See hush I dont see it as going behind someone’s back, but you do and I respect your opinion.
I think it only fair to you and cuks that you see it through other people’s eyes, personally myself from what I read that Tina sent Cuks, I would see that as Tina feeling sorry towards the girls and asking Cuks who is a very prominent member of this forum and someone we all know of and know you, kitty, newboobies, tina and many other girls who are here alot longer and are the girls we seek advise from (im only here 3.5 weeks myself and have learned so much from posts on the thread from girls like you, cuks and all the other girls who post. I only learned a couple of days ago I have tubular breasts…had never ever heard of them until the other day despite having implants for the last 8 years!!!!! Ive seen surgeons who didnt even tell me that or maybe they did but because I knew so little and had no one to ask, it all went over my head and I find out 8 years lately that I actually had a thing called tubular breast and wasnt some freak who’s breasts just never grew!! You dont understand the relief I got the other day when I found that out.
This maybe a forum…but behind this screen are real lives with body issues and body issues go hand in hand with self esteem issues, confident and emotionally issues.
When you have people with any of these issues (and lets face it we dont know who has or hasnt behind each screen), we may be all wanting implants but who’s to say people are suffering from depression or alot worse. We just dont know and I certainly would not like to be responsible for pushing someone over the edge by continusous agro on threads.
If I went on a thread tomorrow and saw the stuff that was written about tina tonight on it about me tomorrow without me even being on the thread, I would actually be gutted and it would play around and around my head all day.
(After my comments tonight god only knows what I will see tomorrow, but hey 
What would happen if Cuks or emily or some of the girls you get on with on this forum called you Lush hush or some nice little name they had for you and then I enter the thread (say I had an issue with you a few weeks ago…which I dont but if I did
and said Please stop calling her that (in the context it was said earlier tonight on this thread to kassie) … now who is wrong then in that situation. ME of course. For trying to involve the other person who called you lush hush into our issue.
Cuks and the girls would not let me do that to you and rightly so!! Even though they dont have a bad word to say about you doesnt mean I dont, (which I dont!
but it doesnt give me the right to involve anyone else into the way im thinking or persuade their opinion on a person.
You maybe close to Cuks and others maybe close to Tina… but none of these two peoples forum buddies are right to be posting stuff about either of these people coz its nothing to do with anyone only Cuks, Tina and the girl who’s photos were asked to be commented on (sorry it had ******** on the girls name earlier so I wasnt able to see her name)
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My grandma who I live with and take care of around the clock Has a rare illness i DEFO cant spell narcolepcy She can fall asleep instantly while shoppin etc! loses control of muscle when she gets emotional she can end up in a heap on the floor slurs her words etc shes even feel asleep smoking &Set fire to her bed {No joke} I found out people was sayin behind my back (Louisa’s nan is a raving drunk a proper wineo!) I.e thats why i dont like Talkin behind peoples back thats just one example x x
Bit different example Hush. Nothing to do with what Tina has said. Lol.
Emily Its one of a million i couid give but dont worry i wont lol The point is its wrong to judge\And go behind peoples back.
Thank god. Lol
Hush what Tina said was with good intentions honestly! It wasn’t bitchy or pushy or even trying to force someone to do something, it was done with kindness to make another member feel good, please don’t be influenced by others who clearly have some kind of ongoing vendetta against Tina xx
wow i missed all this……
i was the one that called hush ” lush hush” coz she is lush she is a stunner and shes my hush!!!
and hun i am really sorry to hear about your gradma that must be really hard for you and her.
she is likey to have a grandaughter like you take my hat off to ya……..bigs hugs to you and your grandma xxxxx
Aww kitty ur stunnin yourself sweetheart love ya x x ur beautiful inside and out thank you! She has cancer aswel ffs! BUT shes just fantastic never moans and makes me laugh all the time x x
arr she sounds like an amazing women hun…….lives always deals crap to the best ones its not fair 
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The best thing she says to me is…(I love you I want u to know that everyday incase its the last time i get to tell you!) Then she’ll say go and make me a brew u little bitch lol xx
arr love it xx
to me i personally wouldnt like to think ppl where been asked to tell me my pics looked nice, ive said it b4 but id rather have 1 honest comment then 20 people lying to me, but my pics are there to help pre-op girls and as long as i like them thats all that matters! yes its nice to recieve good feed back cause it does make you feel good but if id found out that 1 person had been asked to say they look nice id be thinking, eh well is that what everyone else has been asked to do? or are they bad that people are lying? but anyway like ive said as long as the individual is happy with their boobs thats all that matters x
Laura You have restored my faith in common sense :-]
eh you know the thing is i lack it most of the time!! lol ive said sum rite things in past! like how do fire engines get to the place they need to go so quick having to carry all that water… also told my mate that “mosquitos are extinct did u not watch jurassic park!?” and that she couldnt have been bitten by 1 on her holidays and it must just be a spot lol! x
laura why did you not join this thread earlier hun with ya common sense lol xx
i was too busy with my mate getting lost on a road trip lol! we fout we wud go on a random drive and ended up heading on motor way for london haha! oops! x
lol love it xx
I’m very glad she did because it looked like i was bein unreason’able in sayin its unkind to do what was done xx
Whether we d like to have people rallied up to support us or not- the fact remains this wasn’t done to hurt anyone. It was done tO help someone! Right or wrong! It was NOT done to gossip or backbite. aND the person in question is neither offended nor hurt so why not end this now. There is one one legitimate victim here and the punishment far outweighs her so called crime.
it might have been done without bad intentions, but its not nice to think someone was giving a false compliment, i agree maybe the persons heart was in the right place, but each individual possibly feels diffrent regarding this subject, myself i would prefer no comment than a false compliment, its like a friend telling you , you look good in an outfit when really she thinks the opposite x
Then theres only an issue with anyone who gave a false compliment and it wd appear that no one did!!!!!!! Put this to bed now?
night night x
It does feel like night time for some reason
i wish it was…..i want my bed lol xx
I am goin to find a wall and bang my head against it but on the side of the head to avoid breakin my nose lol
lmao xx
Lol I’m not offended at all Amchovie. I love Tina. Xxx
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