I haven't told my mam.. any advice?

I have my consultation with the surgeon tomorrow and haven’t even explained to my mam that I’ve ever considered a BA any advice with this? I’m 21 so old enough, I will have to soon though as I am currently living at home and she’s probably going to notice something!

Thanks xx

I’m 27 and was really worried about telling my mam, had been thinking of getting my op for years and always used to say ‘whn I get my boobs done . . . .’ think she just thought I was messing on. I ended up taking my mam to my first consultation with me and think it was then she realised I was serious about getting it done. She has been sooo supportive, even though she didnt think I needed the op (probs cos she’s my mam). I’m 9 days post op now and my mam and nanna have been such great supports for me, they came with me for my op and have been brilliant since. Think you just need to bite the bullet and be brave and tell your mam, sure she’ll be supportive, thats what mams are there for Xx

I’m telling mine after, she proper worries does my mum!! I’ve told my old man, and he was great (i have a very modern dad hahaa).

I can’t be done with my mum droning on about ‘how silly i am either’

At 30 years old I’ve had enough time to:

a) wait for them to grow

b) think about it

Good luck hun xxx

Hey hun I’m 20 nearly 21 and my mum isnt strict

But she hates anything that would change me including my weave jaha

I just sat down and out right told her after my initial consultation

Well .. Actually it was whn I’d booked it.

I said im not happy with the way I look

I’ve saved up and it would mean the world if you’d support me.

I told her I wouldn’t do it if It meant us falling out.

My mum is my world and she’s been amazing really supportive even though I know

She hates that I’ve had it done.

She said it meant more to her knowing I was actually concerned about her feelings.

My advice tell her she will thank you for it hunny xxx

You might be surprised at her reaction, at first my dad was furious because he’s old and assumed boob jobs meant the Katie price look so wouldn’t speak to me, I let him calm down, got some pictures of what I wanted and explained why I wanted it, too my surprise he’s paying! Xx

i told mine 2 days before the op, and got the “do you not see the news”…lol, and then after was told, “you cant tell and was it worth it”, and im 37, funny how we all to scared to tell our moms no matter what age you are…x

I bkd my op in April and its on the 4th Jan, so with 9 weeks to go am still in two minds whether to tell her. It’s pathetic really, I’m 29 with my own family now but still can’t face the thought of telling her. We are actually really close and I tell her everything but I know she will be very angry, upset and will not understand it. I’ve decided either to tell her before the op or never tell her and see if she ever notices, tbh I don’t think she will! I’m only have small implants and I won’t be parading around in a bikini around her.

However your situation is slightly different in that you still live at home with your mum and you will need that support network around you for your recovery, I would tell her hun she might surprise you. Good luck xx

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