Is This A Good Enough Reason To Have A B.A?

I had a consultation with Mr Adamo yesterday .. Loved him! Decided I was going ahead both fam & friends are supportive .. But my mum did say something last night whic made me think .. Basically she said me getting it done wont make any difference to me .. and I fully understand what shes saying .. Im a confident person anyway .. && having a flat chest doesnt bother me day to day .. Like ive never been despressed about it!

So Ive thought about it and came to the conclusion (which i know is reallyyy shallow!!!) that the reason im having it is so I look good in clothes! Is that a stupid reason? xxx

does it bother you when you go shopping and skimpy summer dresses and tops don’t fit as well as you would like them too? If yes then have the BA if no then why are you wasting your money?

Before you book your ba I think you really need to weigh up the pro’s and con’s and decide if it is something that you really really want to do!!!

Yeh it does … Like when I last went on holiday I wouldnt wear a bikini .. Padded Tankinis all the way! Tend to wear t-shirts rather the vest tops .. And nights out usually consist of a high necked dress .. I just want to go out in anything and feel comfortable in what im wearing! xx

to be honest i wanted my ba as i didnt fit in clothes right, couldnt find bra’s and when i did i had them forever and ever

but near to booking and after booking i started to like my tiny boobs and at one point i was like i dont need them but my god……………………i am so glad i went through with it, hehe!!

I love them, i love how i look in lothes now, i feel like a women, and i actaully ffeel beautiful

I have no confidence but due to bullying at a young age of boys but now i feel amazing and its good feeling amazing hehe!!

i would defo have a good think and see if this is what u really want hun

xxxx

just reading ur last post, i refused to wear vest tops due to my tiny boobs and that they looked lost or non exsistent

defo a good enough excuse hun, its ur life and ur money hun

live ur life as you dont no when its going to end hun i did it alot to living my life insetad of saving as i learnt from my mum dieing at a young age i dunno when my time is up hun

p.s. when my mum was alive she never wanted me to have a BA but i have done this for me

xxxx

Hi know what you mean on holidays always hid under someing,padded bras with nice summer dressers sooooo uncomfortable,nothing fit on the top,just been away,oh my god loved been in my bikini,loved wearing my dresses and vest tops at night without bra sooo comfortable,i was so more confident,my holiday was more chilled because i wasnt hung up about what to wear and wasnt fretting about my tiny aaaaa boobs,if it makes you happy go for it,my regret is i didnt do it years ago good luck xx ps bikini shopping was brill and what a feeling throwing away my old bras and bikini plus my cloths fit better and you have to have new too xxx

Hey jj, i had the same dilema as you 3 years ago, was just about to book my surgery and decided i didnt need to do it and all i have done for the last 3 years is think about getting my boobs done, i went on holiday in december and felt i couldnt enjoy myself properly because of the way i looked and it got to the point i didnt want to go in the pool and play with my daughter because i felt like everybody was staring at my flat chest, it was the worst feeling ever. On the plane home i decided that i realy wanted it done and just to go and do it, i done some research and booked my consultation a month later and booked for my BA in april. 3 years ago i think my whole dilema was that i didnt hate my boobs and i still looked nice in a realy good bra, but without a realy good bra on i felt so self conscious. Theres nothing wrong with having little boobs if your happy with what youve already got, its all about how you feel about yourself and your own confidence. This forum has been amazing over the last couple of months and if you need to know anything you can just post a question on here and get loads of advice and help. Good luck making your mind up jj x x x x x x

Not at all… why shouldnt u look good in clothes, i was just as confident before my op as i am after it… but i feel sexier, more womanly… its nice to be able to fit a bra or bikini top for once, not have 2 wear my chicken fillets everyday of my life… its nice to feel like a real woman for once…

obviously u r unhappy with ur breast size, im very vain, and you could say my reason was vanity … which includes the reasons i mentioned above…

why shouldnt u have the right to have a decent size pair of breasts, why is it fair that other girls are blessed and some arent, if it will make u happier then why not??

Also.. can i ask, is your mother flat chested or???
Usually people with bust are quick to judge… but just ask them this 1 question…..

would they give them up??? the answer is usually no… there we go then, if they had to live with a flat chest then maybe they would understand

xxx

Thanks for your comments girls .. After I posted my last comment I came off the forum .. Had a think about it .. And booked! Wahhooooo .. Haha .. Im in with Mr Adamo on 16th June – Deposit paid!!! Had a chat with my bestest friend whos amazing .. && she reassured me what im doing is fine!

My mum understands why I want it .. She said herself that she had a flat chest wen she was young and would have done it (she had her first kid @ 17) so it wasnt ever a top priority .. Plus 3 more kids after that shes got boobs now!! Now just got the joyful task of telling my dad & 3 brothers .. This gets better and better – NOT!!!! Haha xxx

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