Is it worth it ??? :((((

hi, im 14 days in and really fed up, just feel ive spent all this money and agonised over making this descison, upset all my familys lives and i dont feel happy with my new boobs at all, ones bigger, totally different shape, they still kill me, my stitches look horrible, i cant move in a morning, bras are all irratating the scars, theyre rock hard and stuck out…..etc etc etc….sorry to be a moaning cow but its how i feel (( xxx

You are probably sick of hearing this,but it does get better,and so will you,when you all healed and you feel amazing your family will see how happy you are,they will know it was worth it,dont be so hard on yourself,they will change drastically in the next few weeks,youll feel less sore,the shape will change,and they will soften,trouble is we want to go to surgery wake up and see the results we imagined immediatley,we are all guilty of that,and too right we have paid a lot of money to make that change,you will see a difference hun,be patient,look through older posts in the forum,youll see others have felt exactly how you do now sweety and they couldnt be happier a couple of months on,xxx big hugs,xxxxx

bless, thanks for your kind words it nice to hear, i try talking to friends family etc but they have no idea how it feels, they expect me to be happy etc yet im just not there yet, i need PATIENCE lol!! can i add you as a friend?

many thanks xxxxx

Yes it is worth it! Doesn’t matter what your friends or family think, if it makes you feel better about yourself then that’s all that matters!

I’m three months PO and i absolutely love mine now, feel like i’ve always had them! Also don’t forget that the GA is a huge depressant and makes you feel down and miserable so it’s probably to do with that as well that you’re feeling a bit off. It gets so much better, week by week you’ll realise how much. Your boobs will drop and sort themselves out and in a couple of months you’ll feel fine and will be enjoying your new life with big boobs! xx

I felt exactly like you from the start of week 2 till the end of week 3, then i got most of my movement back, started to stand up straight again, got much better night’s sleep, and suddenly realised hey, they don’t look so bad after all. Every day after that i liked/ like them more and more. It does get easier, this phase does pass xxx

hi hun, i think at some point most of us have felt somthing of a love hate relationship with our boobs, ive thought mine too small, the pain got to me, the guilt that i should have spent the money on my daughter instead of myself, they looked fake to me, but it does change this week alone they have changed loads and id go through it all again if i had to now.

its still very early days hun try not to worry too much over it they’ll feel like yours and ull love them in no time. xx

i think u have a case of the boobie blues! I’m pretty sure everyone gets this, itll pass. im not poo pooing ur feelings at all, please dont feel that i am. Im sure u will be happy with them after another week or two honestly xx

thanks to you all so much, value the support, yea i feel like i should have spent the money on my 4 kiddies too, hate this guilty feeling, hopefully just boobie blues? if any of you dont mind me asking can i add you?

xxxx

i dont mind. my pics will be up soon. u’ll be able see why i was down about mine at 2 weeks lol xx

Hi Emma r u still poorly with then .Put some pics up .x

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