mother in law!

sorry this is a bit off topic but i need help and advice, i had to delete my mother in law off my facebook the other day as she spys on me and brings it all up in an arguement,her husband just popped round and asked what was happeniing with me and her and i explained she has accused me of useing my babay boy as bait against her and ive broken her heart,i stopped taking my son to her house due to the fact her dog had gone for me and bitten me and i was scared for my baby boy,i asked when we come round could she out them in the kitchen and i was told they are her babays and they will just get upset being seperated from everyone.so me and my hubby decided we would not go round.iether way her husband wants me to go round with a white flag and try to make up.to be quite honest i have enough shit going on in my life and i dont need this what should i do my heads chocker xx sorry about the rant xx

Perhaps give her a ring hun and talk through your concerns, perhaps welcome her round yours to see your lil un then you dont have to worry about the dogs, just remember life is to short xx

I also have a mother in law from hell (although me and my bf are not married, so she isnt quite my mother in law yet!), and she too thinks that i use my baby boy as an excuse for not doing things with them etc etc. For example if i say no we cant make it to yours at 12 because Jamie will be asleep at that time, we will have to come at 3, she says i am lying and starts going off on one to her husband saying that i just dont want to go round. She causes me and my bf a lot of problems as he doesnt really stand up to her whereas i do! If i were you, i would just ignore her (its what i do!) and just do what u want to do. You have more important things going on in your life like you little boy! So dont let her upset you or walk all over you and if she says something out of line, tell her how you feel. She will soon stop when she realises she wont be seing her gradson as much as she wants! xx

just stand your ground tell her you will not go round unless the dog is out of the way, but she is welcome to come see your son whenever she likes at your house.

then you ar enot stopping her seeing her grandchild she can see him just on your terms as she is willing to put him in danger by letting the dog loose round him!!

i am a mother of a 10 month old and can totally understand where your coming from luckily enough for me the only quarms i have with the mother in law is that she feeds our son too much chocolate! but i cant complain they are great. also tell your husband to deal with it why is she attaking you when its yours AND your husbands decision for your baby not to go round!

WHAT so the dumb animals and their feelings come first over her own flesh and blood!! daft cow. Does she not realise that if they are of the mentality to get upset if being left out they might also get upset/jealous when their owner is giving your son attention and not them??? Stupid women. I’d tell her that as well and I’d tell my hubby to grow a back bone and stop making out that YOU are the one with the bloody problem. Kids some first and if she can get so heart broken that you are apparently stopping her seeing her grandchild then maybe she should stop putting her stupid dogs first cus otherwise that just shows to me that she isn’t THAT bothered and SHE is the one using your child as a weapon to try and make you feel guilty!! bloody hypocrite xxx

what sort of dog is it may i ask x x

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