a million dollors take care shazzy sorry for the long post xxxxxxxxx
Ritam that was a lovely long post. Thanks very much, Did you go to london for your pre op, cos my nurse a week or so ago had just had hers done, she was a larger lady, 11 days post op, and she looked really good.
So we are going the same size.lol. and overs, shame your one week before me.Once again thanks for a lovely reply.
Thanks you all ladies for all your replies, thats what this site is all about, when your down you pick each other up. Your all so very lovely.
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your boobs are not ugly at all hunn! you should have seen mine pre op, small with huge nipples and one was bigger than the other, oh and not to mention the random blue vein running down the middle lol i think we all are rather self critical, hence the need for surgery and self improvement, and why not
just think, you’ll have some new bangers to show off in no time! xx
yes shazzy she was in london and so caring she made me feel great i think because she was so happy with her own ba that it put my mind at rest she even told me to ask for her if i had any probs felt like i was in good hands. this forum has been a great help and will be post op. sometimes we forget the emotional side of this.
on a happy note think of all the great undies, summer dresses ect….my hubby knows its not the cost of the op its the new wardrobe i want scares him but still hes a man and also has a big smile on his face!!!!!!xxx
i just wanted to say thanks for accepting the friend ship i have had a look at ur boobs and i dont see whats ugly about them yes they are small but so are lots of women i honestly think they are fine not saggy – when u have ur boob job on march 30th they are gonna look fab as u already have sum breast tissue
you have been blessed with kids – not many women have that opportunity – i think your figure is lovely for a women who has had 2 children – ive had one and im still trying to shift the weight there nuthing wrong with being curvy momma and once you have your boob job your gonna be an even sexier momma – as for losing weight that is for you to decide – since i had my op on friday i have been on a diet and ever since my op has realy helped me to start and stick to my diet. but huni please dont lose too much weight if you want to its always good to have hips and a booty gives a something to hang on to 😆 just dont beat urself up hun ur figure and boobs are fine to mee – good luck with your op – sexy momma x xx
Nessy what a lovely post, how sweet of you. You are absolutly rite, i have been bleesed with kids, im a very lucky mummy. Hope your operation went really well and your boobies are ok. Nothing wrong with love handdles haha. happy healing. xx
Chin up huni,
kids do wonderful things toour bodies eh!! You’ll feelmuch more confident after having your BA I did
when I look at my pre-op pics now i think ewww….my breast were terrible but there now full n pert
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I think it’s all about confidence-my other half says he doesn’t care what I look like, bless him but it’s all-about how you feel in yourself.No one tells you your body becomes a train wreck after kids!!I haven’t seen your photos Hun but bet you are just fine as you are, but if you don’t feel confident go for it-that’s what I’m doin!!!Good luck and it looks like we all have plenty of support on here-nothing like a good ol girly moan to make us feel better and sharing excitement with others going through the same thing!!!!xxxxxxx
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