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This is so off the subject but I need your help girlies . Me n the bf split up nearly 2 weeks ago , and he wanted to get back and take it slow . So I did I haven’t moved back to the house . But I got cytitus which doctor said because of too much sex ( we only had sex twice since getting back together) so he accused me of cheating . I haven’t cheated I just feel like a relationship surely can’t be this hard ! I’m finding it hard being at the house and to be truthful I feel like we are used to nt being together . I’ve managed to make him believe nt cheated but he braking my heart slowly . He says we got to take it slow , but why do I feel we are losing each other . I’m not living there ! Sorry girlies I’m upset next week my op

Do u still love him? and can u see yourself with him for the long haul? uve gotta think wats best 4 u and what u wnt. Do u still wanna be with him? xx

Yes I love him to piece I just feel that if we wanted to be with me he’d want me there now. I haven’t lived at my mums for two years.we had problems in the relationship but it was because I didn’t feel loved this isn’t making it easier .I know he loves me . But I’m getting used to living at home took me ages to get ccommitment off him now I feel like we have thrown it all away x

Try to learn to be confident without him and not depend on him. That will be good for you but also make you more attractive to him. I spent seven years in a rocky on off relationship where I didn’t feel loved. I ended up marrying him and having children but I still felt neglected and unloved. Our communication was never good and things got worse. I ended up leaving and causing more pain to myself and the girls. I’m over it now and re married to someone who makes me feel loved but I wish I cd have learned not to need a man to rely on. I wish I could have learned inner value so that either I could have had the courage to walk away or to have learned how to make myself happier rather than depending on a man. He didn’t deserve me actually and I carried on letting him hurt me. I feel stupid now for that. I hope this makes sense and that you can take something from my mistakes xxx

Believe me, there are plenty more fish in the sea. Don’t waste your time with someone who doesn’t give a damn. x

That’s really good replies . Maybe he will never change maybe I won’t ever feel loved ! Says he loves me when I leave but I don’t feel it in the relationship

Yeah leave it where it is Hun, I finished with my ex because he couldn’t show me love the way I needed. It’s not being selfish, you just need more than he can give. He’s probably accused you of cheating because he knows deep down he just ain’t enough for you Hun!! On wards and upwards!! Xx

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