Is fuming…selfish twat!

Im trying to save up £1000 to go towards my nose job but my bf has had a go at me cz I won’t lend him money out of my nose job fund! He wants to lend £50 and I’ve only got £200 in there. We’re going on holiday in June and I know he won’t be able to afford to pay me back even tho he said he will. I’m really protective over this money cuz havin a nose job means soo much to me as I HATE my nose and would do anything to change it. Hes having a go at me saying next time I need money he won’t help me out. Should I just give it him? Can’t believe he’s made me feel like this I could cry cuz at this rate I’m never gonna get my nose done ‘( xx

Ah hun hope u ok , mayb u should say if u lend him it then he’ll think he can keep doing it then u will end up with none ! If it means Tht much to u don’t do it it’s your money what would he do if u never had any money saved ?? xx

explain to him exactly how you feel and how this nose makes you feel! how much that money means to you! i had abit of a fall out with my bf but i explained and in the end he got a loan out in his name! i dont think you should give it him! hel get over it xxx

Lie…tell him he can have it only if he pays u by end of month as u have spoken to the surgeon and they have to have so much for a deposit and u don’t get it back, also tell him that u have waited all ur life for this op, and this will b the last time he makes u feel like shit and let’s hope he never wants anything done!

If he loved u he wouldnt be as nasty and he needs to go and think about what his said and try to understand from ur point of view….ur doing this for ur self and no-one else.

don’t let put u down ur much better than him and u WILL get through this and the money to get ur new nose x

oh i hope so, we had an arguement last night and i told him straight that i’m doing it for me as i’ve hated it for soo long, and if he doesnt like it he knows what to do. I mentioned i want a boob job too and he flipped and said he isnt gonna help me out with that, and that i’m selfish cuz he wants us to move in together and i’m delaying it by being ‘vain’. He apologised this morning but i’m still mad at him. He said he doesn’t understand why women think men like massive boobs..i said so if i had big boobs u wouldn’t like it?? he said no…BULLSHIT!!! lol xxx

I’ve seen soooo many things on here about girls breaking-up with boyfriends and divorcing their husbands it’s unreal, I had my boobs done a year ago and I had no problems with my bf of 3 years and we still have no problems now, I was a bitch to him for some weird reason coz I had a funny reaction to the after-surgery drugs and he never was nasty back and I would cry to him and stuff and apologised for hating him for no reason etc. he stuck by, never moaned, loaned me some money to get my boobs done sooner and so did my dad and they both got all their money back when I said they would.

He does sound selfish honey and moving in together can wait, surely it’s not any less important than getting your nose done now? Once you move in together you have bills and stuff and might not be able to afford it then, surely if he’s being like this too what if you did move in together and decided to get your boobs done later and he wasnt supportive then either? You need support after surgery emotionally and physically.

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