Dont worry about it girls, i stil cringe a little bit when i think of massaging them too, but im only 3 weeks 2 days post op. I just massage them gently when i use my bio oil – like janeyh, and sometimes when im in the bath too as the skins not as tight then. But like i said, the nurse told me to wait till im 5/6 weeks post op, so thats stil another 2/3 weeks away!! so by the time that comes around, it will feel easier to do it. As they will have softened a little by then too xx