is it just me whos scared i might die??? :(

hi girls…i had a boob job when i was 19 and back then i didnt worry about anything…now 26 and got 2 kids and i seem 2 worry about everything…getting my boobs done again but cant stop thinkin something’s gonna go wrong the thought of leaving my kids behind 4 an operation 2 get bigger boobs is awful! does any1 get these thoughts??? does any1 no if any1 has actually died having a boob job b4??? xx

I have read a couple of posts like this on the forum over the months honey,you are mother of course your going to worry,but you did this once and you can do it again,you will be looked after by a team of experts,if they thought for one minute there was something wrong,they would wake you up,you are going to be fine.

If it was too risky hundreds of people would not be taking that risk everyday,try to focus on the positives honey.xxx

Hi hun, I’m 19 now and I have my op in exactly a week and am so scared! I don’t have any kids but I feel the same way…sometimes I’ll have days where I’m like, do I really need this? and other days where I just think about how much I hate my boobs and how I’ve wanted it since the age of 15. I’m still really scared of leaving my family behind and I’ll probably cry loads on the day, but this is something I really want to do

I really don’t want to scare you, but yes a woman named Cora Berger, a porn star who was on German Big Brother died having her sixth boob job last year, but that is the only person I know of

But Tina is right, they are professionals and they know what they’re doing, and yes, every surgery carries risk and people sometimes do die, but think of the thousands that don’t. xx

I am the same! I have two kids and I think this all the time…especially as I get closer to the op. I think that it is so rare, and like Tina says, hundereds of women get them done every day and you rarely ever hear about fatalities xx

I dont Have kids but I’m paranoid about everything and cant say that thought hasn’t crossed my mind a few times but I think we all in safe hands….to us it’s a huge deal but woman do it all the time:)

Hi huni, I have 2 kids & I had my BA 2 weeks ago. Day before the surgery I was emmotional wreck, cried all day, said good-bye to my children… Was telling them something like “Remember that mummy always loved you, even when you were naughty & i had to tell you off!” Lol! I’ve convinced myself that I won’t survive. I did upset kids as well talking to them like that, what a stupid idiot1 lol!

I did speak to the anethetist and was told that there is MUCH higher chance you will die in the car accident when you have 1-hour long car jouney then from GA. So I figured that Im puting my life in higher risk by travelling to work 40 miles every day & never think twice about getting into my car!

I think those nerves are normal, especially as you have two little humans totally relying on you. But don’t worry, you will be fine!

PS. Thank you Tina who was there for me on the day of my opp, texting on my mobile to make sure im ok. I did mean sooo much! Thanks again Tina, u r star! xxx

aw thanx girls i guess this is normal 2 have these feelings…with or without kids but when u have kids its much more intense…a feeling of complete selfishness to the fact its an operation 2 enhance my boobs not an operation that has 2 b done and if i were 2 die it would leave 2 kids without there mum and my partner and family left 2 deal with it all. but ur all right when u say its gonna b fine and its only natural 2 have these thoughts. sometimes i think i wont go through with it but then il prob regret it if i dont.

anyway how r u all?

u r a lovely lady tina, every time ive been on here ive noticed ur always there 2 help and every1 appreciates it :)uve been through it all and ur advice is great.

oooroxanneooo how r u feeling after ur op 2 weeks ago? xx

Your going to be fine kitty,honestly,and your little ones will have a happy even more confident mum,you will be on here in no time reassuring other mums too,never feel selfish for wanting something for you,youll be a mum for the next 70 years,making sure your kids have everything they need,because they will always be your kids no matter how old they are,so this is very little to ask for yourself,you grab the opportunity with both hands honey,we are all behind you.xx

Im good now, thanks for asking! I was very sick from GA & in a lot of pain for the first 3-4 days…. But it did get better with time. Im back to work as from yesterday and can do more or less everything apart from lifting kids!

My boobs are still hard & painfull, but Im sure they will be ok with time. No regrets so far! x

oooroxanneooo its amazing how time heals and passes so quickly honey,you look amazing,Im so pleased you have no regrets.xx

I’m scared too even tho I been put to sleep 3yr ago. I have 2 kids and I’m terrified, but I just keep thinking people go through surgery everyday, someone I know was under ga for 14 hours for a breast reduction so I keep telling myself to stop it but I can imagine on day il b crying lol xx

U will be fine, I was scared before my op, but yesterday, I was calm, very calm, which isn’t like me. The chances of having a reaction are very minimal (I had a slight one, but think its because I was given to much, took me over two hours from leaving my room to returning, when its usually only an hour, and I was thrashing around loads) but I’m here still, and there’s thousands of people having a general the same day as you, and they will be worried to, but remember that its minimal risks, and its much better then being hit on the head with a hammer like the old days xx

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