Just found out my bf's been aving an affair :(

Sorry 2 dampen the mood girls but I gotta tell sum1

Oh babe, poor you, What a complete wanker. He will defo been missing out on your fab new boobs. I no its really hard but keep you chin up babe. xxxx

Oh no, that’s awful…I know how you feel it’s happened to me. What a nobhead. Well he obviously has insecurities if he’s seeking attention elsewhere. You’re gorgeous hun and don’t ever think otherwise because of what he’s gone and done. xx

Omg, I’m so sorry! If he can do that to you he ain’t worth worrying about. Keep your chin up xx

Babe, Im so sorry to hear your post. This is just awful, especially when you need to concentrate on trying to recover from your op. Try and keep your chin up hun….I’ve seen your pics, and you are such a stunning girl. He really doesn’t deserve you.

Dont let him drag you down, hes not worth it. Just focus on you and getting better. Sending lots of love an big hugs your way xxxxxx

aw hun hope ur ok!! xx

oh hun, thats awful, what is wrong with these men, mine hasnt even phoned to see how i am and ive been in the house for 6 days on my own, he forgot my bday then sent me a txt wondering why id not txt him much.

ill never work them out but i think its got to be down to there own insecurities, your a gorgeous girl and if he’s going to hurt you like that then hes not worth it hun.

he’ll be the one thats sorry. xx

omg Lauren that is horrible, l am so sorry. Hope ur ok chicken xx Do u have lots of close friends u can talk to. If u need anything or a chat message me xx

Oh Lauren, I’m sorry to hear that, everything happens for a reason and just try to forget about him and think that your person is out there waiting for you. lots of love xxxxxxx

Look after yourself, he doesn’t deserve you xx

Aww babe what a twat! I know you will obviously be devastated but try and think of it as a lucky escape from someone who clearly didn’t deserve you! I hope he at least had the balls to tell you and not let you stumble on the truth. Men can really be such bastards, but there are a few lovely ones out there, at some point you will find a guy that treats you like a princess, but for now try and enjoy being single, new boobies new you! Take some time to regain your confidence. And what ever you do don’t stay with him, no matter how much they cry and promise trust me they never learn. Xxx

Well said Chloe I totally agree. just look at it as a stepping stone to find someone that deserves u xx

Here here,to chloe’s answer,thats shocking,honestly bloody men,dont you worry he will be the one regretting this in a few weeks time,the grass is never greener on the other side it just looks like it is.xxx When he wakes up,it will be to late.Stupid man.

We have been 2geva 7 years nxt month. We ave 2 kids 2geva nd he does this. I went through his fone the other day coz hes been hiding it nd keepin it on silent nd I thought it was a bit dodgy nd found this number under a boys name. I saved it nd found a txt this morning frm this girl. Im heartbroken. Just duno wat 2 do. Hes sayin its innocent but I dont think it is. Ive had a gut feeling for a while now nd my gut feeling is always right. What do I do Just feeling great about myself after my new boobies now I feel like Ive been shot

Oh babe thats so hard. My little girls dad did the same thing with a girl. Hence him being my ex. He tried to make it out i was just super paranoid and he never want to lose me and his little girl but i just knew forgave him and 2 weeks later found a txt from her. That was it. im not going to spend my life constantly wondering if he cheating.

A year on we are really good friends and he actually with that girl. I deserved so much more than that and so do you. You have to ask yourself can you trust him after this because if you cant then it will make your life hell and you will drive yourself crazy feeling insecure. I no first hand how hurtful it is and how tough it is. Dont act on it yet give yourself and little time to just breathe think things through and then decided what you want to do.

I hope either way you manage to sort things babe xxxx

Your devastated hun,who wouldnt be,and nine times out of ten our gut instincts are right,and sometimes I think there is a part of us that wants the truth,so we know we are not been paranoid,but deep down we dont want to know the truth because it hurts like hell,if it was innocent he would not be hiding things from you,he would be open and honest,its hard hun,but you have to focus on you and the kids now,all i can say is if you need to chat, all the girls here will support you,big hugs xxxx

always trust your instinct hun, believe me i didnt and i lived to regret it.

he’ll come out with all the exscuses now but you just concentrate on your self and your kiddies, its hard i know but it does get easier.

take care of yourself hunni xxx

Oh Hun What did the texts say? My initial reaction was to kick him to the kerb immediately but you should both sit down and talk things through. It could be that he has felt lonely during your recovery process (which is no excuse) or it could just be a few flirty texts, again wrong but you need to know exactly what’s happened before making any brash decisions. We’re all here if you need us xx

Oh no!! this is horrid! Agree with pollydolly tho, Think about it first u’ll make a better decision that way for all involved. Feel for u hun its not nice been through it too All the best in what u decide xxxx

Hope your ok hun! He doesnt deserve you!!! Your gorgeous!!!

Trust your instincts and dont let him wriggle out of it!!!!

Tie cotton round his balls while hes sleeping! let the bastards balls drop off!!!!

So sorry to hear this Lauren, i know i don’t know you but i think you are gorgeous and it will be his loss if you decide to leave him (what a scumbag grrr). Of course, you need to know the truth first (but whether or not you’ll get it is anyones guess). Were you happy in your relationship before finding this out? You’re new boobies could be the start of a whole new life! It depends what you want honey, you must think about whats best for you and be strong xxx

Oh babes so sorry to hear that! What a wanker! xxx

Men just can’t keep it in there pants can they (well most of them)

Much love chick x c

so sorry to hear that,keep your chin up xxx

if hes hiding it under a boys name on phone is definitley not innocent… he wants his cake and eat it… fuck him off hun xxxx

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