I received a PM a short while ago from a respected member on the forum asking me to lie and comment on someones boobs because this poor gal had not received many comments. I PM’d the person back and said that i would not be commenting on anyones boobs if i did not like them as I do not beleive in that…. this person then asked me to lie.
All I will say girls is be careful who u trust xxx
when you read things like this it makes you question who is genuine with their compliments
gutted people do things like this, its those kind of things which make people doubt each other x
Very right to not do that cuks. That would actually hurt me more to be lied to.
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I know and think it was completely bizzare and out of order x x
Omg hope it wasn’t about me – as i am the 1 always moaning!!
Honest to god if I don’t like someone’s boobs then I just won’t comment, what is the point in lying!!!!!! Makes you wonder whether even to listen to some people’s comments if they’re just talking shite!! Thanks cuks for letting us know xx
Agreed. The point of putting pics up is to get genuine opinions, there’s no point in having pictures on here if that is what goes on. Its better to be told the truth and given advice on what to do then covering it up with a blaintant lie!
Very curious who this is!
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Im not lying to anyone – If i dont like wot I see, rather than say they look lovely, or wow, or dont they look great – I’d rather saynothing at all.
I felt i had to do the right thing and let u know xxx
Who was the user?? X
Theres noway the person wouid admit it…therefore they know its OUT OF ORDER
Was it about my pictures?? X
Lol. Well I don’t mind if I don’t receive many comments back on my pictures. It doesn’t bother me
Guys – for the sake of not hurting anyones feelings i am not going to disclose who the person was whose boobs i was asked to comment on and secondly am not going to cause trouble by disclosing the person who PM’d me and asked me to lie.
I just want u gals to know that this has happended.
xxx all i will say is be careful gals – also you can go onto someones pics on their profile and download their photos – hence to say i took my pics down for this very reason.. makes u wonder wot ppl can do with your photos.
I’m not sayin that emily i still think its wrong that the pm was sent x
I not seen any private messages or anything. I don’t come on here much anymore. But when I do people are talking about MY boobs. Lol.
waheyyyyy
I copied the PM i has and sent it ot a few of the girls that i have become close to and trust. xx Just wanted others to know.
I was more alarmed that ppl can download ur photos…
Cuks I understand you not wanting to name and shame this person. But this has left everyone feeling very paranoid now, wondering if it there pics this person is talking about!! Could you not report this person to MYA mod and let them deal with it?? Not having a go Cuks, you know I think alot of ya, you’ve helped me loads pre op and now post op xxxx
i would hate to think that girls were doing this on a forum that is meant to help people. i do not have any pictures up yet and this is a good reason not too. i do not see the point in saying “wow your boobs look fab” when they clearly do not as this will put the girl under a false sense of security and may pose nakey on beaches etc to have people looking and calling them. when if they got some CONSTRUCTIVE advice they could go and see their surgeon and get the problem fixed to cause further heart ache and embarrassment.
maybe whoever sent the pm thought they were helping when in fact being lied to hurts more than the truth
ive got pics up and ive had some very nice comments but even if id only had 1 comment id rather have 1 honest comment then 20 odd comments saying there nice if ppl dont think they are but im not too bothered neway as long as there helping pre op girls and as long as i like them thats what matters to me
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