jealous boyfriend…. Started by: steph

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  • steph
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    So I’m 6 weeks post op and my boyfriend has been great up untill now!! He has decided he wants to use a work bonus to buy a motor bike,even though he has a perfectly good car.we had said his bonus would go towards a deposit for a house. So imagine when I object to the whole motor bike thing he says wait for it…… Well you spent 6k on boobs so I want a bike!! I calmly ponted out I paid for boobs with my inheritance money and kept to my side of the bargain about my share of the deposit for house,even though I’m putting down double what he is!! I need advice before I kill him lol am I over reacting?? xxx

    knights
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    No your not overreacting at all, like you say you are keeping your side of the bargain. i have had a very similar argument with my boyfriend about boobs and a motorbike! the boobs came out of my money and the motorbike is apparently coming out of our money, dont think so sunshine! stick up for yourself your right! men are crap at arguing ! Go Girl!xx

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    your not over reacting at all! stick by your guns! your in the right, hes in the wrong! x

    Anonymous
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    I dont think that you are over reacting,tell him you are more than happy for him to have his bike,as long as he can still match your share of the deposit for the house when he has purchased the bike.If he cant then its not fair,you used money separate from the house deposit to pay for your op,so he needs to have a re think as to whether or not he can actually afford the bike,and still match the deposit.xxxx

    Georgia
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    Say that’s fine . You’ll buy your own house hundred percent . And he can sign a pre nup !

    ticky88 2
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    I think your in the wrong tbh babes. It dosnt matter where your money came from you still spent 6 grand on boobs. Yeah he might already have a car but you already had boobs. Hes worked for that money so to be fair he should be able to reep a little bit of gratification from it x

    Hush2
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    I agree with ticky But i think he owes you a bottle Of chanel coco :-) x

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    thats a tough one hun i think you are both have valid points you just have to meet somewhere in the middle good luck :-) xx

    Georgia
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    But aren’t you putting more money in the house then him ? Boobs effect everything ! And if you papid from them with your inheritence its your money !!!!

    ticky88 2
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    And the money he’s going to use for his bike is what he’s earned…….

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    I can see both sides but, you are already putting double the amount of deposit that he was going to put down, now he wants to spend it on a bike so ultimately he won’t have any money left to put down on a house??! As long as your are 100% owner of the house then sure. But if he doesn’t like it he has to pay his share! End of! Xx

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