jealousy…

since having my boobs done i thought id want to have them on show and id be confident about them and although i love them and am soo happy i got them, my friends can say stuff that really puts me down! for example, one friend said “ewww” when i told her my new cup size, one said to a guy oh her tits are really hard and if they’re not saying anything to put me down they dont say anything! i dont think ive had one compliment off any of one of my girlfriends since getting them and its starting to make me feel almost the way i was before my boob job and thats embarassed about my boobs which is the last thing i want. Friends are meant to make you feel good and right now i feel quite put out by them and dont know what to do! xxx

Personally if it were me.. i’d find new friends. Those people don’t sound like the type of people you need in your life.

Oh I have sum like that I have this friend who kept saying to me Ohh I wudnt have it done if I was you and then ten mins layer she would say if I had the money id get mine done, making herself look stupid cause it just showed that she was jealous cause I was getting mine done n she wasn’t and now ive had them done if u mention anything to her she just says ohh ok and changes subject lol. And then my cousin, I sent her a pik satday there all strapped up so u can’t see owt anyway n she said am.sorry but I Just don’t like fake boobs so I Jus said well who asked u t like em there for me not anyone else n is rather have fake ones then none. Just jealous hun tell em how u feel if the don’t understand then there not worth it xx

Oh I have sum like that I have this friend who kept saying to me Ohh I wudnt have it done if I was you and then ten mins layer she would say if I had the money id get mine done, making herself look stupid cause it just showed that she was jealous cause I was getting mine done n she wasn’t and now ive had them done if u mention anything to her she just says ohh ok and changes subject lol. And then my cousin, I sent her a pik satday there all strapped up so u can’t see owt anyway n she said am.sorry but I Just don’t like fake boobs so I Jus said well who asked u t like em there for me not anyone else n is rather have fake ones then none. Just jealous hun tell em how u feel if the don’t understand then there not worth it xx

That’s just god damn spiteful play them at ther own game ‘her tits are hard’ ‘ yeah n ther also worth more than the saggy bags hangin from ur chin’ pick a bra up for them look at the size nd say ‘awww bless’ as u hand it over girls are bitches the green eyed monster has obviously there extremely jealous of ur new boobs so flaunt them in ther face at every opportunity be proud of those babalons u wrker hard to get them so show those beauts off n ditch the bitches xx

That’s disgusting and not what real friends do, I’m sorry theyve knocked you like this it just isn’t fair. To me jealousy is a form of bullying they just want to knock you so they feel better. Fuck the lot of them love and show them proudly you deserve them! Xx

I have/had a friend like that well actually she was my bedt friend, I was her bridesmaid last aug, the only none family member in her wedding party! But since having my beebs done in fact the week befor she kept making issue up! And just went all funny. Also my dad has disowned me which very much hurt but now I think stuff u all there mine and I love them, I wake up some mornings and look down to check I’m not dreaming lol earlie days u know they’re there cos u can constantley feel them. But as for being hard! Well they’re firm but that’s what I asked for large, round firm boobs. I know after a year they will be really soft and squidy. Stuff em hun iv found my real friends now and I’m sure u will chin up tits out x x x

Best* silly fone!

they just gutted its not them withfab new boobs, putting people down is the only way they can make them selves feel better

Get use to the snide comments and dirty looks ladies!! I now LOVE IT! It goes to show they are green with envy lol! Even if they have a large natural chest they aint perfect like ours that have been hand crafted by skilled surgeon! i like the suggestion about “Aww bless” With the bra sounds like somethink i wouid do lol x x

Get use to the snide comments and dirty looks ladies!! I now LOVE IT! It goes to show they are green with envy lol! Even if they have a large natural chest they aint perfect like ours that have been hand crafted by skilled surgeon! i like the suggestion about “Aww bless” With the bra sounds like somethink i wouid do lol x x

Lol yep me too hush I can’t stand nasty spiteful jealous ppl they need bringing dwn a peg or two y shud they get away with trying to humiliate u n by the way uv got nothin to be ashamed or embarrass about it’s a perfect pair of boobs not a drug addiction!! I love the chin up tits out theory. Ace!! Love your boobs Hun let them hate theirs!!xx

Thank you soo much for all the replies ladies! i feel a million times better already, i have actually been wearing baggy tops around afew of my friends who have said things but f*** it! im gunna show them off, and if they say something im gunna try and pluck up the guts to say something back. i showed my most trusted male friend my boobs last night to make sure it wasnt the girls being jealous at all and my boobs do look weird or something and he said they look amazing so they really are just jealous! why cant people just be happy for others, especially friends?! i saved the money for my boobs, if they want some they will have to do the same and stop taking their issues out on me! xxxx

If they say something just say ‘your being a bitch so stop, just because your tits are shit don’t knock mine’

Very sad to say I don’t have many friends because they all dropped me when I got pregnant, I kept quiet at first but now I’m like fuck anyone who brings me down they are just not worth it. Hurts at first but makes us much stronger in the end xx

Well done Hun!! Stand ur ground balls to them all ther not worth ur time if ther gunna b so spiteful… Always remember u have amazing boobs!! xx

Athenarose definitely be proud hun, and take no notice of them, girls can be very bitchy.. I was out with my husband and friends in a club when the rugby was on when Wales won lol and as boys do say things when u Walk past I was very embarrassed and put my head down and this girl looked at me and shouted out o for god sake… I’m no jordan, I had a vest top but I didn’t think they looked that big, but I did feel silly and ashamed at the time as it was the first time I’ve had a response, but next time I will just smile…. I think it was the wonder bra from next lol

Athenarose definitely be proud hun, and take no notice of them, girls can be very bitchy.. I was out with my husband and friends in a club when the rugby was on when Wales won lol and as boys do say things when u Walk past I was very embarrassed and put my head down and this girl looked at me and shouted out o for god sake… I’m no jordan, I had a vest top on but I didn’t think they looked that big, but I did feel silly and ashamed at the time as it was the first time I’ve had a response, but next time I will just smile…. I think it was the wonder bra from next lol ….and yes chin up tits out xxx

They are not true friends!! Dont let anyone make you feel like that! If your finally happy and love your boobs then feel confident and show them off! You deserve it!!! It is 100% jealousy.. no matter what they are saying about you, deep down you know that they are just jealous and want what you have got!! Do not let them get what they want and if you have to, start being really over confident and cocky about them to rub in it in their face, then they will probably stop cause they will know their nastiness isnt working!! Hope you start to ignore it!!!

xxx

Defo not true friends hun, if they were they would be happy that you have done something amazing for yourself! Total jealousy about telling a guy there hard, no offence but what a bitch of a mate lol ditch em!! Or tell them how they make u feel when they make comments, they might not realise is hurting you! People have talked crap about me since school so I’ve grown a tough skin but I’m sure that once more people know I’ve had a ba they will have a few negative comments about it an all I’m gonna say to them is “darling you wish you could afford to have one” lol not that I’m rich at all FAR FROM it but sometimes u gotta put people in there place! Don’t take any crap from anyone especially not your friends. Two of my girls ain’t even seen me since so they can do one in my opinion! I got plenty of other friends who have supported me so anyone else doesn’t matter, dnt let the haters get u down lol xxx

I had this with one of mine, she was my friend & my boss she was saying I was too old & would look ridiculous!! I worked in a bar wen I booked my ba & she told all my customers male & female, I went into wk one day , she said.. Alan can’t wait to see ya big un’s wen u had em done! I said who’s Adam … She said the delivery bloke!!i was like wtf?? I said as if u told him, she said, iv told every one… It’s not like there not guna notice!!! By the way I’m “35”!!!! & thats too old!!! Yeh I’m not 21 but I still want to feel & look nice,hence I left before my ba as I would ave bn para with all blokes talkin & makin comments which I often got! & wk for myself xxx

Rant over lol x

I had the same problem with my best friend, she started off saying she would get hers done if she had the money and then made snide remarks, such as ‘they wont make you look younger’ I’m 37 and look alot younger anyway! I still get ID’d in asda haha! I do think there is a bit jelousy going on as she has small very saggy boobs and isnt aging very well (she is tha same age) I got my boobs done for me, I look more in proportion now and they look really natural! I’m taking them for a swim with my 16 week old baby soon….I cant wait! and my partner absolutly loves them, he cant stop touching them haha! just ignore them , they are jelous xx

Sorry to bring this negative post op again girls but what i originally posted is still happening but with one girl in particular and its making me soo upset. if we go out she will tell every single person who talks to us that my boobs are fake and hers are real and that real ones are soo much better, and put a downer on mine by saying they are all fake and hard and dont move! which first of all isnt true, i love my boobs im 6 weeks post op now and they are much softer and they even jiggle around abit and secondly is just completley out of line and plain nasty! ive told her to stop doing it many times, but she just doesnt. i dont want to loose her as a friend, we’ve been really close for several years but its making me feel like crap! i really dont know what to do xx

Get rid! that is absolutely vile! x

Dont feel bad for bringing it up again, its what we’re all here for. I’m nervous that simular things will happen to me after my op. If you have already told her to stop and she wont then she is obviously jealous and she wont stop because she’s trying to make herself feel better. If I were you I would tell her that you dont want to lose her as a friend but if she values your friendship she has to stop spreading rumours NOW. She should be supporting you not acting like a child demanding more attention. xx

Any person will see that she is jealous so she is just making herself look like an idiot xx

If a boyfriend spoke to you like that would you keep him as a boyfriend? No! Just cos she’s a friend it doesn’t make it any better! Tell her how you feel and if she doesn’t stop then you clearly don’t need her in your life! Chin up Hun and be proud of your boobs she’s only jealous anyway xx

Hi luv, You’ve had a long friendship, but if she won’t listen to you and makes you feel so upset then maybe it’s time to draw a line under your friendship and spend time with people who don’t make you feel shit about yourself. Keep your chin up x

She has NO respect at all I wouid start ignorein her messages n phone calls shes a rude jealous bitter cow by the sounds of it xx

or whenever she says it infront of people next you could just say ‘yeh …your just jealous cos mine will never go saggy ‘

thanks soo much for the support girls, i know i need to say something and i will, and im going to say it like i mean it this time. im just worried that if she doesnt stop our friendship will be over because of me getting implants and it just seems soo silly. but your all right she is jealous and bitter and if it was a boyfriend i would dump him for sure! but i cant put up with this anymore, it got to the point were when she said something i would go to the toilet and cry, i know it sounds pathetic but she was really hitting me hard. god i need to stick up for myself lol xxx

What a bitch! Id say yeh mune are fake but hers look like spaniel ears!! Hate bitches like that xx

What a bitch! Id say yeh mune are fake but hers look like spaniel ears!! Hate bitches like that xx

thanks soo much for the support girls, i know i need to say something and i will, and im going to say it like i mean it this time. im just worried that if she doesnt stop our friendship will be over because of me getting implants and it just seems soo silly. but your all right she is jealous and bitter and if it was a boyfriend i would dump him for sure! but i cant put up with this anymore, it got to the point were when she said something i would go to the toilet and cry, i know it sounds pathetic but she was really hitting me hard. god i need to stick up for myself lol xxx

I have had simular ‘friends’ in the past and I feel a lot better now for telling them where to go. She’s not the only person in the world you can be friends with, theres a lot more nicer people out there and on here! lol you dont need someone like that in your life, today its your boobs, tomorrow she could be putting you down about something else. Shes not worth the hassle hun xx

People will always be bitter towards you when you have got what they want. It is purely jealousy.

A girl i know used to say she wanted hers done. Now I’m getting mine done and she’s all… “oohhh i dont agree with it” SHURRRRUP!

You get them done girl! and you wear them with pride, and if you want to get them out…get them out as and when you please.

Nobody elses opinion should matter

reading this makes me so sad cant beleive a friend for so many years is so thick and insensitive that she cant see the effect she is having on you. no one should make you feel like this, it took bledy guts to have your boobs done and you did it to make yourself happier in your own body. it is pure jealousy at its worst, it obvious she is feeling insecure about the way she looks when your both together as you will look HOT! with your new boobies. she’s putting you down in front of people to take the positive attention of you and put her as centre of attention. im use to be a little like you, dont want to say anything incase you upset her, but its time you really stuck up for yourself and really tell her how you feel, if she doesnt listen then put her down big time like she does in front of people. with her little, deflated saggy boobs – hate the haters hun, chin up. you def deserve to be happy xxx

Next time, if she’s pulling you down infront of people just simply say ‘why are you pulling me down, you are suppose to be my friend?’ That way ppl will realised she’s being a bitch and shell have to answer as to why she’s doing it. Might be worth a shot if you didn’t want an argument, may make her realise? Xxx

or just say “green is a terrible colour for you”

green with envy

Sorry hun but you need to work on your self esteem and drop those “friends” who put you down. There is no r eason on earth why you should be putting up with ANYONE telling other people about your boob job unless you give them permission to do so, or it’s just a playful/ innocent gesture on their part not intended to cause harm, which this most definitely does not sound like!

Remember this: – No one can make you feel bad unless YOU let them!

Such jealously, sounds to me like you need to show them off more xx

I had a best friend like this, she was supposed to be my bridesmaid last year but she just wasnt interested in hearing about my wedding and just turned off. i’ve since found out that she wasnt happy wiht her boyf at the time but never told me. She was horrible to me and told me to ‘stop going on’ about the wedding and didnt come to my hen do, instead went to another brides hen do so i had to tell her she wasnt a bridesmaid anymore. it was awful! and i knwo she will be green when she sees i’ve got new boobs! it will eat her up. funny thing was, not long after i told her she wasnt bridesmaid, her boyfriend walked out on her the day they were meant to look at a wedding venue, i felt really sorry for her and friends had to stop me visiting her. i was so soft! she has never spoken to me since and so many chinese whispers have surfaced about what happened. dont really care now, i’ve got amazing boobs!

I know I will have to cope with bitches hating on fake boobs in the future but I really hope none of them will be my awesome girlfriends.

I am really sorry you are going through this. I think you need to tell the girl one more time to stop and that she needs to think about her issues or you try silent treatment for now until she apologizes. Then all you can do is drop her.

Heads up girl, we are proud and happy about the boobs. Well I hope I will be lol.

its such a shame that the best way of telling if u look good or do well at something is by if people are bitching about you or they are doing plain nasty shit when i started doin well at horse riding all my horsey friends turned against me and one bitch threw stones at my horse whilst it was in its stable causing it a leg injury which she later admitted to and also someone scratched my name into my brand new saddle which my parents paid best part of a grand for with a knife on my birthday. I started to hate going up to the stables doing what i absolutely loved and put a heck of a lot of hard work into. In the end it wasnt worth it all just to be hated. Hope to god it aint they same when i get new boobs but really cudnt care less what anyone thinks now i dont need nobody. Nobody gives a damn if you look crap or arnt very good at somethin.

aww hun, if i was you id ignore them all, for me i dont care what people think, i love my new boobs, and thats all that matters, dont worry about sly comments you know your self they jealous you look fab now, xx

hey girls i REALLY appreciate all the advise and ideas and your personal experiences. sounds mean, but its kinda nice to know im not alone, not that i would want it to happen to anyone! my friend made a comment yesterday again, and i just kinda blurted the whole thing out. i told her how her constant comments were making me feel really down, and why would she want to make me feel bad about something ive spent my whole life feeling bad about and only just fixed! she appologised majorly and said it was just her taking out her insecuritys on me, and she had to no idea she was actually making me feel bad, because she assumed id be to confident to care! anyway shes promised never to do it again so hopefully thats the end of it, well from her anyway, its clear that there will always be people jealous and wanting to put others down and i suppose i’ll have to grow a thick skin to them, but the last thing you need is the people closest to you doing it too! so i agree with all the comments on here, if they arent gunna stop putting you down, they are not real friends xxxxxx

hate seeing posts like this, we have all had surgery for the same reason…we were unhappy!!

any man who is stupid enough to only see the boobs and not the amazing personality’s behind them is a fool!

and any friend who is nasty enough to be so jealous and unsupportive that they would say horrible things is no real friend at all!

xxx

I’m glad you feel better now @athenarose I hope she doesnt do it again You’re right, there will always be haters out there but they just arent worth the time. x

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