My boyfriend wants to know… *Embarassed face* Started by: msdaniellex

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    My boyfriend has been askin since i had my first consultation when will it be okay to have sex after the op.. When isit safe to start having sex/rough sex lol like wen will it be okay for him to be rough with my breast or will he have always have to be careful from now on? (Once they have healed).

    jaycei
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    I’ve just had mine done and I’m planning to have gentle sex in a few days but the reccomend 6weeks…. I wouldn’t rush straight into rough sex (it sucks I no) and u could ruin ur boobs… I no it sucks but remember u have all the time to have rough sex so u wouldn’t want to ruin ur new assets cc

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    Lol ok ok thanks xx

    The recommended time is 6 weeks :O

    jaycei
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    Yer I no 6 hole weeks! That is long! X

    Anonymous
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    I know its a pain girls but you have paid a lot of money for your new boobs,sex is exercise it raises the heart rate,it can cause internal bleeding in the breast,I know others have posted that they had sex within a few days,they were fine, they are the lucky ones,the post op instructions are put in place for a reason,also consider if you do not follow the post op instructions put in place you may also be putting your right to after care in jeopardy too.After all lets face it if you ignore the instructions do harm to yourself,you can not expect the company to foot the bill with extra nurses appointments and surgeon appointments,perhaps having to rush you back to theatre, if you have caused this yourself. This all costs the company money, And also bare in mind this forum is closely monitored the mod see’e everything.xxxx

    dolly92 3
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    I peobably shouldn’t have done this but I had sex on the 3rd day with a ‘male friend’ who is obsessed with fake boobies, he was a bit rough but I’m okay and so are the twins! Listen to Tina though, she makes some good points xx

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    Hmmmm alright I thought it was like 2 or 3 weeks but I guess not. Thanks Tina xx

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    Good advice tina, I will deffo wait the 6 weeks I never seem to have any luck so if something was to go wrong I’m sure it’d be me!! lol mind if i add you hun xxx

    heather119 -1
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    Hi had sex 3 days after and rough sex 6 days after xxx

    alli 1
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    I had sex with my bf 10 days post op….I wouldve sooner but I was super swollen , sore and sorry for myself lol lets just say the first time was not easy very uncomfortable and difficult to figure out had to be super gentle( unfortunate for my bf lol)…..im almost 5 weeks post op and its still a bit uncomfortable but the sex is getting more back to the raunchy side of things….its been a gentle journey haha….but getting there goodluck hun….

    im day 36 post op and still my bf has to touch them gently…I could not imagine him grabbing them yet as they still healing and very firm….softening slightly but they not soft yet so I dont think grabbing is a good idea….I would say from about 3 months then maybe…we all different though…. you can have rough sex without the boob grabbing though….he can just hold them haha

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    i think i waited about a week xx

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    Lol he’s gonna be gutted when he hears this.. Ahh well I paid too much for these puppies they come first from now on haha xx

    xfifi
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    Me and my boyfriend waited 2 weeks. We went slow. Its far more exciting trying to go slow and be sensual lol.xxx

    alli 1
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    I just had my 5 week post op appointment with my surgeon Mr Adamo! I have been instructed to get my bf to squeeze them as it softens them:D he said healing all going well and can go ahead as normal he also said sports bras are not essential and braless or with etc is fine!I barely wore a sports bra po and found primark cropped top bra pack of 2 for £4 are seamless and soo comfy !

    I can get measured buy bras etc sooo happy:)

    alli 1
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    So I suppose around your post op surgeon check he can give you the go ahead for grabbing haha

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    Lol thanks girls x

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