My Dad says he wont speak to me if i get a boob job :/

Does anyone else have problems with family falling out with you for getting a boob job? My dad says he wont speak to me if i get it done as its vain and horrible looking. My husband says not to worry as he will soon get over it and im not going for any crazy sizes, just something to fill them back up from all the breast feeding i did with two children. ahhhhhhh im so stressed. I know its the right choice but its so hard hearing such negativity. Im 26 lol. xxx

My family are being difficult too. It’s none of their business, you’re doing it for you, no one else. I’m a tattooist and my parents stop talking to me every time I get a tattoo! He’ll get over it hun, especially when he sees how happy and confident you feel afterwards. Good luck xx

Ah i hate interfering people!! Why cant people just be happy 4 each uva!! Its our bodies & our money so wot right has anybody got 2 judge!! Does my head in! My brothers been the same. Had a go at my husband (for being to soft on me) said it was a waste of money & how many things we could of got with the money!!! Its nobodys business i would ho ahead with it anyways he’ll come round in time. Ur doing it for u! Xx

My dad was the Same I got to the point I was just like look I’m unhappy, I can’t stand to look in the mirror etc just told him how it affects me. He’s still not happy about it but he’s better now! I think dads just think we are going for like the Katie price look haha xx

I think Dads are very over protective of their daughters. My fiancé although does not paticuarly like fake boobs he knows how unhappy I am and is very much pro choice. He even said we might as well go as big as we can so be can get something out of it!! Lol (never thought id hear him say that!)
However if our daughter when she’s older said she wanted them he would probably strangle her lol!!
I think your dad prob assumes it’s so you can have your boobs out all the time etc. times however have changed and most people, including myself just want them for a bit more confidence. Just be persistent hun- if he stops talking to you he’ll soon get over it and realise how they have helped you x

Lol I’m 43. Had a tatto last year. Dad doesn’t know. Mum cried for days saying I’d abused my body. Neither of them know about my Boob job. Luckily I don’t see them all the time, live 200miles away. Mum coming to visit me end of June. God knows what she will say. Think she’ll have a nervous break down. Best thing is when I do see my dad I don’t think he will remember if I had a bust or not. Just dreading my mums partner. I can’t stand him and don’t want him to know. If he does he will make pervy comments, he can’t keep his gob shut and gives me the creeps. Dreading it . So here’s me at 43 keeping secrets from my mum n dad, ridiculous, quite funny.

My dad’s old school and thinks I’m crazy to have a op when “I don’t need it”
Your dad will get over it Hun x

I haven’t told my dad because he wouldn’t want to know his daughter got fake boobs lol he wouldn’t be happy so thought best he never know 🙂

I tested the water with my mum a few years ago and she was dead set against it. 17 days pre-op now and I’ve decided not to tell her I’m having it done. Figured just tell her afterwards and there’s not much she can do apart from have a little strop. I’m nearly 29 and a mother myself so have decided to be assertive (or at least silent!) 😉 You’ll be fine xxx

I told my mum and that’s it…never imagined telling my dad and never will because I think he wouldn’t want to know and wouldn’t ever accept it either. I wanted it to be something personal anyway and not something so obvious that it’s noticeable so I guess I can get away with it. It took my mum around 2-3 years to get used to it and finally in the last year she seemed supportive but still tried convincing me otherwise sometimes because she thought I’d get a huge size or something. Hope he comes round Hun when he realises it’s something that’s going to make you happy because right now you’re unhappy…I think that’s what my mum realised too and she knew I was going to get it done regardless,

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