I've cancelled my op

i was due to have a ba and lift in october this year i have over 5 grand sitting in my account for it right now, but over the past week I’ve come to realise there’s more important things in life and im willing to wait a few years more for my op and spend the money I’ve been given on my family, i love my husband and baby boy dearly and he has supported my decision to go ahead and spend all that money on myself, but I’ll be honest its made me realise how lucky i am to have him he’s my world. We’ve been struggling with money for a while now and he was happy to carry on struggling to make me happy, so I’ve decided i can not be happy unless my family are, and struggling to stay afloat is bringing us all down. I cancelled my op today and i can say deep down i don’t regret doing it i wanna spoil my husband and baby boy and to see smile’s on there face’s is enough for me to be happy. I just wanna say thank you to everyone who’s been so supportive, mamma T, i know im doing the right thing x

what a selfless thing to do..im far to selfish lol, but i suppose i dont yet have a family to support, but as long as your happy with your desicion thats the main thing! xx

good things r gonna happen for u babe cos u sound like an amazing person x theyre the lucky ones xxxx

I’d be the same chic if the money was there, thankfully FML send it straight to MYA. I pic things up in shops for myself and end up putting them back and buying my kids something instead, most of my clothes etc are from ebay lol!

Good on ya girl, bless ya your time will come!! xxxx

I thought about it as well, cancelling that is. At the moment we don’t have a car but are fortunate to be sharing one and we need to do so much to our house but my husband has known for a long time that i’ve wanted this done and I wanted it before my 30th (which is in December) I just feel as though if I don’t go ahead with it now, I never will.

We have a whole lifetime to sort out our house and we’ll probably be getting a car next year.

I have to say well done though because I know the money i’ve spent could quite easily have finished off our living room or givin us a whole new bathroom or even decorated the kids bedrooms. But as I say I kept thinking that we have a whole lifetime to do up our house and rihgt now i’m working full time and now is the right time for me.

I really do hope you still do it in the future hun and don’t forget to buy yourself a little something as well. Xx

If you know its the right thing for you lovely,then go ahead,im so proud to be in your friends list,susies right,good things will happen for you,sometimes you have to look at the bigger picture and it looks like you have,good luck honey,always.xxx

aww everyone thanks i thought I’d be called stupid to be honest lol i really hope i can stay friends with everyone on here even tho i wont be going in the boobie club.the first thing im doing is taking my little sister out tomorro, she’s in a mental health clinic-self harming, and im buying her a whole new wardrobe, shoe’s bags tops the works i can’t wait to treat her, I’ve never felt so good about anything, i was so worried that i Wouldnt even be able to cuz my lil boy Christmas pressy’s it was that bad! Not anymore all you lady’s are wonderful ppl thanks a lot for the positive comments x

ment to say buy sorry lol x

Emma hun your amazing. What your gonna do for your sis tomoz has just choked me up….i hope she gets better babes. Anyway make sure u buy yourself a lil something though chick 😉 xxxxxx

that is such a nice thing to do i feel selfish in away i had my 1st baby wen i was 16 and im now 23 with 3 kids and ive wanted a ba for nearly 7 years now my boys have everything they are spoilt lol my fella knows how much my boobs have got me down so even tho i do feel selfish im gona go through with it because dont do anything for my self really everything is for my boys and even tho im saving they are still spoilt lol xxx

oh im having a hair cut in a fancy hair salon well excited! Then off to buy Hubby some footwear without holes in he he poor thing need’s trainers bad. I was given the money as compensation for being sacked whilst pregnant so rightly my lil boy should be treated, if it wasnt for him i Wouldnt be in this lucky situation and my husband supported us both when i did.nt have a jobthey both deserve to be treated X x

thats really lovely x

Awww chick that’s lovely ….. I’ve just had a reality check today I’m 8 weeks post op and my friend has just been told she has breast cancer…. As if I did this for vanity and she’s suffering for no reason xx

Emma you are very special and beautiful. I’m so proud of you. What a kind act of selflessness xxxxxxx

thankyou every is being so lovely x

Emma, you are an amazing woman!! The happiness you are feeling with the thoughts of helping your sister and treating your husband and little man is priceless!!

I do feel pretty selfish right now after reading this and Buster Indechops friend having breast cancer. My father in laws new wife has just had breast cancer (although carried on smoking! )and a friend of a friend going in next week to have her BA after recovering from Cancer.

All the best for the future Emma and i hope to hear in the future how happy you are post op

What I lovely person you are. Your family are very lucky to have you. Who was meant to do your op?x

I’d booked at fairfield hospital at st Helen’s a Mr liew was suppose to be doing it, it was a priv nhs hospital x x x

My hubby also needs new trainers and all sorts of footwear but i’m all paid up now so can’t back out. He’ll have to wait until christmas to get some…LOL

You are so lovely and i’m so happy to hear how confident you are in yourself to not be going through with it.

Congratulations on making such a huge decision, you’re a better woman then I am.

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