My dad has to pay amount upfront for me, should I feel guilty?:/

My dad has to pay the full amount upfront as can’t get it financed but not I feel bad that I have to ask him to do that for me:( even though I will pay him back monthly…on a slight guilt trip in my head….what should I do??! I need to book today

hun if ur dad has said yes then he obviously doesnt mind doing it right?,n u r going to pay him back, in a way its just like having finance neways. Maybe set up a direct debit weekly/monthly from ur account to his to pay him back that might make u feel bit better bout doing it x

Thanks babe I feel better now that you said that (breath) lol my siblings ask my dad for cash constantly so I didn’t want to become like that:/ but your right, I’ll

Be paying him monthly…

Thank you:)..xxx

no probs babes u go book it n good luck with ur op what/when u having? x

My daddy payed the rest of my balance off last friday cause he knew how much it ment to me and looking after my kids while I heal just goes to show they do anything for us and supportive

No, my parents paid it all because it’s what I wanted, plus I’m only 19 so never had a job lool. They just want to make you happy xx

my fella paid for mine, and although i feel so guilty that i wont be paying him back, i am treating him 2 a new confident person, and a life time of happiness, with lots of ikle treats as a thank u (i wasnt turned down 4 credit, its my wedding present off him)

im sure ur dad is the same, and just wants 2 make his little girl happy, dont worry about it 2 much, just make sure u thank ur dad lots, even with just daily smiles will be enough 4 him 2 know u both made the right choice xxx

I’ve done the same with my mum hun. I know the feeling. But they wouldn’t offer if they didn’t want to xx

Don’t feel guilt alison .. My dads helped me 2 I got accepted for finance but then my surgeon told me I needed a nip lift so worked out more and wasn’t able to out it in my finace so he payed it for me .. Your laying him back so don’t feel bad he obviously wanted to help ! What loverly parents we have .. Lucky girls we are ! Xxxx

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