just a simple question about sex!

how dangerous can it be after ba, before 6 week post op? xx

Erm, well Ive been at it since day 1- high sex drive 😉

At first I was propped upright on sofa on the edge… Now Im 2 weeks post op and doing it lay down in bed but not moving- he has to do the work! Its not exactly the best sex Ive ever had as you have to stay still but theres no way I could wait 6 weeks! x

check u out linzi giving us the post op sex positions lol

go for it smason but let him work it x x

ha ha and there was me hoping for a break lol!!

i would think its just when you feel ok! my hubby will not be imnpressed if i say 6 weeks!!

haha thanks this has made me feel a bit better! i know i would be going mad and clawing at my boyfriend if i had to wait 6 weeks! xx

Ha ha ha Love it!

Dont do anything where you’re bent over and your boobs are hanging down and shaking about! But I was on top and found that better than him on top cos I was worried about being crushed!

Linzi “Its not exactly the best sex i’ve ever had” LoL

Do you know what really kills the moment tho… When you’ve been together 3 years and dont use condoms cos Im on the pill!

#I cant get no satisfaction#! Ha ha ha x

basiclly no doggy style for now even if u had ur macom bra on x x

funniest post so far! he he. my husband said he cant wait till i get some matching sexy underwear. Do they do macom knickers to match lol!!

ok well i have defo broken the rules but i was trying to hold them so they wouldnt jiggle about haha not that u all want to know that haha. wish i didnt ask now but i dont feel any more pain or weird movement il just say prayers they will be okay! thanks girls and yeh condoms are defo a moment killer! xx

unfortunately i wont have that problem boooooooooooooooooooo 😥 its been nearly 4 weeks since my last “encounter” and im almost climbing the walls gadammit! pmsl im soo not liking this no sex thing, i shall jus av to av chocolate as a substitute :lol:xxx

I did 2 weeks post op but gave up after 5mins cos was uncomfortable!! I just had to make him happy in other ways! Hee hee 😳

nessy Oh my god! I couldnt feel anything! HATE condoms! LoL It was a culture shock!

Kirsties… been there my friend! LoL He liked the view from his angle so at least he was happy! x

my boyfriend wont have sex with me cos hes scared hes gonna hurt me!! gutted!

fawn get the cocoa butter and bio oil out and grease up your boobs, in front of your bloke, so they are all shiney and porno! x WINNER! x

Lol girls! It was 3 weeks for me… I’ve had a tough recovery so far only just starting to feel like my normal self again, still a bit sore but not as much. My bf didn’t even initiate sex, he’s just looked after me and been amazing really. He didn’t want to hurt me either, and yes, on my 4th week post-op, he’s been doing all the work!! I’ll make it up to him though 😉 xxx

lol missmck! xxx

yes fawnlockard nice and greasy with nipple tassles on and a little dirty dancing strip tease x and u will be fine x x

lynz28 – yes chocolate is nice but get urself sum chocolate body lick x x

carmel the only bottom half underwear macom do is if you have had abdominal surgery or liprosuction shorts – so hunny i wudnt bother just go comando.

i cant wait for matching underwear i have never wore nipple tassles in my life cuz i have very small boobs icant wait till i have my op i can buy all these sexy items and actually feel confident and sexy x x x

Haha, yeah cant wait to buy all thses nice things!! get myself some nice outfits and finally feel confident to dress up and be like yeah how do ya like that!lol x

lol x

Don’t think i’ve met anyone who waited 6 weeks, we gave in on my first night at home – 24 hours after op – my fella wa a bit reluctant but I’d have strained more if i’d had to do it for myself lol.. He put some right work into it, more pleasurable for us ladies than them, I reckon

i waited like 9 days post op

awww you girlies are lucky. No amount of grease or cocoa butter will help. He doesn’t even wanna look at them. I’ve tried everything and ended up bursting into tears last night. result! lol! Never mind. Soon i’m gonna have to go elsewhere haha I’m actually climbing the walls!! x x

fawnlockard88 – ive sent u a personal message frm yesterday x

Hey hunny, I’ve just replied x x x

Oh no fawn

Time for the big guns…. Make sure he walks in on you buttering yourself up while watching RedTube on the internet! LoL

If THAT doesnt make him take you there and then you’re gonna have to knock on the neighbours door and see if he’s in! LoL x

dont worry as soon as they soften and start to wobble a bit he will love them my bf was a bit like that at first but onnce he gets used to them he will love them, for now i would get to ann summers and get your self a Rampant rabit lol x x

hahahaha!! Tried the whole “ooops you caught me with my bra off” and he put his hands over his eyes and said “sorry” and walked out honestly there’s nothing I can do to make him think I look good he hates them and that’s a fact. Oh well. Girly night tomorrow. Maybe someone will find me sexy…I can hope anyway! x x

fawnlockard88 – pls dont cry hun im sure he will come round soon hun x x

awww fawn really hope u r okay just give it time and im sure he will fancie them more than ever! but its so hard to read guys minds sometimes well 100% of the time but i just have no idea what my boyfriend is thinking hes just trying to be nice but can tell he thinks they r a bit gross xx

Awww hun. right there with you. He said earlier it’s not you it’s me I’ve said this before now shut the fuck up about it…nice ey! He said it was the bandages and scars and stuff but now I’ve had my bandages taken off and my scars are in the crease when I stand normally you cant even see them!! I don’t get it. So now it must be just the boobs. Can’t deal with it for much longer I’m gonna end up screaming at him. I really hate him today. x x

omg u r joking! wtf! did he not want u to go thru with it in the first place? how long post op are you now? im sure he will get better in time will probs just be a bit of a shock to him. if not u should just tell him where to go!!! u done it for ureself and not him. ur stunning and im sure u cud get any guy, even more so with ur new assets xxxx

OMG fawnlockard! I cant believe how he is acting! I remember speaking to you before op and we were saying how both our boyfriends didnt want us to have it done but hey, we went along and did it for US! Im so sorry that he’s taken to it so badly and I can totally imagine how that must be making you feel. Try to stay positive hun and just remember your boobies look amazing!! You are stunning and theres millions of men who would appreciate you and your new boobs- he needs to be careful. Maybe you should be firm with him and explain how its making you feel and that things need to change…Good luck honey xxx

smason – no he didnt really want me to have it done but i wanted it done and he just had to get used to it. He said he doesnt know when he will be ok with them, and he wants them to be fully healed before he touches them, but my scars are neat and hidden and they just look normal. I’m starting to worry that I look like a freak and my confidence isnt justified cos I actually am disgusting. Im trying to upload some pictures but its saying they’re too big. x x

linzi – I know he’s being a pr*ck. Now hes done the whole I’m going out for an hour and that was at 6:45 so guess he’s out for the night. awesome. I wish it was easy to talk to him but he just shouts at me and tells me to f*ck off so I dunno what to do. Feel sick and awful that hes gonna break up with me. Never thought my boobs would cost me my relationship. x x

Thanks for your support girlies x x x

Omg fawn, that’s awful. I can understand him not being keen on it at first but would have thought that once they were done he would love them because he loves u! How ling have u been together! It seems so wrong of him to be making u feel so bad! They need to settle down for a bit first!

oh ffs! u just have to stay strong, and he just has to get a serious grip. hows he gonna explain that to any one, i broke up with my girlfriend cos she got her boobs done. he is being so selfish it is unreal, definately not taking any of your feelings and low self esteem into account. dont let him shout and you and manipulate the whole process was done for yourself and no one else you just have to keep reminding yourself of this. just be strong and dont beg him to love them he will soon realise how much of a little boy he is acting! … your pics try opening them and going to save as and try and save them under another file type or a smaller type where it says ‘save as type’ … sorry im useless at these things hope it helps xx

Carmel- just sent you an e-mail with 4 pics. I hope they dont look as awful as he is making them out to be! x x x

Linzi – cant seem to find anything thats helping me re-size. Im trying to be strong but for the person I love to be so disgusted by me Ive never felt this hurt or low…I really loved my boobs but it’s making me wonder if I should have just left it. I was worried Id have to tell him we’d have to wait a bit to have sex because with my other ops theres never been a problem. Looks like i was worrying for nothing, he wont go anywhere near me x x x

fawn hunni i can’t believe he’s making you feel so low you live together i take it? my boyfriend really didnt want me to get mine done either, he was acting all supportive one minute and being all negative the next pre op. Right after my op he text me this ‘How are you? a part of me wants to kiss you but most of me just wants to slap you, can’t believe you let someone cut you up like that, what the fuck goes on in your head’ that REALLY hurt my feelings and made me not want to show him my new boobs because i thought no matter what he wont like them. I totally lost it with him and he ended up apologising etc yet still i feel a little insecure about showing him my boobs because i feel like he probably doesnt like them. so i can only imagine how you must be feeling, you are beautiful and now you have amazing boobs. Maybe he feels insecure because he can clearly see how pretty you are and maybe now that you have bigger boobs he thinks you might levave him? sounds like you guys need to have a thorough talk, if he wont do that then he’s just being a child and needs to grow up..MEN! xx

Aww Fawn Don’t know what to say really as everyone seems to have said everything I would.. (((hugs))) xx

Hi Hunny,

To be honest I think he is jelous! Lets face it..how can he not like them!!!

I am sure they are pefect and you are such a pretty girl! Silly man…

Like Khanni says he probably thinks that you will get more attention and compliments and is secretly worried about it. It is not fair that he is making you suffer though.

At first my boyfriend was a real pain, he was great on the day but the week after he was acting strange. I was so upset with him cause I hadnt just done if for myself, but him too (sort off!!) we had a massive argument, he apologised and said he was scared that I would leave him … Its strange though cause I was a 34D before my op so its not that much of a difference and I had to have an uplift. Anyway he loves them now but just admitted it was jelousy!

I honestly think that is his problem. Hope it all works out

xxxxx

Fawn – have you got microsoft office? There’s a thing called microsoft office picture manager, in that if you go edit pictures it brings up a bar on the right side, if you go to resize and then custom width and height it usually makes them right size for uploading automatically, it did with my pre-op photos, all my post op photos i took on my blackberry and just uploaded from that.

aww fawn thats really not fair at all, i agree with most people and i think its him been jealous and insecure, my bf is like that too so god knows what hes gunna be like after ive had mine done, hes acting ok at the minute but ive already had the “when u get them done ul have loads of confidence and ul leave me for some 1 better!” youve dont nothing wrong and uve done this for u not any-one else and im sure they look great! ive sent u my email addy in another topic to see pics if u dnt find it just pm me plse, thanks hun xxx

Well this morning was eventful!

So I was getting ready…and Tom was in bed as he ended up coming in at 2 this morning. Brilliant! He was ok with me until I mentioned I was going out tonight…well everything kicked off (I had been inviting him all week mind) he started having a go at me for telling my best friend about what was happening, she told her boyfriend, who is Toms best friend. So Tom got a real ego denter when ash asked him why we hadnt had sex for 2 weeks!

Biggest row EVER in the history of time. Screaming. He said some really hurtful things and I got really upset as us girls do!! Then after it all calmed down he decided that he wanted to have sex with me. I told him I didnt want to do it just so his friends knew we were having sex again. He said that wasn’t the case so we tried it in the shower. Well it was fine until he saw my scars freaked out and we had to stop. Did it later with my top on which was better. But it’s still gonna take some getting used to for him I guess. One step at a time x x x

fawn hunni, the lad sounds like he has issues. say you do decide to settle down with him and in a few years you have kids and have to have a c section (there are a million things that could happen in your future that may require surgery) you’ll feel bollocks enough without him freaking out over your stitches and scars. Ask him about that and see what he says because you need to be treated better than that xxx

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