Men! Why Do We Bother .. Have You Split?

Hi emzy booked in at Manchester with Dr Helena Antoniadou. Who are you booked in with? Good Luck with your surgery hun xx

lol when he was out managed to get a sneaky bath as he has been tilin and doesnt want me too get tiles wet . o yeh like i would , hu does he think i am , our 2yr old boy . men do really treat u like kids.

lol i know, they don’t relaise how hard work it is. xx

i no i can have a shower once iv had the dressins out which is mon . this is so not me love to shower or have a bath at least once a day livin like a man at the mo . my man is takin the mick sayin aww princess u cant wash , if i cud id slap him lol

about 4 days i think i could get up on my own. its so hard work. its good when you can just stand in shower and chill xx

when wer u able to sit in bath properly and get up

im 13 days i had a bath first on my knees just up to mu waist and had a shower 6 days after my op when i went to c the nurse but i had no dressigns .xx

shorty how long post op are u now? cant wait to have a shower , cant get in and out of bath yet?

Hey girls had min done back in dec, fella supported me all the way through it and wasnt bothered if i did or didnt and loved them when they were done

We’ve just split though pretty heart broken about it and he seems perfectly fine……….. best thing i have ever done having my boob’s love them so so much

Do it for your self no one else girls

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Hi, iv been having similar probs with my bf. He dosent seem keen on me having the enlargement but i dont know if its just because hes insecure which is really silly as he has no reason to be! He dosent want to come to any of my consultations but said he would come with me on the op day. Iv read through all your comments though, and i really hope he reacts the same an loves them after its done! Im 100% sure i want to go ahead but would love to have his backing aswel!
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my bf just said that if it makes me happy then go for it. When i had it done he said that they didnt look any different because i had my sprts bra on but when i took it off he was like omg they are massive. He doesnt touch them yet as im still healing but when ive had a shower and i go into the rrom he can’t keep his eyes off them. xxx

hasnt really commented . said he will feel them when they are healed . he is quite strange when it come to these things think its jus nerves . it remind me of when i was preg n not really wantin 2 touch my stomach . dont really understand it but he is takin care of me , cant do enough for me .
would love to hear from girls bf reactions after ba?

oOooo no .. Emzy .. Does he like them tho? xx

had mine done and all my man does is complain when i have them out are they are permently errect , im only 1day post op so hopin this will soon change .

I’m nervous too emzy but it’s an excited nervous….I cant wait

shera im booked for may10th with mr k. so nervous only 3wks now .

Hi Girliess .. Just out of curiosity have any you split with your partners because you’ve had new boobies? Anyones partner really against it to begin with but now love your new boobies?

My BF said at the begining it was upto me what I decided to do .. Bcuz i was only going to do it anyway .. But now AFTER putting my deposit down hes decided to tell me he didnt want me to have it done bcuz im “fine the way I am” .. I appreciate that .. But Im also still getting it done lol .. Just wondering bout everyone else xx

hi shera im booked for may10th aswel at doncaster , where you booked for and who with?

Hi everyone
I’ve been really lucky, my hubby has been more supportive than i could ever have imagined, he cant wait think he’s more excited than me…. if thats possible, he’s even saved half the money for me to get my BA done. He’s known i’ve wanted one for nearly 13 years, he’s happy with the way i am but understands why it is so important to me, I love him dearly even more so for helping me finally get the surgery done what a star. I’m booked in for the 10th May and it cant come quick enough.

Hi all, I think that you have to remember the initial reasons for wanting to put yourselves through this procedure.

It’s your lack of confidence and feeling unhappy with aspects of your looks that gives you the push to really help yourself. I’ve waited almost 20yrs to arrange my BA and although I’ve been told that I look fine as I am, I’ve never really ever felt whole, and maybe post opp I won’t either!! but you have to know that it’s your decision and your choice not anyone else’s.

Lets face it if an opp was available for men to dbl the size of their manhood, would they listen to us???? Most of us are happy with what they have on offer and we’d tell them so….. but would they prefer to stay the same size ???

isnt that a coincidence that all our men r “bum” guys…. i wonder if tht is anything to do with our small or none exsistance boobies… i bet if we were naturall dd’s they wouldnt take notice of our bums! hehe xx

I have the same problem, I really want the procedure and my bf thinks its just about looking fake I hope he comes round to idea and will like them when i have them done

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joanne, im in the same boat …. my bf loved me before, but he loves my boobs, he cant keep his hands of them !! x

iv decided now its time to involve him as im meeting the surgeon dont know whether or not im making the right decision . i just thought if i included him in the chapter of my life mayb it would help with his insecurities. i do feel slightly guilty about the fact he feels he may lose me but it ludacris i love him so much and have loadsa of history . only 4wks 2go now , cnt wait

My fella was a bit worried he would not like them as he liked me the way i was but as soon as the bandages came off he was like wow and now he cant keep his hands off them, sometimes he doesnt even look at me when we are talkin he looks at them lol

Jadel002 … Good luck with your op on Wednesday! I made my boyfriend come with me to the first consultation with the PC but I could tell throughout the whole thing he was really uncomfortable .. Ive never seen him so quiet .. When we came out he was like “They’re gonna cut you open” I was like “yerr no shit sherlock” .. And when they showed us the scars on someones boobs he didnt know if to/not look .. lol .. Its probz just aswell your bf didnt go lol .. I went to one with my friend and a second by myself and much prefered it by myself anyway!

Emzy .. I think my BF might be slightly worried I’ll find someone else .. He’s recently lost quite abit of weight (i prefered him wen he was bigger!) so he thinks hes super man now with his new found confidence .. so now i wanna do something i think he thinks we’re not gona be on the same kind of level if that makes any sense .. I love him to bits .. Anytime we talk about it he does kind of drop things in convo that would put me off .. But so far not happend!

Cheryl .. Hope my guy turns out like yours!!! He said to me last night “i wont be able to play with your boobs soon .. instead i’ll stoke your shoulders” .. I was like yeh great!!! ..

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Same here Emzy…I hope i get more confidence with them. Love to be able to do something like that, so self conscious at the moment there would be no way!! x

cherly i agree i can w8 to b able to buy sum sexy lingerie and told my man mayb i could give him a strip tease , im so nervous , i would love to be more sexy and what if im still not more confident post op . i would like to state that im having the op for me and not HIM but i do wana feel and look more sexier

Hi I’ve been with my hubby for 10 years and he has always said that he is a bum man and he isn’t bothered about boobs. I finally talked him into letting me enquire about having a boob job in February but as impatient as I am I wanted it doing ASAP before I returned to work today after maternity leave, he came to my 1st consultation but he didn’t really contribute but I still booked the op there and then. I am now 18 days post op and he can’t wait to get his hands on them, he says he still loves my bum but my boobs are fab lol!!!! I think sometimes they can be a little insecure about you leaving them for another bloke just reasure them and promise them extras in the bedroom department
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me n my bf have bin 2gether now 5 1/2 yrs from day one iv told him that ive wanted a boob job but i think he thought “that wud neva happen” but ony 2months ago my mum offer me 60per cent of the cost . he is really quite and has been speaking to my mum saying that he thinks il move on and find anutha guy. lol i said no babe i wouldnt i love u and we have our lil boy and basically tried to reasured him . he cant do enough for me at the mo , he is a little worried that whta if something went wrong and tells me that he loves me for me and that i have a great bum that makes up for the boob thing .
men are sweet when they wanna be but why cant it be like that all the time ? il let you know how it goes with mine , iv only got 4 weeks to go now and cant wait.

Hey hun,
I wanted to get my boobs done for years since I was 15, when I meet my boyfriend over 3 years ago he was totally against it and has always said he loves my boobs the way they are, so I tried to stop worrying so much and thought well maybe I dont need to get them done. It was only this year I said to myself I have to get them done as I still am really unhappy and insucure I need to do it for myself, so I did and am getting them done on Wednesday. My boyfriend has supported me but he doesnt really talk about it and hasnt really asked me many questions, he hasnt even come to any of my consultations which I would of liked him to have done but he has said if I have to do it then he will support me. I dont think it will change anything as I am sure he will love them but of course I think all men worry about their girlfriends getting fake boobs and I think most men think that breast implants are all really fake looking which there not. One thing that annoyed me today though is I told him that I shold have my operation early in the morning and he said oh thats greats I should get home to watch the footie on time then!!! Men aye!!

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