Might As Well Give Up

I feel like i mite as well give up, im making all the calls to mya and fml even tho im told i will get calls back within the hour or by this time, im always calling THEM back to still get no where. They told me i was accepted for the £3850 with fml….altho i had to have myself, husband and step father on that – anyway all our documents where sent then they needed more useless info from me, everyday was told id get an answer and still nothing without me calling them.

Now today – 3wks before my op they tell me no its fell thru and only my step dad can get £2000 and thats that! When origionally they said i could have £4250 for a night case. So i have 3 weeks to get £1500….not gonna happen is it. I have had the £1500 friend discount off and paid £200 deposit….so with the £2000 they have offered i have to some how get £1500….as well as paying them the first months payment before i have even had surgery. Its bang out of order. Why tell me in the first place everything was going fine when it so obviously wasnt.

They said maybe mya will drop the price for me but i cant see them dropping it that much, even tho i have seen girls have it done for £3050 on here they said most prob wont do that. I have been so stressed with this all last few weeks, feel like iv worked for both fml and mya on the phone everyday. Was supposed to be going to france today til monday to see some friends, luckily i didnt go or i wouldnt have found this out til i returned monday (when my pre op is booked for)

Just want to cry – what was supposed to be a happy experience is turning into a really stressful one. Just had to tell someone

xx

Aw u ok me and my bf had exactly he same problem what a hassle a had win them

Me or him Neva slept a wink we were that stresses out with fml!!they told

Me last thing on the fri nite and

My appointment was yest.it’s terrible a got it done in the end

But not the point.

Dont give up but will give u some

Advice look elsewhere for the cash if possible

There not worth he the hassle ur situation sounds exactly the

Same as mine.

Hope u get it sorted xx

I’m sorry to hear this how awful of them. All the best chick x

Hun, call your PC! I’m sure you will be fine! Honestly i got accepted in principal with my mum as my gaurantor who never has any trouble getting credit, everything was fine and then i got a call from them saying that in order to get the loan i’d need to find another gaurantor to go on the policy with my mum but i would have to completely come off of it, so basically they were asking two people who had completely nothing to do with the loan to take it out for me, how ridiculous, i was gutted and phoned my PC with the bad news, had a bit of a moan and she said not to worry and she’d see what she could do!

Anyway i got a call back the next day saying my original application (my mum and me) had been accepted! Basically MYA put some funding towards fml so they get a bit of a say in who gets accepted. My PC sent an email to her director who looked through the application and decided i wasn’t such a bad applicant and asked fml to reconsider! I suppose maybe they’d take some responsibility then for the money lost if i didn’t pay? Not sure but i know they accepted me and it was all OK in the end…..worth a try? xx

Oh by the way they did accept the original application but only could offer me 12months interest free which i thought was a bit rubbish at first as have just moved in to a new flat and it’s £312 a month but i’m not paying any interest and in 11 months time they’ll be completely mine so it’s actually the best thing for me really xx

Thanks girls, i had a feeling when i read someones story on here other day, may actually of been urs lynz. Its like why talk to you everyday like everythings going fine then let you down so soon to your surgery. I have been trying also to get loans credit elsewhere so their advice is not gooing to help me if they suggest that. Without sounding sad and stupid, we have obvious reasons for wanting surgery and you finally take the big steps to go for it and get your heart broken, know it may sound stupid but its a big thing and in 3 weeks i thought id have my new boobs and a new confident me. My hubbies spoke to them to see if fml can maybe give me £500 more so will only need to get a grand, well not only but least less than £1500….hes also spoke to mya and said if fml say no will they drop it £500 for me as they can help but its up to them basically if they feeling generous i suppose.

Well again was supposed to hear at 4pm but nothing….seems everyone just fobs you off.

xx

Aw am so sorry I know exactly how u feel Its so

Horrible chin up.a really don’t get fml ur rite it’s like they do fob u off.try not to let it bother u even though it will.I was so angry the way a was treated with them it was a complete and utter joke!!it would be nice If they wud get back to u thou a wud Phn them.a really hope ur ok.

Everthing will work out in the end it did for me and am never lucky lol let me know how u get on xxxxx

Thanks lyndz….my mums gonna ask my step dad if he can loan me the rest but he is a little tight lol, wouldnt expect him to anyway he has helped so much already letting me have his payslips and bank statements….all his private stuff really. But would be lucky if he said yes. Its been stressfull from day one, esp now knowing people have got helped to get a bit of a discount and im not….dont seem fair. Lol i sound like poor me lol but i just feeling down

Glad yours went well in the end hun…xxx

Will keep my fingers crossed for u that will be great if he does.no wonder ur down and defo not poor u Its shockn

A really do hope u get it xxx

hi lynz, so happy they had said they will give the extra 500 finace, and my step dad has sed will loan me the 1k

so happy, thanks to my hubbie on the phone, and my mum persuading my step dad, all i did was sit ere moping lol but now i have a huge smile on me face and even cried lol….my son was like mummy why are you crying, i said im happy – he goes, no silly you dont cry when your happy you supposed to laugh lol….hes only 2 so cheered me up even more bless him

Thanks for your messages, means alot – have added you hope you dont mind xxx

Fabby. Been reading this post going ” oh my G, what a shame ” But it’s a story with a happy ending. Well done!!

xx

Aw that’s great news woo hoo

A bet ur all excited now

Not long now and u will be in the booby club chick

Will accept u just now

Xxx

Aw that’s great news woo hoo

A bet ur all excited now

Not long now and u will be in the booby club chick

Will accept u just now

Xxx

thanks every one xxx

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