im having a ba but have a 5month baby

Im goin with my hubby he is staying in a hotel so he can be there when I wake up the next day and take me home when are you having your op jo? any1 going to manchester? xxxxx

hi there!! i am the best person to speak to!! i had my ba and uplift done last sept!! and at the time my baby was 9 months old!! and i was so unsure on what to do! as he wud need lifting etc!! plus my 3 year old needed sortig out too!! so i went and stayed at my mums for 10 days, then went back again for another 4 ways!! i cudnt stay at my house as my partner works, so i needed help! so my brill mother did everything!! i laid upstairs resting and watching tv and sleeping! and cos i rested for so long i healed really well!! as they say the less you do the better and quicker you heal!! so do what i did! then after that get ya mum a lil gift to say thanks!! i started lifting again after 2weeks!! but still was very careful!! but you will know when you are ready !! good luck!! XXXXXXX

hi
its amazing how you ajust to doing things like picking the kids up, ul find away that suits u in no time my pc said if it hurts stop an then try it again a few days later, i did worry alot as im a single mum with 2 kids they were 8 an 5 there 10 an 7 now and they both have special needs so didnt want them kicking me wen changing nappies or pushing the wheel chair but u get through it, hope all goes well xx.

Hi
We will all get through it girls, it won’t be long!! Hubby has took a week off work to do school runs and help me around the house. My little boy is wondering what on earth is wrong with me!!! Bless him!!
I hope you are all doing ok!! xx

Hi girls

I had a ba tuesday 12 jan 10. Im not in any pain just cant move my arms much. my boyfreind is home 4 a wk and the nurse said when u lift 2 kneel down,pull them close 2 ur chest then stand. take it slowly and u will b fine.my little 1 is one and shes wondering y i cant pik her up. just do as little lifting as poss untill 2 wks xx

divafly I have consulted with my gp about being put to sleep and have been reassured im at no higher risk thanks for the advice though. good luck lizzie have you got help through the day? xxxxxxxxxx

awww good luck lizzie.. im sure wel be ok.. awww they just love us tho and want to show mammy how much thy do bless thm.. my little boy wil probs cry if i dont giv him a cuddle wen i see him.. ill just have 2 sit down and ask sum1 2 put him on ym knee and he can cuddly me that way do u think tht will be ok if i put a pillow next 2 my boob so that he dont knock it.. i hope so id be devistated not bein able to give him a cuddle 4 6 weeks or whatever =[ xxx

Hi Girls
Its definitely going to be so hard with little ones!! I have a little monkey too. My youngest is three and is very much into jumping around at the moment!!! (I have spiderman to thank for that!!!) I’m going to be on egg shells when I get home on Thursday, incase he accidently knocks me. We are all going tohave to try and be extra careful and not take any risks where lifting is concerned.
Starting to get a little nervous now, Wednesday is almost here…OMG!!!
Good luck every one! xx

actaully love, dont mean to put you down but i think you should read about Usher’s wife the musictian… she was to have a tummy tuck but she pasted away shortly after anasthesia because i think you are not suppose to have anasthesia till certain months or probably a year after giving birth. actally, has was 3 month or a little more after conciving though… dont mean to scare you but i just thought you should know what you are doing> luv x

aww deffo jo i kno its guna b hard.. ill be devistatd ill be like dont touch mammys new boobies thr so hel probs hit me in th boob on purpose hes a little monkey lol.. and im goin on me own.. his dad is guna stop at mine and have him for me then my grnadmas guna kum get him thn his dads guna wait thr 4 me make sure im ok lol.. wot a wimp i am honestly.. im in doncaster =] xx

Hi is anyone having a breast enlargement who has a baby? Im considering having the op in feb my mum can spend a week with me after the op but no longer!! im so worried I wont be able to pick up my little girl??
Is anyone else in this situation??
xxx

becareful girls, if you rush and do things you shouldnt u will ruin you new boobies!! i no with children it will be hard, im gonna hate not being able to pick my daughter up! take it easy!! xxx

aww thanx hun.. and honestly youl be fine i bet its not as bad as some people say.. my pc said ill be fine so sure you will.. least ur little girl will still sleep alot just try relax abit wen shes asleep thn wen hubbys home hel be able 2 help on night times its be fine.. nah not yet im more excited thn nervis but i bet u on th way dwn ill b crappin myself lol.. wen r u goin? feb? r u travelin thr on ur own?? xxx

I have only got help for a week im a bit worried plz let me know how you get on!!! good luck are you nervous? xxxxx:bigsmile:

friday lol.. awww ill be fine.. iv had worse.. i had my son and got an emergency section within 4days i discharged myself and was home tidyin up hoverin th lot.. im sure ill manage my boyfriend (well ex) said hel stop a few night a week and help me out so its not so bad.. just got to manage i suppose =] and yea i kno what you mean about bleedin.. i was talkin 2 my pc and she said just try not to pick them up within th first 2 weeks.. then after that just try do it gradually =] xxx

sophie I hope ur ok!!! just dont want to risk any bleeding or anything I have a hubby who cant get time off work!!! when is your op?? xxx

wish my bloody family would help they are all at work.. and well his dad umm LAZY!! i suppose close friend will help you aswell my best pal is guna help me on a night time and that so its not that bad.. just for th 1st week like.. i think aswell for th 1st 2 days rest but after that if you do things gradually its apprantly helps alot as your not so stiff when you actaully do have to do stuff =] if that makes sence lol xxx

im also in same situation, i have a 1year old little girl, im lucky iv got a boyfriend taking a week off work to help, when ur family help out just make the most of it and make sure you do nothing but rest.xxxx

hiya iv got a 20month old little boy.. and trust me hes a mammys boy always wants pickd up and cant walk down th stairs properly yet so im dreadin all this even liftin him into his high chair.. my grandma is only havin him for th weekend then iv got him back and im alone so im kinda in same situation.. but im sure we will cope.. have you not got a boyfriend or hubby that can help you? xxx

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