I just wanna feel confident and sexy again

its been a good thing for me coming on here, its amazing how alone you can feel when you loose all confidence in yourself,its not just you it effects its your family and lifestyle, i used to be sooooo very loud lol and very confident and since having my beautiful baby boy ive completely withdrawn from the world. altho my hubby tells me everyday he loves me i can feel myself pushing him away everytime he trys to get close. i feel sad everytime i look in the mirror, ill stand there changing the angle trying to find just a hint of the old me that was once there but i just cant see it. but at least now i have something to look forward to once the 8th of october has come and gone i know ill start to get my old self back,i cant wait to feel confident again and not scared to undress in front of my hubby xxx

oh hun, its awful i feel like that wont even look in the mirror at my chest! feel like a boy and cant buy any nice underwear etc! that time will fly bye and i bet you will feel amazing xxx

The futures looking good girls,xxxx

its not good summer is it its amazing how much are bodys change its not fair x

i no the men have it easy are body’s change after kids and there’s nothing we can do well apart from ba!!x i hope so Tina x

I know exactly how you feel. If someone showed me a picture of my body after having my son i never would have had a baby!! Thats sounds horrible, i love my son to bits but i really never knew how much it changed your body. I wish it was just my chest, but i got the worst of everything, i need tummy tuck too and have stretch marks!

I didnt appreciate my old body, but now i see that it was fine. I wouldnt even take my top off for months in front of my partner, whilst he stays fit and toned!x

It’s not just having babies girls. I’ve not had any, nor will I. My boobs just naturally sagged. I always had great firm boobs and loved them. It just seemed like one day I looked down and they’d gone south. I’m so happy I’ve had them done. They still feel a bit odd at moment but I’m only 4 weeks post op so heres hoping. Xx

emma what surgery are u having done?

from having my son my boobs sagged bad!!(they have always been huge since my teens) and i also lost 2 stone which also aided in this. i hated them, i didnt see them as part of my body just 2 ugly things that happened to be on my chest, and that would drop out my bra if i bent over haha. we did have some fun with them smacking my boyf round the head with em lol.

i am post surgery now 9 days, i had an uplift without implants and they look amazing already, i love them. the scarring will NEVER be as bad as how they looked before. feel free to add me and have a look. and good luck with your surgery not too much longer now til you are feeling amazing again

xxx

Don’t worry, you will feel confident again soon hun.

But I’ve just checked out your avator and you have got a figure and boobs to die for?! I would love to look like you xx

im having an uplift and implants 300cc jodes i am a saggy dd at the mo i hate them they look awful,and thanks tracy thats nice of you but that was before i had my baby i wish i looked that good now myself lol xx

Trust me Emma, I felt exactly the same, the only difference with me was that I was a 34 empty A.

I am 11 days post op and even tho I have alot more healing to do, I look in the mirror and see different person, once u have ur op hun you will feel as i do xx

aww thanks sweetp its strange but just knowing it is gunna happen now has made me feel a lil better, im seeing my surgeon again tomorro just to calm my nerves lol xx

im the same!! been with my partner a year and a half and he has never seen me naked. my friends think im a c cup but im really a A cup its just ive been hiding it so well for 12 years. cant wait to have my op on the 21 of this month…….cant wait to shop and buy backless dresses, no padded bras, strip off and dance my arse off for my partner in sexy ann summer outfit lol CANT WAIT!!! it will change my life so much heres to new beginnings!!

i think probably 90% of people on here have the same reason for wanting a ba i know i have, whenever i’m getting ready to go out with my bf or even family i end up in tears and try on my whole wardrobe to try to look better,i’m sick of padding and feeling ugly, can’t believe in 8 days i will have my own boobies.x

i know im the same and even getting ready with the girls i have tried everything not to go over to there houses and get ready with them…but not anymore!! so much is gonna change in 12 days time…but nothing is gonna be better then going swimming for the first time with my son…..

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