is it rong that I'm not upset by what my bf finks.. Started by: xabbi1988x

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    I’m about 3 weeks po and to me my boobs look quite small (I keep gettin pointed out that actually they look quite big on me!). I took a pic n showed my bf n he said ‘I don’t like them, their too high and big’. I no my bf means no harm with this. Were very open with hw we feel n his def nt a boob man n hates the fake look so I kinda guessed he wud never proper like them. But is this rong, shud I hv been offended n shud I hv fort about him more b4 jumping in n gettin my boobies?!

    Just 4 the record my bf rele is lovely, just very honest but I like that!! Xx

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    No it’s not wrong, your boyfriend is entitled to his opinion but you did it for you not for anyone else ! It’s good that you have taken his remarks with a pinch of salt and that you know he isn’t being mean saying it to you.

    From what I gather from the ladies in this forum it takes sometimes months for your boobs to drop properly and look more natural, you never know in a few month time your boyfriend may just turn around and say it was the best thing you ever did.

    I hope that you love them and don’t worry your boyfriend will learn to love them x x

    hollybol 2
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    No, no, no! As long as you’re happy with them that’s all that matters xx

    amyk84
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    So long as you are ok that’s all that matters hun! My boyfriend has told me he doesn’t really like mine yet cos I asked him why he wasn’t really touching them. Think he’s just a bit freaked out by them, I’ve gone from having nearly nothing to being a DD/E virtually overnight! It’s a change and something they need to get used to as much as us. I think once mine soften properly my man will love them but he was never that bothered about me gettin it done in the first place. Said it was totally up to me and he would support me either way bless him, and he’s more of a bum man anyway!

    Your man probs just needs to get used to them too and they will change alot in the next few weeks. Mind are only just starting to look like normal boobs and I’m nearly 9 weeks post op! Give it time and remember that at the end of the day you did this for you xx

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    No. It’s hood that you are your own person. My stupid husband kept saying ‘do you regret it yet?’. Really annoying! He so didn’t want me to do it and hated them at first. Now he admittedly loves them and has eaten his words. Xxx

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    No. It’s hood that you are your own person. My stupid husband kept saying ‘do you regret it yet?’. Really annoying! He so didn’t want me to do it and hated them at first. Now he admittedly loves them and has eaten his words. Xxx

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