I really didnt think anyone would notice.. :/ dunno how 2 feel lol Started by: flicky1

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  • flicky1 1
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    Just put a couple pics on my facebook from a night out last night an i didnt anticipate anyone commenting on my boobs! ive had like 3 inboxes from people in 5 mins asking if ive had my boobs done LOL i really didnt think they were that noticable! i dunno how to feel about it :S i didnt have them done for other people to comment! has anyone had any people on there fb or whatever comment or asking questions? how did u deal with it? an what did u say to them? i havent replied to their comments yet though! help!!! xx

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    haha personally I think thats awesome. They are bound to notice hun :) when a friend of mine told me she had them done I was in total awe of her courage to go for something so life-changing. And ofcourse, she looked amazing! Before that moment, I thought boob jobs were mainly for celebrities haha! It was there and then I decided to go for it. If you dont want them to know just fib haha :P xxx

    flicky1 1
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    i havent even gone very big so i assumed people that didnt know i had a ba would think i just had a really good bra on haha xx

    keeleychic 1
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    Is it men or women asking you flick?? Lol xx

    keeleychic 1
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    Is it men or women asking you flick?? Lol xx

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    I’m dreading this as only close friends know who I know wont spread it round the valleys, don’t want every one to be checking an commentin that my boobs fake an gettin unwanted attention, mayb you could try tellin them you put on weight or your takin meds for somethin that altered them if you really don’t want everyone knowing xx

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    Could just tell them you bought a new wonderbra or something lol I havent told anyone at work but they’re 80% men so im worried they’re going to notice and make jokes when I go back :/ xx

    ayshababy 5
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    lol i uploaded the pic in my profile pic here on my fb n obv its v noticeable i had comments like aysha they are bigger than ur head! or take it uve had ur boobs done!

    i jus said yehh :D no point hiding it imo, n i think itd be worse if girls try hide it coz people gossip behind ur back that way, but if ur straight up about it what can they say!! x

    dolly92 3
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    PROUDD :D

    I remember when I uploaded my first ‘cleavage pic’ on facebook and I had 21 notifications just for that one picture haha! Some people asked me on the comment thread for the picture which I thought was a bit rude because to me that’s like really broadcasting it. So I deleted those comments and just sent the people concerned a quick PM to say that I had them done….as if it wasn’t obvious enough already, LOL. I knew that people were going to notice because I had such a big change so I was a bit more prepared for all that.

    I agree with Aysha, personally I think it’s best to be upfront about it, that way people can’t make you out to be a liar (bitchy girls in particular) but if you want to keep it private then that’s understandable and you have every right to do so. I think your best bet is to say your wearing the M & S two sizes bigger bra if you don’t want anyone to know :D xx

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    Emmarose I work with 80% men too and so I made a decision to tell those I was close to at work before I had my op. Everyone was mega supportive too. As much as its noones business its sometimes unrealistic to think noone will notice etc. Also I had to have time off for the op and then change my job a bit when I came back to work. So even those who didnt know before now know Iven had something done and Im asked daily why Im doing a different job to usual, I just say ‘Ive had an op’ and if they ask what (which most dont) I discreetly say ‘a boob job’. We shouldnt be ashamed…its something we’ve wanted for a long time and have probably saved long and hard for! If they are judgemental just ignore them – narrow minded!

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    I have told my boss, he’s been quite supportive but most of them are just dirty old men :/ luckily my boss did say he would have words with anyone who stepped out of line but I’m still nervous..

    I’m proud of my new boobies :) I’m not going to show everyone but I have no problem telling them A) its none of your business or B) yes I’ve had my boobs done and I love them! :D xx

    flicky1 1
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    Its just been guys that have asked! I tink they got some cheek lol, id never message someone an ask some thing like that! especially if were not exactly “friends” im proud of myself for doing something ive always wanted to do an my confidence has gone through the roof so im not ashamed or anything just didnt want the whole world to notice i just thought ppl would think ive got a good bra on cos i havent gone THAT big, loads bigger then before but i was always able to “fake it” booster bras etc lol i think if someone i know but i havent told asks me ill tell them but as for randoms that i dont speak to very much like these guys that have asked im just gonna ignore the msg! luckily no1s written stuff like that on the actual pics just one guy wrote “boooobs!” its not like a uploaded a pic of my tits anyway was just a normal pic from a night out, i think people got some nerve asking like its there business! ha! thanks for replying girls! have any of you had any negative comments yet? xx

    flicky1 1
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    eww i just got a notification, i tagged a male friend whos in the pic with me an one of his mates (who i am not friends with or even know who they are) just wrote wowza something just happened in my trouser! lool do they not realise ill see that comment :S ppl r weirdos!

    dolly92 3
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    Yes! As we speak there’s some girl writing on my profile pic saying that my boobs look ridiculous. Biatch! x

    flicky1 1
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    on your facebook?? some people have no shame! x

    dolly92 3
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    Yeah I know! She’s a bit of a geek so my friend gave me the best comeback: You must be one of those math nerds, especially with those frames; you add trouble, subtract pleasure, divide attention, and multiply ignorance. Kerchingg! :D x

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    flicky1 , i was the talk of the school run when i had mine done and i only had 380 under !! but its cause i got 2 wear things i wouldnt wear before, cause i had some confidence :) !!! i just let them all get on with it, longs we r happy babe xxxx

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    people always talk about other people weather youve had your boobs done or not. dont worry about it and just delete them as fb friends!! haha! do what feels right for you and remember that its more a compliment than an insult im sure, just not nessasarily a very appropriatley delivered one! x

    nesbit
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    well said juliewoolie :) xxxx

    leah91 -1
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    Be proud flicky1 I’ve put up with loads of shit .. There talk either way and only badly if there jealous :-) xx

    gbbx
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    i wouldn’t admit to it if u dont want people finding out, im getting mine done and dont want anyone to know lol xx :)

    cazz24
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    I told nearly everyone after my op as I thought best to get it out in the open rather than people talking behind my back and because I’m not very good at keeping things to myself lol. However don’t think anyone would have noticed anyway as I used to wear really padded bras so not really that much bigger than what everyone thought I was lol.

    Ps Dolly that’s a really good comeback lol xx

    dolly92 3
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    I know, right? Literally about 10 other people (2 of which I’ve barely even spoken to) just jumped on that bitch straight away! lol. People were ripping into this girl for about an hour and I let them do it…serves her right! Seriously I’ve never done her any harm at all and she just comments saying ‘They look ridiculous’. I know it’s not to everyone’s taste but that’s what makes us different, right? And to do it on facebook, you know your going to get shut down…as flicky said…no shame! Another good one was ‘We all sprang from apes. But clearly you didn’t spring far enough’ mwhahahaha! :) x

    lizba
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    Slightly different but I know how you feel. I had a nose job two weeks ago; I thought that only people who knew me well would really notice, I even got a massive haircut as a diversionary tactic. I went back to work today and everyone noticed within five minutes, it’s really embarrassing because I’m a teacher and the kids were all staring at me. It really upset me, but there’s nothing I can do about it and I love my new nose! X

    flicky1 1
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    i dont mind people knowing but when its people u barely talk to writing on ur pics its just weird! an very rude!! havent had anyone be mean yet but still i find it very rude! boys will be boys but if any girls try be rude ill fuckin ave em! ha bunch of mugs! cant stand jealous people, such an ugly trate to have xx

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    I didnt tell anyone at work and wasnt sure anyone would notice as its only obvious depending on what I wear, Ive heard through a friend a few people have been asking but they of course will never ask me to my face – not many people would be that brave. I just find it amusing that people talk about you and not ask you yourself – but then thats offices for you. I dont actually care what people at my work think I did it for me not them. Take it as a compliment too. Unless its pervy – thats not nice.

    flicky1 1
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    my friend commented on my pic saying i look wonderful an then a guy said she was a beaut before but now is even better now that she has a cracsh landing lol wtf? deleted his ass does he not realise i can fucking read what hes saying!? :S was half a compliment, pervy an kinda insulting lol seriously people have no clue! the only good thing is atleast a guy would prob ask u or say something to ur face, girls love to bitch an talk behind our backs! xx

    gbbx
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    sounds stupid, but has anyone ever put on weight on purpose before surgery to disguise surgery?Xx

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    iv told all of my friends and people i work with. im very proud that i am having my ba very soon. peoples negative opinions dont mean anything to me. everyone has a right to have an opinion but when they go out of their way to be spiteful or jealous they can do one and kiss my ass. to stop people talking i have even got a countdown going on my FB and at work. when girls question why i am doing it or how big in a sarky way i say GG’s baby and look out for me in FHM & ZOO mag im thinking of a big career change then walk away from the conversation leaving them open mouthed and talking even more lol. be proud of your new boobies.

    if people’s coments upset you flicky just hit the big delete button they are not worth it. you look great and i am really glad you are healing well. im having the boobie god MR C 22 may xx

    flicky1 1
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    love it sarah! haha might try that one about fhm an zoo an see what they have to say lol! everyones been cool really just lil comments from guys but nothing mean so im not too upset or anything! xx

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