Ladies – WHAT ARE YOUR REASONS FOR BA?? ..

I have a little dilemna..

Iv wanted bigger breasts ever since i can remember. Iv tried convincing myself that i should love myself exactly how i am..and to be honest, i cant say i hate my body..but id just love to have bumps in the right places and think it would really complete me as a person.

Im roughly 5’3, size 8/10 and rounghly 32a. Youd think id have no problem shopping, right? But no, low cut tops are a no-no, i just dont think it looks right. And most of the time i cant even seem to find bras that fit. Its so depressing! =o(

My boyfriend has said he will support me on whatever i decide to do, i just dont think he understands why i am actually wanting to go for the op. I think he thinks i only want them done for attention and i think he feels a little threatend by the idea, but thats not the case at all!

Any of you ladies fancy sharing your thoughts/reasons? xxx

hi xdodiex,
my reason for ba was that after having a baby and breastfeeding (15 months) I totally lost my breast. I didn’t feel like a women at all. Same like you, couldn’t wear a nice sexy bra , because I was about 34 A. Hope that’ll help!!XX

Thanks maggie. Oh underwear shopping is such a nightmare! I have so many corsets and babydoll lingeri, i just hate myself in them as i dont feel womanly/sexy at all! How supportive have the bf/hubby/friends/family been? I finally managed to tell my sister that i have booked a consultation today, her reaction was just what i needed! So supportive and actually excited for me! =o) I just hope i dont fall out with my boyfriend over this. I know he loves me just the way i am. But us ladies are never happy until we get what WE want eh?? lol xxx

Hi dodie,
my reasons are very similar to yours, I don’t have sagging boobs & ive not had kids. But ive always been small and never felt as womanly as I would like to. I don’t wake up every morning hating my boobs which is why it has taken my so long to consider this seriously because I have always wondered if I have a good enuf reason to have a ba done in the first place! But ive finally taken the plunge and had my first consulatation with MYA, got my next one with cosultant this tuesday and then decision time! I can also sympathise with the whole underwear thing cus i feel exactly the same!!
I think you should do what makes you feel happy and hopefully your bf will support you if a ba is the decisions you make.Good luck hun xx

Dodie,
My fiance loves me the way i am, i was. THat’s my body and i need to feel good in it! lol. I’m sure you’ll have a lot of support from your love ones. And belive me that will change your life. Just go for it hun.XX

Hi dodie, I lost two stone after splitting with my ex and was so depressed, lost all self confidence. My boobs now lack in volume and even though my new boyfriend says I dont need a boob job i dont believe him and i feel the only thing that will ever make me feel good about myself again is to have new boobs. I cannot wait!! Good luck with yours xx

Awh girls…seems we are so lucky in love, but so unlucky in self-esteem!

Thanks maggie, im more and more convinced everyday! I cant wait for my first consultation this Saturday!!

Littlemissnewboobs, when are you goin in for yours?? I have the strangest feeling with the thought that i might actually have boobs by the end of this summer! Hehe! Wooop! xx

Sorry Helen didnt notice your post there…Good luck on Tues!! Do you know what sort of size/shape you are after? I definately want the natural look, and think i will take the biggest size they will offer (that wont look stupid on me). I didnt wanna “over-do-it” with size but after readin ppls comments on here, i think id regret not goin for the biggest size, especially if they are gonna cost the same amount!! Hehe! xx

I know im so excited, Ive got my surgeon consultation tomorrow but Im booking it for July, just spoke to my PC and she said he’s free in July.. What size are you planning on going to? Im a 32dd now but theyre saggy and i swear theyre not dd’s, they look tiny and uneven! Ive seen some enlargements that look massive though and Im worried il accidentally get them too big lol.. or too small which would be worse!! its so much money id hate to mess it up. Where abouts are you based? July is so sooon xxx

Hey how did your consultation go?? Did you book yourself in?? Im thinking of going to d/dd but i will have to see what they offer me and i will try listen to the surgeons opinion seen as they deal with boobies day in day out they will hopefully give me some good advice!! What size are you wanting to go to? If all goes well, (and able to get some sort of financial arrangement), il hopefully try get booked in for July/Aug! I so want a pair before i turn 23 in Aug!! lol xxx

Hi xdodiex, just wantd to say felt like i wasnt sure if i had a good enough reason to get a enlargement before.. My boyf etc said im fine as i am..But i just eventually decided itS my body so if its going to make me happier thats what i should do! Had my first consultation with mya on tues hopefully want to be a dd/e!! Just have to see what the surgeon says! Soo excited! xx

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