men!! so pissed off!

got my ba tmorrow and havnt told anyone but famil, found out today my bf has told ALL his friends, in soo posse of as I havnt told any of my friends and I don’t want it getting back to them before I get chance to tell them but no doubt it will now! i I was Gunna loose my deposit or I he wasn’t taking me I feel like cancelling just to spite him & I no it sound horrible but I’m soonpissed off x

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Bloody men ay ! Ah don’t cancel ! I no what u mean tho I told my best m8 & she put it in her fb status !! So no every 1 on my fb no ! I’m sure she did it on purpose xxx

I know you must be mad honey,but if you cancel you will only spite yourself,you go get your boobs,you can tell your friends when its all done,if they say how come you didnt tell us just say I wanted it to all go smoothly.After all you cant control who your boyfriend tells.xxx

You have every right to be! I know I wouldn’t be happy at all! I like to keep private things private & only told my mum & sister about my BA.. Not going to tell anyone else unless they notice..

Did you ask your bf not to tell anyone? x

yeah well I didn’t set it in stone but I said don’t be saying out to anyone please, he said ” it was a good topic of conversation with my friends” oh yeah nice one thanks for that, kn*b !! he knew I hadnttold any of my mates, it’s one of those thing tho were I dot wanna be ma coz everyone will know eventually but u can’t help it I’m soo pissed off at him x

Thats so mean!

I had a similar situation, but with friends. I only told a few people who I THOUGHT I could trust, then last week it was all over facebook…one girl decided to tell everyone and I got soo many messages, which I deleted of course, but its the principal! Arghh!

DEFINITELY don’t cancel, this operation is for you, not anyone else, let him know how you feel and he needs to understand that he completely breached your privacy and it’s really sly to go and talk about it behind your back; cosmetic surgery is very personal, and I didn’t appreciate the whole of my uni knowing I have issues with my boobs

Plus people automatically judge you when they find out you’ve had/getting cosmetic surgery, especially BA’s, because the first thing that comes into their mind is the likes of Katie Price and Jodie Marsh (I can’t really talk because my implants are going to be massive lol)but I’ve found that very few people even want that, but people assume that we want to look like them or whatever…pure ignorance!

Some people just can’t control themselves, they need to talk about others to make themselves appear momentarily interesting to whoever will listen. Grrrr that was my rant for the day lool x

“Good topic of conversations with friends?!” lol! He seriously has no respect for you or your feelings.. How old is he?! He needs to grow up!

I agree, I think maybeage was a just a little excited as I was his first serious gf and he only been with one other girl before me, so he probz excited to have boobs to play with after 6 year! he’s normally really considerate so I was shocked to find out he had been talking about it! but there’s nothing I can do about it now and I don’t want my experience getting ruined by being in a bad mood at him! I will get him back tho! no touching my nice new boobs for AGES for him!! lol xx

Yeah try leave it for now, you don’t want to be stressed before your surgery

Punishing him after…I like it! xx

I’ve cant wait to get him back !! ha ha ha xx

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