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    Im trying to save up £1000 to go towards my nose job but my bf has had a go at me cz I won’t lend him money out of my nose job fund! He wants to lend £50 and I’ve only got £200 in there. We’re going on holiday in June and I know he won’t be able to afford to pay me back even tho he said he will. I’m really protective over this money cuz havin a nose job means soo much to me as I HATE my nose and would do anything to change it. Hes having a go at me saying next time I need money he won’t help me out. Should I just give it him? Can’t believe he’s made me feel like this :( I could cry cuz at this rate I’m never gonna get my nose done :‘( xx

    heather119 -1
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    No dont you dare that money is there for you and your new nose if he needs something for 50 pound he will have to save like you what a dick xx

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    No you shouldn’t…can’t he ask his family? Thats for you so don’t feel guilty into not lending him any at all. xxx

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    No no no! Its your money and its for something you have probably been dreaming about for a long time I’m guessing? If you do it once it’s likely that he’ll ask again and it will take ages to save the money :( x

    gem0307
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    that money is for u babe, for ur new nose, for ur self confidence x

    amb101 1
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    dont do it.

    my boyfriend is the same.. although he’s learnt not to ask anymore.

    its just a NO answer. end of!

    xxxx

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    Stacey I cant believe his being that insensitive! I would not give my bf my saving towards a surgery…he should really understand ! I hope he realises that’s very unfair of him to expect that from you!!

    Xxxgoodluck keep your savings babe!

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    stacy. its up to you, but think about it you want your nose done, he should understand that. especially if his your other half :D

    get that nose you deserve x

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    Awww thanks girls, I’ve said no to him but he’s trying to make me feel guilty, I’m gonna be firm and say no. It’s his own fault he’s ran outta money, just wish I had the money now so I could get it done :( xx

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    Aww, mate this is not good at all, he’s defo being an unreasonable selfish boy!

    DO NOT lend him the money… if he needs money he’ll have to some cash in hand work or something to get a few extra penny’s. :) xxx

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    Dont you dare give into him babe if he wants to be like that let him, he should understand that the procedure means so much to you. Like others have said Im sure he will find it somewhere else. And if he is guilt tripping you I wouldnt take any of it.Tell him straight and if he doenst like it thats his problem!. He would want your support no doubt if he was going to do something. Hope you get this sorted soon lovely.

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    oh i hope so, we had an arguement last night and i told him straight that i’m doing it for me as i’ve hated it for soo long, and if he doesnt like it he knows what to do. I mentioned i want a boob job too and he flipped and said he isnt gonna help me out with that, and that i’m selfish cuz he wants us to move in together and i’m delaying it by being ‘vain’. He apologised this morning but i’m still mad at him. He said he doesn’t understand why women think men like massive boobs..i said so if i had big boobs u wouldn’t like it?? he said no…BULLSHIT!!! lol xxx

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