JEALOUS BITCHES!!!>>

God it does my head in, but also makes me laugh a bit, but i keep getting remarks about my outfits. for example i wore a beautiful corset outfit round leeds a few week ago, and my boobs looked ace, and this bitchy hair dresser was slagging me off some weeks later. Saying what on earth was i wearing etc, plus i know for sure my so called mates speak to my sister n make remarks about showing my boobs off etc!!!!.

my sister even said i sud tone it down!! im not being funn,y but if i had no boobs, they wouldnt even notice! . i told my sister to piss off and said ill wear wot i want, plus ive paid for this boobs so i will show them off.

God doesnt it do ya head in! i think its all down to jealousy, just cos they cant get away with nice strappy tops, without a bra etc.

Anybody else have this problem???? i am just guna carry on wit my mad outfits, and show my boobs, int he end i am my own person, so ill show them off. i do it tastefully though, for example the other week i wore a underwired bustier and high waisted hareems and it looked really cool. But i was probably slagged off again for showing off my nice pert 32e’s!!!!!. Buggar um i say! .

ignore my terrible spelling, im typing fast at work XX

aw clearly jealous!! i havent had my BA yet hun, but already some of my girl friends r making comments saying they will look ridiculous because im only 5ft. im only having 340cc overs from a B cup,so they are hardly going to look huge!

i cant wait to do what your doing n wearing fab oufits to flaunt them!

definitely dont let them stop u hun, do it all the more!!! xx

hi janeyh, i was just about to put a similar post up as im experiencing the same kinda thing! im 4 weeks post op and went out at weekend and it was the first time everyone had been out since i had my ba. id tried to keep it quiet but i live in a small village and u cant keep anything secret. even one of my best friends has an opinion and has slagged me off about it behind my back. ive been so upset and wished i hadnt had it done at one point. it just seems people cant be happy for u because they are jealous!! i think the lads have been even worse, they think ur a slag just coz ur boobs are fake, which is upsetting aswell xxx

Hi Janey,

I wanted to keep my ba quiet to save on the snide remarks & crude comments, but when i went out locally i found out that my ‘best friend’ has told loads of people!

It really annoyed me, i didn’t want to tell her in the first place but kinda got pushed into it by my boyf as he thought it would be a good idea for me to talk to someone else other than him…

Some ‘friends’ we have eh?? XX

Haven’t had my ba yet either but don’t listen to them hun! If you’ve got it flaunt it I say! You’re right though probably down to jealousy but if they’d paid what we’re paying for ours they’d want to show them off too! I read on here once that someone said if you’d bought an expensive car you wouldn’t keep it in the garage…. that’s the way I see it anyway! xxx

To be honest i dont want to see people parade their boobs around but each to there own….i kinda think its disrespectful to others. I had 525 overs and im now a FF so im not a ‘jealous’ bitch so to speak. I have a friend that has a very eye grabbin fashion sense but when shes round me she tones it down as i dont like the attention it brings….maybe u need to consider doing the same. If not carry on but just be prepared u will forever get awful comments from these people…..Boobs aint the be all end all

obviously your not ‘jealous’ ticky88 because your had a BA and are happy, think she was just meaning friends who havent had one. i dont really think its classed as disrespectful because everyone to their own and if your happy with what u have, why shouldnt u be able to show it off, doesnt offend anybody else in anyway.

and u shouldnt have to tone it down for anyone janeyh, especially not your so called friends, they should be happy for u if they were true friends.

boobs are not everything no. but when youve saved the money to pay for them and it has made u so much happier, u should do wot the hell u want with them hun xx

Well I can’t wait for my BA and can’t promise I won’t flaunt them lol. Don’t pay any attention to them!!

Its not quite what i meant……

Lets be honest you do this op for u, not for attention off strangers. I agree friends should be supportive and not judgemental but that dosnt mean that cant have opinions and to be fair there opinions are shared by the majority of the country. Ive spent alot of money on my house, dosn’t mean i’d invite random strangers in…its private. Just tryin to give a diffrent outlook on it.

yea i understand your opinion and respect it. but just my opinion is i dont think anybody should have to change themselves or tone down for anyone, especially not a so called friend. and yea u definitely do it for yourself, well i hope most people do anyway, but then im guessing u get confidence that youve never had before and able to wear different clothes etc, so why not. if it makes u happy, u shudnt give a damn bout anyone else. x

I totally agree with you chelsxx, how is flashing a bit of cleavage offensive? As a previous flat chested girl I obviously wanna experiment with different clothes when going out, things that I have never been able to wear with no boobs to put in them, like corsets as Janey said. Its certainly not about getting random peoples attention, its about feeling amazing and confident with my new boobs, and being proud of how I look.

If one of my friends asked me to ‘tone down’ my look I honestly dont think I would call them a friend, I mean I would never ask them to change how they dress, you are who you are no one should try and change that.

Girls can be catty and awful, if they werent calling you because of your boobs it would be something else so dont let them get you down Janey xx

Hi girls! I’m pleased to say that all my friends have been so supportive….my husbands friends even more so lol! My husbands had a million questions about them!! Why are men so obsessed with boobs?! lol. Anyway girls, I think if you’ve got it flaunt it and be proud! Any friends that make you feel bad probably shouldn’t be friends in the first place! You go for it Janey and all the other girlies who love to celebrate their boobies! xxx

Hi girls, a bit unrelated but just for a laugh, when I started out on the journey to having a ba I was in the car with my husband after the first consultation and was looking out of the window at some pretty girls passing with big boobies. husband says ‘do u find yourself looking at everyones’ boobs now?’ Me ‘yeah totally!’ Husband ‘Welcome to my world!’ (The cheeky sod!) xxx

Theyre just jelous hun honestly, Ive got people talking about it already and Im not having mine for 3 weeks! Ive heard people where saying things behind my friends back who had hers done too. Its just because they havent had theres done and they know you’ll be getting attention and its pretty sad but thats just how some people are! be confident and forget about them and do what you want, enjoy your new boobies and if you’ve got it flaunt it! haha!

and Debbi thats exactly what my boyfriend would say lol xxxx

awwwww thanks ppl!! i only flaunt um when i go out which is like once every 8 weeks ha ha!!. most of the time they are covered up. XXXXXXX

so true peaches1987! any janeyh if its only once evry 8 weeks!all the more reason to flaunt them! haha xx

get time i go out ill get my nips out!! that’ll give um sumat to talk about ha ha!!!! 😆

that meant to say next time ha ha

haha go for it hun!xx

hahaaha thats what i feel like doing!! everyone seems so interested.. like ‘oooh have ya had a boob job, can a feel?’ but then call u 4 it behind ur back! ive not had chance to flaunt them in a nice top or dress yet, but when i go town i certainly will b! coz im proud of them! tell the haters to F off lol xxx

I think there’s a diff between being proud of what you’ve got and lowering yourself in certain outfits. I’m not saying that’s what you’re you’re doing, but I can kind of see the point of Ticky88. I think if you dress in a certain way (ie tarty) whether you’re a size 34EE or 34B people will make demeaning comments. I want to wear a tight dress maybe and show off cleavage, but that can still be done in a classy way. I think now we’ve all had boob jobs, you have to realise that something you might have worn before, is suddenly a completely differnet look now you have that cleavage. Outfits can become a lot more sexualised without you even realising. To an extant you have to be proud and wear what you want, but represent yourself in a classy way, as it can so easily look ‘slutty’ wihtout trying. Your true friends should stick by you, so be wary of those that talk behind your back. But if your TRUE TRUE friends, suggest you should tone down your look, maybe give them a listen? It’s not that anyone should tell you what to do, but they might honestly have your best interests at heart.

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