just split with my boyfriend

of two years. It feels surreal at the moment. He moved away for university (only an hour away but still) and I saw it coming a long time ago, we went on a weekend away last week and had such an amazing time but as soon as we came back the problems we left there arose again. Its so shitty when university breaks people up. He has changed though, he became really arrogant and cocky because he is living the ‘party lifestyle’ drinking a bottle of vodka to himself most nights and he is lying to his new friends, they think he is some kind of bad ass and he argues with people to make himself look ‘cool’

Oh well, least I have my BA to be excited about, rang my surgeons secretary to get it booked for the middle of January, I bet he will regret treating me badly when he sees my new bad boys!

well he will only be kicking himself, cause deep down he knows he aint the person hes trying to be. sometimes ppl only realise what they have when its gone. give it some time and maybe you might sort things out in the future. ive just broken up with my bf cause of him lying to me over something so stupid but not first time hes done it and now hes begging for me to take him back, so im letting him stew to shown him im not been taken for a mug lol xx

Thanks for the reassurance and advice Good on you with your boyfriend, boys don’t realise how great some of us girlfriends are!

we have never really fell out properly until now, like I know this is the proper break up not the ones when you call each other back that night and make up. He is just feeling secure because he has all of these new friends who he has planned to move into a house with next year (despite them being quite rude towards me, as they are private education and from a better area) but his mom said he could start an argument in an empty room lately, he told me I’d have to accept he has changed and things have changed and I told him that the only thing that has changed is that he isn’t a nice person anymore. He hasn’t had to do without me before now because I have always gone running back and let him win every argument but today I felt like I wasn’t going to take the blame anymore! xx

well good for you! keep yourself busy try get out as much as possible wth friends and ul soon be feeling better, also helps if you know there is no going back to compleatly cut them out (or speak to them as little as possible) my friend txts her ex everyday even tho hes cheated on her with about 8 different ppl over their 4 year relationship but i think cause shes never cut ties shes not been able to let go. x

You’re right. I blocked him on facebook, Ill still keep his number for a while incase he does get in touch. Its just really hard knowing something is the end, especially around christmas, my birthday and valentines day which are all one after the other. I still love him loads and when we are together he is really nice but when he is away from me at university he is just horrible. I wish he would come home because I know everything would be better again. He told me that I am the one who needs to grow up, but then again, I am the one at home studying, he is the one getting drunk and missing lectures due to hangovers. I think ill just miss the company and love from a boyfriend. Its my first long term so…

Id never text a guy who cheated on me though its a shame guys make us feel like we need them so much its okay to do what they like! xx

i was with a lad for 3 years he went to jail i stayed with him for like 3 months whilst he was in there got treated like crap by him and his family for the whole time he made me feel like i couldent live without him then one day i just relised i am living with out him hes in jail and am out here so i told him i dident want to be with him and it was the best thing i have ever done in my life besides my BA ofcourse but he was sorry for treating me like that in the end as your boyfriend will be and you will be fine with out him stay strong go round to a friends or family members and have a laugh dont even give him a second thought because its his loss hes not going to be in uni for ever and when hes home and you have moved on with your life and have new BIG boobies he will regret what he did and you will have found someone that will think more of you than to dump you for his new student friends sorry for going on but some men are such k$*BS XXX

call the somebody who gives a f*** sad bitchs!

Cali seriously piss offend sort ur life out.

Piss off

Wow thats a really horrible story Daisy, your ex sounds like an ass but its good job you’re free from him, after all, he went to jail and he wont be able to have good career prospects to give you everything you obviously deserve

My ex boyfriends (feel weird saying that) family adore me and I get on really well with them so its going to be difficult not being able to see them too as weird as that sounds. I do wish that I could just be okay with it and move on, I was being really positive earlier but its just struck me and I feel sad, can’t image how I am going to feel over the next few weeks, it will be like losing the other half of me – he has become my best friend but luckily a few old friends text me today and asked me to theirs for a curry so were getting together, they’re single too. I think the worst bit is going out for the first time as a single lady – i have no clue what I am doing and secondly the day he moves on with someone else is going to kill me…

apart of me hopes one day he may come back and be really sorry and we can work it out because I love him to pieces.

xxx

Why do men make life so hard? Until University I really saw us being together for longer than this…xxx

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